How can I be a soft, sweet and submissive wife for my future husband? Advice please =) ?

First you need to find a good husband who will take good care of you and your family. Then it will be easy to submit to him, because you will realize that he deserves it. Be loving and always understanding. Put him first in everything and listen to what he has to say. Don't question his authority. Put faith and trust into him that he will make wise and good decisions as the leader of the house. Obey him (if he makes wise, good decisions that you know are not intended to harm you) . Try not to argue. Ask permission for things, he will love that. Trust me, there will be a million people saying how crazy you are to submit to your husband and that is because they don't understand; they just put down women like us who enjoy being feminine and submissive to our husbands. I don't know what the harm in it is, it makes us happy and helps our relationship. But i promise you this will make your relationship a happy one and will save a LOT of arguments and fights. I would know. Its about love, respect and trust. If you trust that he is a good husband and wont tell you anything to hurt you then there is no reason you shouldn't submit to him =]How can I be a soft, sweet and submissive wife for my future husband? Advice please =) ?
Why would you want to be?


I am not soft, sweet and submissive I am strong independent, caring, and loving Exactly what my man loves.


He seriously could not cope with soft, sweet and submissive. Ever man is different as are all women.


Be who you are strong in what you are and the man you will find will fit with the person that is you. If you try to change it will nto work nad it will only make you unhappy.


I know I have tried changing at the instigation of my ex. It drove to the brink of self descruction.How can I be a soft, sweet and submissive wife for my future husband? Advice please =) ?
Always be supportive, whether you agree or not. (Unless it is harmful to your health or illegal.) And more importantly, know the difference between submissive and obedient. If you know the difference, you won't have to worry about it.





1.) Do not let the sun set with either one of you pissed off. Talk it out before you go to bed.


2.) Remember that love and respect on both ends are important to keep a marriage alive.


3.) Marriage was is suppose to be an eternal bond (';till death do you part. So treat it as something sacred because it is.
The word ';submissive'; is a mistranslation, or at least it needs to be explained. There's nothing wrong with being submissive, so to speak, if a man has a good heart and is coming from the right place.





However, you aren't under any obligation to be submissive if he's wrong in certain things.
are you joking if u are not already soft etc then your husband obviously decided to marry you based on who you are already but to say u want t be soft sweet and submissive is stupid basically you want tips on how t be a walk over just let your husband do whatever he wants simple as but i dought he will have any respect for u if u do that
By getting a prefrontal lobotomy or taking lots of Valium followed by lots of alcohol (like they did in the 50's).


If your husband wants to marry someone who acts like his child he is a very sick and twisted man.
Do not be submissive, you'll get walked on! A good marrige is one in which both partners are equally yolked.
hmm....i do like submissive wife...but whatever i can't find one of those types these days...i guess as long as women dont smoke or drink alcohol thats good enough.
Head to the nearest hospital and have your backbone removed.
You can't learn this; you have to be born this way./
Not possible if that is not already in your culture or values.
Wear a sign that says ';Doormat';. Your husband will get the message.
BY BEING ALL OF THE THINGS YOU JUST MENTIONED.
Just be his companion
be yourself, and if he can't deal with it then kick the crap out of him.
Love him. dont fight.


simple as that :)
shid dont nag him to death n cook for him