My wife thinks she ovulated on the 25th of December as she had slight spotting and some twinge pains on her right ovary. But 17 days later she hasn't come on a period. She rarely has periods anyways which doctors think might be polycystic ovarian syndrome, but she was so sure she ovulated. Can a woman ovulate but not have a period? And can she still have a period even though it's been 17 days since?Periods... Advice for wife!!?
yes, ovulation is possible, without a period to follow.
have you thought she maybe pregnant?
may?
if she has POS, see links below for information %26amp; practical advice.Periods... Advice for wife!!?
My sister is on the mini pill and her periods are sporadic. She read on the internet two weeks ago that you could make a tea with cumin seeds (2 teaspoons of seeds in hot water but don't eat the seeds) and that will get it going. She did and came on the next day. Worth a try I think and its herbal so you are not taking pills. Good luck!
I have never felt myself ovulate...I don't think. But of course I've been on birth control for years. Ok--she could be pregnant. Or her period could be late. OR she could have just had a rather odd pain. Maybe she should see the doctor or take an EPT. She also shouldn't spot when she ovulates. If she has polycystic ovarian syndrome... well, the docs don;t think on this stuff. There are test. Make an appointment with the doctor--and good luck
you know it sounds to me like she might be pregnant..better get to doc..to find out for sure...
If your wife has a complicated GYN history, and it sounds like she does, then the members of an internet board are not going to be able to diagnose her. She really needs to call her health care provider if she is concerned.
maybe she's pregnant
Pretty hard to get pregnant with polycystic ovaries but not impossible. Have had patients with same symptoms as your wife coming into the clinic convinced they had an ectopic pregnancy. They had done home pregnancy tests which were negative. However after blood tests they were pregnant and not ectopic. The oldest of these baby's is now 6 and I recieve a card every year on the boys birthday. So good Luck every chance she could be pregnant get it checked out Monday.
Friday, April 30, 2010
Need advice about wife. PLEASE HELP?
I found out my wife had cheated on me. After that instance i tried to work it out with her however when she came home she never quit seeing this guy. she would lie to me about what happened, leave me, then came back two other times. The final time she came back i was able to find out that she was pregnate and did not know how the father is. She left again, with this other guy, and has been seeing him for two months. She wants to come back once again but now my trust in her is non existent. I do love her. Well, i did take her back but yesterday i found out she had talked to him. We talked last night and she says she wants me and her to be a familiy and that it is over with this other guy. What should i do file for divorce, try again, wait and see what happens. Im lostNeed advice about wife. PLEASE HELP?
she leaves, comes back, you take her back, she leaves, comes back, you take her back, she leaves, comes back, you take her back, she leaves, comes back, you take her back.......... how long are you willing to let this cycle last? she doesn't know if you are the father of her child?!?!
i hear some papers rustling.... oh wait that;s the sound of divorce paperwork.......
oh and when the kid is born get a paternity test and if it's yours be there for the kid, not herNeed advice about wife. PLEASE HELP?
File for divorce ASAP, otherwise your just wasting your life. And when the kid is born, have them tested to see if you are the father.
She has lied to you a million times now, people don't change, do you think she is going to? There is no magic in this world, just a bunch of smoke and mirrors.
Wow. Why would you be with this woman? She is an untrustworthy, manipulative and plotting witch! She wants her cake and to eat it too, and people dont change unless they want to. Chances are, she wont and she is trying to appease you. Have you considered that she is only saying this because she does not know who the father is or if he can support her and her child? She is USING YOU! Regardless, she is just using you! Please think long and hard about staying with this woman...Get a DNA test and go from there. But sweetheart, you can find a good woman who deserves you, and this one doesnt and has shown that time and time again by making you 2 inches tall and making you look like a fool. If you really want to be with her then you will have to take things slow and dont invest too much into a reconciliation, it will most likely end badly....Wait for a DNA test, but if you KNOW its not yours....Then...I have to say that trying this again is a bigger risk than you should take. Its not your fault if you ask for a divorce, this woman screwed you over time and time again so dont let her manipulate you anymore! Leave her. Or at least file for separation to test the waters further if you stay together.
Now she wants to be a family now that it is over with her other guy? What kinda sh*t is that? You as her husband should have been her first choice, but obviously she's been putting you on the back burner, and now that it didn't work out with her other man, she wants to come back. She is only doing this to you b/c you let her. She knows that she can go off and f*ck another man and you will be right there when she is finished. Think about that, this woman let some other man put his penis in what is suppose to be YOUR vagina. And then she would have the nerve to keep coming back to you and letting you hit it too. You need to leave her alone, get a DNA test on that baby, and move on. How can she be so sorry, so many times? She doesn't care, she is laughing at you behind your back because you are so easy to manipulate. Find a woman who isn't going to take advantage of your kindness.
She is going to continue playing you and cheating on you with this other man for as long as you allow it to happen. You've let her cheat and come back at least four times and she may be pregnant with this man's baby.
She doesn't have to take responsibility because you always forgive her and take her back. For her it's the perfect situation because she can have the best of both worlds. She's taking advantage of you.
Stand up for yourself. It's way past time. If you wait around to see what happens, then it's your own fault if she goes back to this man again.
dude i was there....how much longer do you have to go thu it till u realize she isn't worth it. Why wait look what you wrote. She is ****** up and u didnt need that. no one does. Ive moved on and it feels great. Do it and be sad for a little bit then go out and do the same.
It sounds like you are her safe place. You can not let her continue to take advantage of you. I know you care about her but its time to start caring about yourself more. She has no respect for you-don't you see that? Don' t let her continue to play you for a fool. Minimally file for a legal separation to protect you assets. When the baby is born DO NOT let her put your name on the birth certificate! Wait until after paternity tests because you would be responsible even if it wasn't yours. You are obviously the more stable of the 2 men so she is going to keep running back if you let her.
You are the hen with the golden eggs. She needs a father for her ';have no clue who the real father is'; baby.
Take her back, raise her child, put on an apron and get tested for aids each month
File for divorce. You will always be strung along as long as you keep taking her back. You deserve someone who knows FOR SURE they want to be with you and only you.
I would do a trial seperation and make her prove he's out of her life, if you love her. If the love is gone, dump her cheating a**.
Iam sorry but if she left you and came back then I would feel that I was not that important in her life. I would have a real problem with trust after all that!
from the bottom of my heart. i am soo sorry for what you are going through but you need to leave.
been there
good luckmakeup artist
she leaves, comes back, you take her back, she leaves, comes back, you take her back, she leaves, comes back, you take her back, she leaves, comes back, you take her back.......... how long are you willing to let this cycle last? she doesn't know if you are the father of her child?!?!
i hear some papers rustling.... oh wait that;s the sound of divorce paperwork.......
oh and when the kid is born get a paternity test and if it's yours be there for the kid, not herNeed advice about wife. PLEASE HELP?
File for divorce ASAP, otherwise your just wasting your life. And when the kid is born, have them tested to see if you are the father.
She has lied to you a million times now, people don't change, do you think she is going to? There is no magic in this world, just a bunch of smoke and mirrors.
Wow. Why would you be with this woman? She is an untrustworthy, manipulative and plotting witch! She wants her cake and to eat it too, and people dont change unless they want to. Chances are, she wont and she is trying to appease you. Have you considered that she is only saying this because she does not know who the father is or if he can support her and her child? She is USING YOU! Regardless, she is just using you! Please think long and hard about staying with this woman...Get a DNA test and go from there. But sweetheart, you can find a good woman who deserves you, and this one doesnt and has shown that time and time again by making you 2 inches tall and making you look like a fool. If you really want to be with her then you will have to take things slow and dont invest too much into a reconciliation, it will most likely end badly....Wait for a DNA test, but if you KNOW its not yours....Then...I have to say that trying this again is a bigger risk than you should take. Its not your fault if you ask for a divorce, this woman screwed you over time and time again so dont let her manipulate you anymore! Leave her. Or at least file for separation to test the waters further if you stay together.
Now she wants to be a family now that it is over with her other guy? What kinda sh*t is that? You as her husband should have been her first choice, but obviously she's been putting you on the back burner, and now that it didn't work out with her other man, she wants to come back. She is only doing this to you b/c you let her. She knows that she can go off and f*ck another man and you will be right there when she is finished. Think about that, this woman let some other man put his penis in what is suppose to be YOUR vagina. And then she would have the nerve to keep coming back to you and letting you hit it too. You need to leave her alone, get a DNA test on that baby, and move on. How can she be so sorry, so many times? She doesn't care, she is laughing at you behind your back because you are so easy to manipulate. Find a woman who isn't going to take advantage of your kindness.
She is going to continue playing you and cheating on you with this other man for as long as you allow it to happen. You've let her cheat and come back at least four times and she may be pregnant with this man's baby.
She doesn't have to take responsibility because you always forgive her and take her back. For her it's the perfect situation because she can have the best of both worlds. She's taking advantage of you.
Stand up for yourself. It's way past time. If you wait around to see what happens, then it's your own fault if she goes back to this man again.
dude i was there....how much longer do you have to go thu it till u realize she isn't worth it. Why wait look what you wrote. She is ****** up and u didnt need that. no one does. Ive moved on and it feels great. Do it and be sad for a little bit then go out and do the same.
It sounds like you are her safe place. You can not let her continue to take advantage of you. I know you care about her but its time to start caring about yourself more. She has no respect for you-don't you see that? Don' t let her continue to play you for a fool. Minimally file for a legal separation to protect you assets. When the baby is born DO NOT let her put your name on the birth certificate! Wait until after paternity tests because you would be responsible even if it wasn't yours. You are obviously the more stable of the 2 men so she is going to keep running back if you let her.
You are the hen with the golden eggs. She needs a father for her ';have no clue who the real father is'; baby.
Take her back, raise her child, put on an apron and get tested for aids each month
File for divorce. You will always be strung along as long as you keep taking her back. You deserve someone who knows FOR SURE they want to be with you and only you.
I would do a trial seperation and make her prove he's out of her life, if you love her. If the love is gone, dump her cheating a**.
Iam sorry but if she left you and came back then I would feel that I was not that important in her life. I would have a real problem with trust after all that!
from the bottom of my heart. i am soo sorry for what you are going through but you need to leave.
been there
good luck
Any advice on obtaining uk visa for my future philippino wife?
get plenty of evidence, be prepared make sure she knows you and your life very well because she is the one that has to face the ECO in Manila.
Search the web there are some really good sites with info about the typ of question and the answers they dont want to hear.
use 80% natural and real gushing love and 20% business organisation and you should be looked upon as genuine. Good luckAny advice on obtaining uk visa for my future philippino wife?
The interview will be longish more than an hour, and what they are trying to establish is:
That it's a genuine marriage, and that you have accomodation and can support your wife in the UK.
It is best that you go to the Embassy as well, some things might need clarifying and you will be asked separately the question that caused the problem. Usually something simple.
Your wife will be asked for copies of correspondence from you. If you phone as well keep your phone bills and e-mails printed out.
Photocopy your passport, and all pages relevant to entry and exit from Philippines.
Copies of your bank statements for six months - preferably a year.
Copies of your wage slips for six months - preferably a year. If you have your P60 as well all the better.
Details of your accomodation in UK.
Details of money you have sent your wife/fiancee for support.
Divorce papers for all previous marriages if any.
Marriage certificate.
Your and her birth certificates.
Photographs of the wedding.
Other photographs of you together, even singly in the same place.
The questions are fair for genuine couples, believe me and either party should easily be able to answer them.
The visa lasts for a year, but must be used within six months of issue. After eleven months you can go to Lunar House, Wellesley Road, Croydon, and have it extended indefinitely, again I would go with your wife. Both the Embassy and the Home Office are first class for genuine couples, and I vote both the elite government service.
Oh as soon as your wife arrives in UK register her with a doctor, and write on the form from Philippines to UK.
Also obtain a National Insurance card for her from your local DSS office, she is allowed to work immediately if she so wishes.
I hope this helps.
Your wife must send the completed forms to the embassy with the money in payment. It takes around three months for a slot. Before then make sure she has a Filipino passport, I am afraid though that you will need a ';sworn affidavit of support'; to this end, you need to go to a Notary Public in UK for this. It will cost about 拢50 including cost of validation by Philippine Embassy in London.Any advice on obtaining uk visa for my future philippino wife?
www.filipinawives.com and the Embassy for UK in Manila... Get ready for a very long wait bcs of a the sheer volume of Visa applications.
Try Joining the Mag_Anak Yahoo Group! Full of all kinds of info on the subject
Search the web there are some really good sites with info about the typ of question and the answers they dont want to hear.
use 80% natural and real gushing love and 20% business organisation and you should be looked upon as genuine. Good luckAny advice on obtaining uk visa for my future philippino wife?
The interview will be longish more than an hour, and what they are trying to establish is:
That it's a genuine marriage, and that you have accomodation and can support your wife in the UK.
It is best that you go to the Embassy as well, some things might need clarifying and you will be asked separately the question that caused the problem. Usually something simple.
Your wife will be asked for copies of correspondence from you. If you phone as well keep your phone bills and e-mails printed out.
Photocopy your passport, and all pages relevant to entry and exit from Philippines.
Copies of your bank statements for six months - preferably a year.
Copies of your wage slips for six months - preferably a year. If you have your P60 as well all the better.
Details of your accomodation in UK.
Details of money you have sent your wife/fiancee for support.
Divorce papers for all previous marriages if any.
Marriage certificate.
Your and her birth certificates.
Photographs of the wedding.
Other photographs of you together, even singly in the same place.
The questions are fair for genuine couples, believe me and either party should easily be able to answer them.
The visa lasts for a year, but must be used within six months of issue. After eleven months you can go to Lunar House, Wellesley Road, Croydon, and have it extended indefinitely, again I would go with your wife. Both the Embassy and the Home Office are first class for genuine couples, and I vote both the elite government service.
Oh as soon as your wife arrives in UK register her with a doctor, and write on the form from Philippines to UK.
Also obtain a National Insurance card for her from your local DSS office, she is allowed to work immediately if she so wishes.
I hope this helps.
Your wife must send the completed forms to the embassy with the money in payment. It takes around three months for a slot. Before then make sure she has a Filipino passport, I am afraid though that you will need a ';sworn affidavit of support'; to this end, you need to go to a Notary Public in UK for this. It will cost about 拢50 including cost of validation by Philippine Embassy in London.Any advice on obtaining uk visa for my future philippino wife?
www.filipinawives.com and the Embassy for UK in Manila... Get ready for a very long wait bcs of a the sheer volume of Visa applications.
Try Joining the Mag_Anak Yahoo Group! Full of all kinds of info on the subject
Need Advice, my wife submitted incorrect information of uk visa. Should she appeal or reapply?
My wife recently had her visa application for a family visit turned down because she did not declare her previous passport which has been missing for some time now. The old passport had been used for a previous also for a visit to the uk about 3 years back which was turned down because her sponsor had been the sponsor of several other applications. Our country commenced issuing new types of passports in the period after the misplacement of the old one so she got a new one. We had not reported the loss of the old passport because we believe it was misplaced during her move from her previous work location, to lagos and we believe we may still find it. On her visa application which asked if she had a previous passport she indicated no and also indicated that she had not be declined a visa application before. Answering otherwise required providing details of the missing passport and the previous visa application which she could not provide because of the loss of the old passport, this was why she answered No to the questions.
The reason for her current visit is to attend her sisters wedding which comes up in March. Her other family members who applied for the same reason have been granted visas, so it looks like she is going to be the only one to miss the wedding which is quite devastating to her, wedding are a big thing here.
Should she appeal explaining the reason for her filling the application the way she did and apologise for the incorrect information she gave or should she reapply. If she appeals, what are her chances and whate are the chances of its being resolved before the wedding in March. Should she reapply immediately and take her chances on whether the new application will be granted when she fills the form correctly. I want to have this cleared up so this incident does not besmirch her immigration record.Need Advice, my wife submitted incorrect information of uk visa. Should she appeal or reapply?
she lied no excuse she would be fined in my opinion,break the rules pay the price stop whingeingNeed Advice, my wife submitted incorrect information of uk visa. Should she appeal or reapply?
she should contact the home office in person or through the phone and explain the reason for the incorrect information. they can change her details immediately.
i am concerned reapply might let them confused with the previous incorrect applications. they might still use the incorrect information for her application.
reapply with the correct information will be much quicker
She should re-apply, and answer all questions correctly, including the fact that the previous application was declined. An appeal will probably fail, because she put information, knowing it to be false, and there may be a minimum period before she can re-apply.
Also, in most countries, the law requires you to report lost or stolen passports, as soon as possible.
The reason for her current visit is to attend her sisters wedding which comes up in March. Her other family members who applied for the same reason have been granted visas, so it looks like she is going to be the only one to miss the wedding which is quite devastating to her, wedding are a big thing here.
Should she appeal explaining the reason for her filling the application the way she did and apologise for the incorrect information she gave or should she reapply. If she appeals, what are her chances and whate are the chances of its being resolved before the wedding in March. Should she reapply immediately and take her chances on whether the new application will be granted when she fills the form correctly. I want to have this cleared up so this incident does not besmirch her immigration record.Need Advice, my wife submitted incorrect information of uk visa. Should she appeal or reapply?
she lied no excuse she would be fined in my opinion,break the rules pay the price stop whingeingNeed Advice, my wife submitted incorrect information of uk visa. Should she appeal or reapply?
she should contact the home office in person or through the phone and explain the reason for the incorrect information. they can change her details immediately.
i am concerned reapply might let them confused with the previous incorrect applications. they might still use the incorrect information for her application.
reapply with the correct information will be much quicker
She should re-apply, and answer all questions correctly, including the fact that the previous application was declined. An appeal will probably fail, because she put information, knowing it to be false, and there may be a minimum period before she can re-apply.
Also, in most countries, the law requires you to report lost or stolen passports, as soon as possible.
Religious advice! My wife has only given birth to girls. Should I seek refuge in another woman for a male heir?
I'm really in agony right now.
My wife Mirela and I have been married for 5 years. It's been a great union, and she has helped me in my journey with Jesus Christ.
We have 3 children together. However, she has only given me girls.
I met a girl from South Korea who is willing to give me a son if I marry her. Obviously, I cannot do that. Marry her that is. I believe marriage is sacred.
However, is there any OTHER way I can help her get citizenship in return for giving birth to my son?
Also, is there any way I can make ';making the kid'; not be any fun? I will feel guilty beyond belief if I were to enjoy myself.
Thanks, and God Bless!Religious advice! My wife has only given birth to girls. Should I seek refuge in another woman for a male heir?
I'm unsure about getting around US immigration, but they're pretty useless though aren't they? Couldn't you pass her off as another daughter %26amp; move to Montana. (Montana knows anything goes) .If you don't want any pleasure let your wife watch %26amp; continuously criticise your performance and technique. It's so important to have a male heir and your wife is obviously xy defective so press on and do what you have to. Good luck!Religious advice! My wife has only given birth to girls. Should I seek refuge in another woman for a male heir?
2. There are no guarantees that your next child will be a male.
1. Your attitude is anachronistic. You had as much of a genetic role in your children being born male or female as your wife does. It is a genetic lottery, not a deterministic exercise. Whether your children are male or female does not really matter. Love them. They are *your* children.
Sorry to tell you buddy, but you are the reason you are only having girls. Women only have x chromosomes, the sperm carry either the x or y chromosome. If an x sperm fertlizes an egg you get a girl, if a y sperm fertilizes the egg you get a boy. Looks you're shooting y's. You'll have to find yourself a different poor excuse to cheat on your wife.
YOU HAVE THE TRAIT THAT DETERMINES THE SEX OF THE BABY!!!! IT IS NOT HER FAULT, YOU SEXIST PIG! YOU MAKE ME SICK! HOW COULD BELIEVE IN GOD IF YOU THINK THAT THE MALE RACE IS SUPERIOR! AND EITHER WAY, WHETHER YOU ENJOY IT OR NOT, IT IS STILL ADULTERY, WHICH IS A SIN BY THE WAY! and you don't need a MALE heir, money is money to anyone. im sure one of your daughters would appreciate the money or whatever will be left when you leave this earth. SEEK HELP YOU DISGUSTING THING!
No, you have given her three girls. The sex of the child lies with the man's sperm, not the eggs. You need to time your union according to her ovulation. Male sperm swim faster.
Either you are trolling or an ......
Adopt. You will help a child gain a home.
What is wrong with having girls? They are as good as boys. Stupid cultures place a value on boys which is totally unfounded.
Edit : WOW!!! I finally gave a thumbs up to Fireball. Woohoo!!!
Why do you need a male heir? Why can't you just be happy with what you have and not cheat just to get a boy. (*cough* henry xiii *cough*)
your sperms are not macho enough. it's you who determine the sex of your child. you have too many girly sperms. lulz
add: you should let your wife f*ck a real man if you want her to spew out a boy next time. lulz again.
You are a disgusting beast. Someone should tell your wife you are a sick **** for thinking of cheating on her. Then she should divorce you and take sole custody of your kids and take all your money. Get a life.
Assuming the question is serious, the male determines the gender of the child.
You cant be serious? If you ARE serious, you should be spaded to stop you from spreading your ******-up genes.
Reread your marriage vows. You will probably find a clue there.
Ok there Henry the 8th.
wow, nice sexist question there, i'm sure your girls will be proud.
no it was your sperm that determined the sex of those girls!!!!!!!!!!
no but she might seek another man as U deside on the gender not her
Please remember it is the male's sperm that are the great decision maker of whether the child is male or female. So, since you are at fault, what good would it do to go to another woman? It is your wife that needs to look for another man!
My wife Mirela and I have been married for 5 years. It's been a great union, and she has helped me in my journey with Jesus Christ.
We have 3 children together. However, she has only given me girls.
I met a girl from South Korea who is willing to give me a son if I marry her. Obviously, I cannot do that. Marry her that is. I believe marriage is sacred.
However, is there any OTHER way I can help her get citizenship in return for giving birth to my son?
Also, is there any way I can make ';making the kid'; not be any fun? I will feel guilty beyond belief if I were to enjoy myself.
Thanks, and God Bless!Religious advice! My wife has only given birth to girls. Should I seek refuge in another woman for a male heir?
I'm unsure about getting around US immigration, but they're pretty useless though aren't they? Couldn't you pass her off as another daughter %26amp; move to Montana. (Montana knows anything goes) .If you don't want any pleasure let your wife watch %26amp; continuously criticise your performance and technique. It's so important to have a male heir and your wife is obviously xy defective so press on and do what you have to. Good luck!Religious advice! My wife has only given birth to girls. Should I seek refuge in another woman for a male heir?
2. There are no guarantees that your next child will be a male.
1. Your attitude is anachronistic. You had as much of a genetic role in your children being born male or female as your wife does. It is a genetic lottery, not a deterministic exercise. Whether your children are male or female does not really matter. Love them. They are *your* children.
Sorry to tell you buddy, but you are the reason you are only having girls. Women only have x chromosomes, the sperm carry either the x or y chromosome. If an x sperm fertlizes an egg you get a girl, if a y sperm fertilizes the egg you get a boy. Looks you're shooting y's. You'll have to find yourself a different poor excuse to cheat on your wife.
YOU HAVE THE TRAIT THAT DETERMINES THE SEX OF THE BABY!!!! IT IS NOT HER FAULT, YOU SEXIST PIG! YOU MAKE ME SICK! HOW COULD BELIEVE IN GOD IF YOU THINK THAT THE MALE RACE IS SUPERIOR! AND EITHER WAY, WHETHER YOU ENJOY IT OR NOT, IT IS STILL ADULTERY, WHICH IS A SIN BY THE WAY! and you don't need a MALE heir, money is money to anyone. im sure one of your daughters would appreciate the money or whatever will be left when you leave this earth. SEEK HELP YOU DISGUSTING THING!
No, you have given her three girls. The sex of the child lies with the man's sperm, not the eggs. You need to time your union according to her ovulation. Male sperm swim faster.
Either you are trolling or an ......
Adopt. You will help a child gain a home.
What is wrong with having girls? They are as good as boys. Stupid cultures place a value on boys which is totally unfounded.
Edit : WOW!!! I finally gave a thumbs up to Fireball. Woohoo!!!
Why do you need a male heir? Why can't you just be happy with what you have and not cheat just to get a boy. (*cough* henry xiii *cough*)
your sperms are not macho enough. it's you who determine the sex of your child. you have too many girly sperms. lulz
add: you should let your wife f*ck a real man if you want her to spew out a boy next time. lulz again.
You are a disgusting beast. Someone should tell your wife you are a sick **** for thinking of cheating on her. Then she should divorce you and take sole custody of your kids and take all your money. Get a life.
Assuming the question is serious, the male determines the gender of the child.
You cant be serious? If you ARE serious, you should be spaded to stop you from spreading your ******-up genes.
Reread your marriage vows. You will probably find a clue there.
Ok there Henry the 8th.
wow, nice sexist question there, i'm sure your girls will be proud.
no it was your sperm that determined the sex of those girls!!!!!!!!!!
no but she might seek another man as U deside on the gender not her
Please remember it is the male's sperm that are the great decision maker of whether the child is male or female. So, since you are at fault, what good would it do to go to another woman? It is your wife that needs to look for another man!
Relationship advice 4 wife?
I have been married for less than 2months. (together 3yrs)
We have a baby together who is 5months.
I am a full time student in nursing program, which I love.
My husband is a waiter. He used to be obsessed with xbox/friends. I got him to realize it, and he gave it up. . .
Now he hangs out with ppl from work. He has done coke 2x. I let it go, I only asked for him to stop hanging out with those ppl. And he refuses.
We got married b/c he was supposed to be going into air force. He changed his mind, now I don't have health insurance and will not have insurance till I graduate.
I'm lost. I love him, but he won't be responsible. I pay for everything when it comes to our baby. She is the most important thing to me and I would do anything for her. . .
He won't stop his bad habits, he blames all our fights on me, I just am trying to get him going in a direction
what should i do? Relationship advice 4 wife?
With all the confusion your husband is causing you cannot be a good mother. Your attention and focus is not where it should be and you know that's on yourself and your child. Drug addicts, even casual ones can drag you through the mud and not care about the consequences they cause. If he's showing you inconsistencies, and irresponsibility it's time to go, leave before your child gets neglected. You can not raise him and a new born. You can do bad by yourself. and you are doing just that; You just got some guy hanging around watching you do bad. ';Father of the child'; is not a title that should keep you in this relationship with him. Your already doing life by yourself, be by yourself, you'd be surprised how much help you can will get.Relationship advice 4 wife?
I recognize you have a relationship problem that is bigger than the lack of health insurance, but if that is something that concerns you, try joining the National Student Nurses Association. You may research them at www.nsna.org or call 718-210-0705. They have lots of member benefits, including student health insurance. Their membership fee is affordable.Once you are a member you may apply for their health plan through UnitedHealthcare StudentResources.
As hard as it may seem, saying goodbye is sometimes the best option. He is not part of your future because he is not actively working to improve the lives of the people that he is responsible for. It may take you leaving for him to be shocked into change, but it may be too late. But waiting for change that is not going to happen is futile. File for divorce and get all of the child support that is legal. That is the only way he will ever take the financial obligation of his child.
hate to be the bearer of bad news but you married him for the wrong reason in the first place. Never marry someone just because you think they are going somewhere. Make sure their already there before you commit to something like marriage. Secondly, many people who use coke find it absolutely exhilarating. And, will continue to use if its right in front of them. I can see why yall are fighting true enough. So I guess that decisions up to you.
i know a woman who is still married to a guy who does that and he always says that he will quit---they have 3 kids together and for years i have watched them struggle with everything --i mean it is ti the point that she doesn't even go by his last name-----
sometimes you just have him let him run his course...
you can''t get him going anywhere. he controls him, you control you.
decide what you are willing to put up with. let him know. he has a choice. use empathy and communicate by empathizing with his feelings and needs. that will cause him to be more empathetic with your feelings and needs. try to understand what he gets from hanging out with those people and why he enjoys it. there is your key, finding out what he needs. if you meet his needs he will gravitate to you. if you don't he will gravitate to those who do.
he needs to stop unless he wants to loose his baby. he can't be having that kind of crap around the house. maybe you should give him a lesson and leave so he can realize that you are being serious about that crap. that really sucks to know that you have that crap around your child. it makes me believe that your husband doesn't care for her or you.
You answered it...your baby is the most important thing to you, he won't change his ways......leave and don't look back. It's better to do it sooner rather than later. Who knows that may be the wake up call he needs.
who you love and who you 'should' love are a matter of choice. In this case it's a bad choice.
The only answer is to correct that choice. You can't change anyone.
It is a Common situation many people have met,calm down,and check the resource i found useful.http://www.healthinsurance-onlinetips.in鈥?/a>
He must contribute financially for his child or I would just tell him to get out. If you are doing it all by yourself, what do you need him around for? Just to drag you down? Who needs that?
Get out while you can your baby is your priorty maybe seperate for a while and see if he can be responsible at all
He needs help, or get out and make a life for yourself, it will not get any better, he is not going to change.
Sounds as if you two need to trying counseling...maybe your husband is going through something that he doesn't know how to tell you.
He has to be willing to change all by himself. He did it in the past with his x-box...so you know he is capable of it..give him some good advice...and he will come around
Leslie :) has the right answer. I have nothing else to add.
other than your hubby needs to grow up.
You made a mistake if you thought marrying him was going to change him or somehow make him more responsible. He is the same jerk he was three months ago. He never changed. He just did what he had to do to shut you up for a while/that includes the marriage. He's a boy in a man's suit. You need to concentrate on you and your baby. He is dead weight. If you left him today, he will be in the same place five years from now. We can't be right 100% of the time. Face the fact that your judgement was a little cloudy , finish school, and move on (not necessarily in that order). You already have one child to take care of...you really do not need two.
ps He switches the blame so you will feel guilty and have sympathy for him because of your ';evil'; ways:)...Move on, girl!
I will never understand why people commit to another based on what they think the other may become rather than what they truly are. Why on Earth would anybody be so high on themselves that they would be convinced that they could change somebody when nothing else ever has? You committed to a person who was/is clearly irresponsible, at the very least, and the only thing he has done has traded one vice for another. Furthermore, why would you subject a precious child to this lunacy? Take some responsibility for your own actions and the consequences thereof.
We have a baby together who is 5months.
I am a full time student in nursing program, which I love.
My husband is a waiter. He used to be obsessed with xbox/friends. I got him to realize it, and he gave it up. . .
Now he hangs out with ppl from work. He has done coke 2x. I let it go, I only asked for him to stop hanging out with those ppl. And he refuses.
We got married b/c he was supposed to be going into air force. He changed his mind, now I don't have health insurance and will not have insurance till I graduate.
I'm lost. I love him, but he won't be responsible. I pay for everything when it comes to our baby. She is the most important thing to me and I would do anything for her. . .
He won't stop his bad habits, he blames all our fights on me, I just am trying to get him going in a direction
what should i do? Relationship advice 4 wife?
With all the confusion your husband is causing you cannot be a good mother. Your attention and focus is not where it should be and you know that's on yourself and your child. Drug addicts, even casual ones can drag you through the mud and not care about the consequences they cause. If he's showing you inconsistencies, and irresponsibility it's time to go, leave before your child gets neglected. You can not raise him and a new born. You can do bad by yourself. and you are doing just that; You just got some guy hanging around watching you do bad. ';Father of the child'; is not a title that should keep you in this relationship with him. Your already doing life by yourself, be by yourself, you'd be surprised how much help you can will get.Relationship advice 4 wife?
I recognize you have a relationship problem that is bigger than the lack of health insurance, but if that is something that concerns you, try joining the National Student Nurses Association. You may research them at www.nsna.org or call 718-210-0705. They have lots of member benefits, including student health insurance. Their membership fee is affordable.Once you are a member you may apply for their health plan through UnitedHealthcare StudentResources.
As hard as it may seem, saying goodbye is sometimes the best option. He is not part of your future because he is not actively working to improve the lives of the people that he is responsible for. It may take you leaving for him to be shocked into change, but it may be too late. But waiting for change that is not going to happen is futile. File for divorce and get all of the child support that is legal. That is the only way he will ever take the financial obligation of his child.
hate to be the bearer of bad news but you married him for the wrong reason in the first place. Never marry someone just because you think they are going somewhere. Make sure their already there before you commit to something like marriage. Secondly, many people who use coke find it absolutely exhilarating. And, will continue to use if its right in front of them. I can see why yall are fighting true enough. So I guess that decisions up to you.
i know a woman who is still married to a guy who does that and he always says that he will quit---they have 3 kids together and for years i have watched them struggle with everything --i mean it is ti the point that she doesn't even go by his last name-----
sometimes you just have him let him run his course...
you can''t get him going anywhere. he controls him, you control you.
decide what you are willing to put up with. let him know. he has a choice. use empathy and communicate by empathizing with his feelings and needs. that will cause him to be more empathetic with your feelings and needs. try to understand what he gets from hanging out with those people and why he enjoys it. there is your key, finding out what he needs. if you meet his needs he will gravitate to you. if you don't he will gravitate to those who do.
he needs to stop unless he wants to loose his baby. he can't be having that kind of crap around the house. maybe you should give him a lesson and leave so he can realize that you are being serious about that crap. that really sucks to know that you have that crap around your child. it makes me believe that your husband doesn't care for her or you.
You answered it...your baby is the most important thing to you, he won't change his ways......leave and don't look back. It's better to do it sooner rather than later. Who knows that may be the wake up call he needs.
who you love and who you 'should' love are a matter of choice. In this case it's a bad choice.
The only answer is to correct that choice. You can't change anyone.
It is a Common situation many people have met,calm down,and check the resource i found useful.http://www.healthinsurance-onlinetips.in鈥?/a>
He must contribute financially for his child or I would just tell him to get out. If you are doing it all by yourself, what do you need him around for? Just to drag you down? Who needs that?
Get out while you can your baby is your priorty maybe seperate for a while and see if he can be responsible at all
He needs help, or get out and make a life for yourself, it will not get any better, he is not going to change.
Sounds as if you two need to trying counseling...maybe your husband is going through something that he doesn't know how to tell you.
He has to be willing to change all by himself. He did it in the past with his x-box...so you know he is capable of it..give him some good advice...and he will come around
Leslie :) has the right answer. I have nothing else to add.
other than your hubby needs to grow up.
You made a mistake if you thought marrying him was going to change him or somehow make him more responsible. He is the same jerk he was three months ago. He never changed. He just did what he had to do to shut you up for a while/that includes the marriage. He's a boy in a man's suit. You need to concentrate on you and your baby. He is dead weight. If you left him today, he will be in the same place five years from now. We can't be right 100% of the time. Face the fact that your judgement was a little cloudy , finish school, and move on (not necessarily in that order). You already have one child to take care of...you really do not need two.
ps He switches the blame so you will feel guilty and have sympathy for him because of your ';evil'; ways:)...Move on, girl!
I will never understand why people commit to another based on what they think the other may become rather than what they truly are. Why on Earth would anybody be so high on themselves that they would be convinced that they could change somebody when nothing else ever has? You committed to a person who was/is clearly irresponsible, at the very least, and the only thing he has done has traded one vice for another. Furthermore, why would you subject a precious child to this lunacy? Take some responsibility for your own actions and the consequences thereof.
Any advice for my super tired wife? She's on estradiol and prometrium.?
My wife and I are trying to get pregnant after 2 miscarriages and our doctor has put her on estradiol and prometrium. But now she's so tired, she can barely stay awake and cannot work! Any advice? Thank you!Any advice for my super tired wife? She's on estradiol and prometrium.?
Sleep Sleep Sleep . when you are on those drugs nothing makes you less tired, no ammount of coffe could ever work. Let her sleep and do anything you can to help her relaxAny advice for my super tired wife? She's on estradiol and prometrium.?
she needs to talk to her doctor she could be having post partum depression, and yes you can get that after miscarriages I have had 6 miscarriages and i got really depressed. Talk to her doctor and let him know what is going on .
She is on two different types of hormone medications. I know from personal experience prometrium makes you very tired as it is. The other may be excelerating the effects of the prometrium. This has NOTHING to do with depression.
Sleep Sleep Sleep . when you are on those drugs nothing makes you less tired, no ammount of coffe could ever work. Let her sleep and do anything you can to help her relaxAny advice for my super tired wife? She's on estradiol and prometrium.?
she needs to talk to her doctor she could be having post partum depression, and yes you can get that after miscarriages I have had 6 miscarriages and i got really depressed. Talk to her doctor and let him know what is going on .
She is on two different types of hormone medications. I know from personal experience prometrium makes you very tired as it is. The other may be excelerating the effects of the prometrium. This has NOTHING to do with depression.
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