Questions guys!!!!!! wife needs advice on ';insecurity';?

how would you want your wife to react or be in this situation. lets say you have a beautiful wife and athletic. and she is feling insecure about other women in the room or about running into an ex of yous. (your a pretty cute guy too) whats more attratcive to you guys....would you rather her fake being confident in that situatin or telly ou she feels insecure? the reason i ask is becasue whenever i have felt and acted on being insecure it really bugged my husband...he hated it when i actdo n my insecurity...i dont know why...so do you all think i should asct really confident when im faced with an ex or somthing? my husband is a really confident man...and i am very confident too...but im talking about certain situations.........whats best?Questions guys!!!!!! wife needs advice on ';insecurity';?
Please..... Asking a beautiful woman to feel secure no mater what isn't going to cut it... You're man might be a really confident person however he isn't quite aware of how to deal with a beautiful woman at times when she does feel insecure.





Of course I think you should act confident but I also expect your husband to be there for you when you're a bit insecure - I think that's best.





So you acted on your insecurity... (Wonder what you said or did...) and he's not happy about it. If it wasn't obvious to him you should have told him.... I would want you to tell me so I could have been more supportive at the time....


Questions guys!!!!!! wife needs advice on ';insecurity';?
Are you acting immature when you display your insecurity? What reason has he given you to be insecure, or does he reassure you that he isn't going to leave you for another woman. Your insecurities sound to me like they spawn from a lack of trust in your husband. For whatever reason you are insecure around these other women and for what reason: You worry they are better for your man than you are..right? The reason guys get irritated are 1. a girl with insecurities like these CAN, not saying all do, display immature reactions and 2. It makes us feel like you don't trust us; therefore, we get irritated. My wife does the same things and it's very aggrivating. She just doesn't get it: just because your man is attractive doesn't mean he's going anywhere. Good luck!
thank you for asking this question because i've thought the same thing at times. We are both an attractive couple, i mean I'm no hally berry and he's no matthew mconohay (the guy that played in the wedding planner and fools gold) but we do look good.





sometimes i wonder if the ';other'; person has it up on me, or has something better than I do REGARDLESS IF WE ARE MARRIED. yeah he married me BUT there's LOTS of temptation floating around there. and just cuz ur married don't mean u aint tempted by the other person
I think most men don't like when their wives are insecure. I know mine doesn't. I found that acting like I have more confidence makes him feel better and it's been better for our marriage and eventually it actually gives me more confidence where I end up not having to fake it at all!
Why should you feel insecure when you meet one of his ex's, when he married you, not her?


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Be the real you at the time never be something your not