Friday, January 8, 2010

DO I SOUND LIKE A BAD WIFE? PLEASE ADVICE ME?

Well my hubby and a couple of his friends went on a two hour trip this morning... i asked him what he would like me to cook, he told me peanut soup (african dish) peanut soup takes about 3 to 4hrs to be done... the worse is our gas is finished so i have to cook this soup on a coalpot.... 10mins ago he just called me on phone and said his friends and him wanted rice, so i should put the soup on hold and start cooking the rice and stew... i told them i cant becuase i cant stop the peanut soup and start something else all over again.... besides i am not using the gas cooker.... Ladies and guys do you think this makes me sound like a bad wife?? please adviceDO I SOUND LIKE A BAD WIFE? PLEASE ADVICE ME?
No hon,it is not your fault you ran out of gas and that he waited to tell you what to make. Just finish the soup and make a little rice to go with it.I have heard of peanut soup ,it was a favorite of our first president.DO I SOUND LIKE A BAD WIFE? PLEASE ADVICE ME?
no and if you feel you are, your husband must be a real jerk. because he must have gotten upset. but you had asked what he wanted to begin with, he can't change his mind in the middle. you explained why you can't do it. when they get back they should be happy to eat whatever you have made.
I'd tell your hubby if he and his friends want rice then they should get their asses home and cook it- you're going out to dinner.
Not at all - If my hubby asked me to do that I wouldn't be able to write the things I said to him :) You are not his slave and don't feel guilty about saying no.
YOUR HUSBAND IS BEING INCONSIDERABLE !
No, you don't sound like a bad wife.
No. You just stated the facts.
no, maybe he shouldn't boss you around and be happy your cooking things for him in the first place
if this is the worst of your marital problems you'll be married 50 years
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