Can anyone suggest me names of Immigration layer working near washington area?I am looking for an advice from an immegration layer in regard to filing I-130 for my wife
This is a link to the washington area (king county) Bar association, Lawyers group.
http://www.kcba.org/lrs/
Link to Immigration lawyers.
Goggle immigration lawyer and do some research.
I apologize if I could not recommend someone specific
I am looking for an advice from an immegration layer in regard to filing I-130 for my wife
http://www.ailalawyer.com/
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Am a mother of two and now married to a man who has 7children and wife what advice can u give me.?
I lost my husband 6yrs ago now i got a companion and we have got a daughter. All the children when they come back for holidays they stay with me their mother is staying in other home far from where iam. What advice r u giving me most especially regarding my two sons and the daughter. The late's family members are up country and i get no support from them . The boys are in their teen ages where as the daughter is months.Am a mother of two and now married to a man who has 7children and wife what advice can u give me.?
7 children
FCUKS SAKE
someone chop that pricks willy off please
I bet us taxpayers fork the bill for those snotty kids tooAm a mother of two and now married to a man who has 7children and wife what advice can u give me.?
You say you are now married to a man who has 7 children and a WIFE? I think you are committing bigamy - a prison-able offence.
Then you go on the say companion, so perhaps you aren't committing bigamy after all?
Just talk to your companion/husband and say you don't have enough room for all eight kids. They'll have to come in smaller 'batches'. Three one holiday and the other four the next holiday.
well ithink u should treat all the kids as your own if u want to be in his life then well they are apart of him !!
i hope that he treats your kids that are not his right
if other family dosnot want to help or be there then when they need u rember what they have not done 4 u
i hope his kids treat u right and if u have a baby togeather she is luck to have a BIG family and lots of people to help her in life . the teens make sure u invavle them with your little one so they feel like they are needed
BEST OF LUCK TO U !!!!
I have one question for you : why would you deal with a man who has 7 children? You have 3.
What kind of support do you want the family to do? You brought someone else in the situation so they think your current partner should handle your situation.
Be careful if the kids are in teen years and you have teens of your own. Though you are involved with the father they are not related to your child and may show interest that has nothing to do with brotherly love.
What you're saying is that you are with a married man who is cheating on his wife? And you want advice on the kids? Talk about priorities, girl.
Are you a muslim? Being a Muslim woman must be just awful, being just a second class citizen. You have my sympathy.
your being taking for a ride get out fast plus its against the law to have two wives so maybe he wont be around much longer for any of you.
7 children
FCUKS SAKE
someone chop that pricks willy off please
I bet us taxpayers fork the bill for those snotty kids tooAm a mother of two and now married to a man who has 7children and wife what advice can u give me.?
You say you are now married to a man who has 7 children and a WIFE? I think you are committing bigamy - a prison-able offence.
Then you go on the say companion, so perhaps you aren't committing bigamy after all?
Just talk to your companion/husband and say you don't have enough room for all eight kids. They'll have to come in smaller 'batches'. Three one holiday and the other four the next holiday.
well ithink u should treat all the kids as your own if u want to be in his life then well they are apart of him !!
i hope that he treats your kids that are not his right
if other family dosnot want to help or be there then when they need u rember what they have not done 4 u
i hope his kids treat u right and if u have a baby togeather she is luck to have a BIG family and lots of people to help her in life . the teens make sure u invavle them with your little one so they feel like they are needed
BEST OF LUCK TO U !!!!
I have one question for you : why would you deal with a man who has 7 children? You have 3.
What kind of support do you want the family to do? You brought someone else in the situation so they think your current partner should handle your situation.
Be careful if the kids are in teen years and you have teens of your own. Though you are involved with the father they are not related to your child and may show interest that has nothing to do with brotherly love.
What you're saying is that you are with a married man who is cheating on his wife? And you want advice on the kids? Talk about priorities, girl.
Are you a muslim? Being a Muslim woman must be just awful, being just a second class citizen. You have my sympathy.
your being taking for a ride get out fast plus its against the law to have two wives so maybe he wont be around much longer for any of you.
How do you discipline a unruly wife , chastisement advice please?
chastity belt (nonny nonny). The one with the spikes on the inside.How do you discipline a unruly wife , chastisement advice please?
lock her in a rabbit hutch with two bucks one for night shift one for day shift and throw away the keyHow do you discipline a unruly wife , chastisement advice please?
I've just got one thing to say!
Shouldn't that be 'an' unruly ... ?
stretch her face down on the rack....out with the whip,and beat down hard on her.....or just put her across your lap,raise hand high,and bring down firmly on butt....this will make a beautiful imprint on her cheek,one to treasure for the rest of ur life....Manda always carries a mirror around with her so she can look at the imprint I left on her cheeks
You don't.
Take a long look at yourself. are you perfect???
No sex.
Kick her in the ***** and make her ';walk into a cupboard';.
Thats harsh!
glue her into a rocking chair, tape her eyelids open and make her watch 48 of back to back ';Top Gear';
no more scarlet jezebel behaviour after that, i can assure you
Women was taken out of man, not out of his head to top him, nor out of his feet to be trampled underfoot, but out of his side to be equal to him, under his arm to be protected, and near his heart to be loved.
TAKE HER in hand and let her FEEL your WRATH...maybe even a spanked bottom would be deserving. Remember - theres a certain satisfaction in a little pain.... That`ll teach her..Thats what blaster has to do to me when I`m a VERY naughty girl...
OOOhhh err Missus. You ARE funny hey!
I think a chastity belt is your only option, I'd recommend you do a tour of local museums and any other areas of historical intrest and try get speaking to some of the staff. I'm sure, under the circumstances, they would feel obliged to help and sell you an old belt at a reasonable price. Best of luck.
get rid of the hubby!
Get your head sorted out pal
Take away the credit cards...!
Tell her that if you leave your mistress than she shall have to leave her man. It is quite simple!
I take it you are not married hun!
don't buy mops.
is she your wife?
Getta life.
lock her in a rabbit hutch with two bucks one for night shift one for day shift and throw away the keyHow do you discipline a unruly wife , chastisement advice please?
I've just got one thing to say!
Shouldn't that be 'an' unruly ... ?
stretch her face down on the rack....out with the whip,and beat down hard on her.....or just put her across your lap,raise hand high,and bring down firmly on butt....this will make a beautiful imprint on her cheek,one to treasure for the rest of ur life....Manda always carries a mirror around with her so she can look at the imprint I left on her cheeks
You don't.
Take a long look at yourself. are you perfect???
No sex.
Kick her in the ***** and make her ';walk into a cupboard';.
Thats harsh!
glue her into a rocking chair, tape her eyelids open and make her watch 48 of back to back ';Top Gear';
no more scarlet jezebel behaviour after that, i can assure you
Women was taken out of man, not out of his head to top him, nor out of his feet to be trampled underfoot, but out of his side to be equal to him, under his arm to be protected, and near his heart to be loved.
TAKE HER in hand and let her FEEL your WRATH...maybe even a spanked bottom would be deserving. Remember - theres a certain satisfaction in a little pain.... That`ll teach her..Thats what blaster has to do to me when I`m a VERY naughty girl...
OOOhhh err Missus. You ARE funny hey!
I think a chastity belt is your only option, I'd recommend you do a tour of local museums and any other areas of historical intrest and try get speaking to some of the staff. I'm sure, under the circumstances, they would feel obliged to help and sell you an old belt at a reasonable price. Best of luck.
get rid of the hubby!
Get your head sorted out pal
Take away the credit cards...!
Tell her that if you leave your mistress than she shall have to leave her man. It is quite simple!
I take it you are not married hun!
don't buy mops.
is she your wife?
Getta life.
Does anyone have any advice for a military wife?
my hubby is getting deployed. encouragement?Does anyone have any advice for a military wife?
i can't imagine how tough this must be on you.
all you can do is keep in touch with him as much as permitted, pray for him, encourage him, and just live your life like.
Unfortunately there is nothing you can do, except hope for the best and come in terms with the consequences of his job.
I hope he comes back happy and healthy.Does anyone have any advice for a military wife?
Since you're a spouse, things are somewhat easier versus being a girlfriend. You can get involved with the Family Readiness Group (FRG) or check in with you ombudsman for playgroups, family cook outs etc. IF it an IA then your command should have some type of holiday events coming up. And keep yourself looking good. If you're not in shape now, use this time to get there. A lot of women tend to let themselves go while the spouse is on deployment. And stay faithful. If he's doing his job then you have no worries. The big thing is support. He needs you to be supportive on the homefront, especially is kids are involved. Stay focused so he can stay focused and provide positive reenforcement. I am the military member in my case and if I had all of this then I would have no worries.
As a military girlfriend, I have been there. My bf has been in Afghanistan since June, and actually comes home for a break in 12 days.
It is going to be tough at first. My advice, don't wait by the phone or computer for calls or emails. Even if he says he will call before you go to bed, something may come up or they cannot get signal and he is then unable to get ahold of you. Don't freak out :) He will call/email like he says, it just might take a little longer.
He might tell you about his days, and trust me, some of the stories might scare the hell out of you, but he just needs to vent. I look at it this way, he is still able to call me :)
I hope this helps you. Your husband is a wonderful man who has chosen to do something heroic. As the wives and girlfriends, we need to stay strong and be positive. Here is a quote I like to think of:
';In the end, things will be okay. If things are not okay, it is not the end.';
Everyone says Stay Strong but if everyone was actually stuck in this position its easier said then done you go from seeing you husband,friend,lover, basically your world everyday to not knowing who knows when you will get to see them next but somehow you learn to stay strong sometimes you will break down thats when you need a close relative or friend close by but your main reason for staying strong is for him and when you agreed to being married you basically stated the words I love you I choose to stand by u no matter what well this is the life he chose so stand by and be proud of your soldier
You will need to be a strong woman. Be loving and firm with him. They have a tendency to get out of line. But be faitful and supportive and I wish you two many blessings.
im in the same situation. i hope you find something that works for you. and for me too lol.
Why do women do this to themselves by marrying military men?
Stay strong.. It will get better over time...Find some thing to occupy your time in a positve way..
SWEET MILDRED IS MY LEADER...CRAWL INTO OUR PLAYPEN SECRET SOCIETY WITH US
continue on with life
he is doing what he signed up for
have plenty o gal pals to chill with
Why do you think you are so special? Nobody cares deal with it.
Stay strong and if you believer hold on to God
i can't imagine how tough this must be on you.
all you can do is keep in touch with him as much as permitted, pray for him, encourage him, and just live your life like.
Unfortunately there is nothing you can do, except hope for the best and come in terms with the consequences of his job.
I hope he comes back happy and healthy.Does anyone have any advice for a military wife?
Since you're a spouse, things are somewhat easier versus being a girlfriend. You can get involved with the Family Readiness Group (FRG) or check in with you ombudsman for playgroups, family cook outs etc. IF it an IA then your command should have some type of holiday events coming up. And keep yourself looking good. If you're not in shape now, use this time to get there. A lot of women tend to let themselves go while the spouse is on deployment. And stay faithful. If he's doing his job then you have no worries. The big thing is support. He needs you to be supportive on the homefront, especially is kids are involved. Stay focused so he can stay focused and provide positive reenforcement. I am the military member in my case and if I had all of this then I would have no worries.
As a military girlfriend, I have been there. My bf has been in Afghanistan since June, and actually comes home for a break in 12 days.
It is going to be tough at first. My advice, don't wait by the phone or computer for calls or emails. Even if he says he will call before you go to bed, something may come up or they cannot get signal and he is then unable to get ahold of you. Don't freak out :) He will call/email like he says, it just might take a little longer.
He might tell you about his days, and trust me, some of the stories might scare the hell out of you, but he just needs to vent. I look at it this way, he is still able to call me :)
I hope this helps you. Your husband is a wonderful man who has chosen to do something heroic. As the wives and girlfriends, we need to stay strong and be positive. Here is a quote I like to think of:
';In the end, things will be okay. If things are not okay, it is not the end.';
Everyone says Stay Strong but if everyone was actually stuck in this position its easier said then done you go from seeing you husband,friend,lover, basically your world everyday to not knowing who knows when you will get to see them next but somehow you learn to stay strong sometimes you will break down thats when you need a close relative or friend close by but your main reason for staying strong is for him and when you agreed to being married you basically stated the words I love you I choose to stand by u no matter what well this is the life he chose so stand by and be proud of your soldier
You will need to be a strong woman. Be loving and firm with him. They have a tendency to get out of line. But be faitful and supportive and I wish you two many blessings.
im in the same situation. i hope you find something that works for you. and for me too lol.
Why do women do this to themselves by marrying military men?
Stay strong.. It will get better over time...Find some thing to occupy your time in a positve way..
SWEET MILDRED IS MY LEADER...CRAWL INTO OUR PLAYPEN SECRET SOCIETY WITH US
continue on with life
he is doing what he signed up for
have plenty o gal pals to chill with
Why do you think you are so special? Nobody cares deal with it.
Stay strong and if you believer hold on to God
Need advice, wife might be cheating?
Found 2 strange numbers all over on my wifes cell phone bill, belong to a guy. I was able to find out his name, place of employment and possibly his address. What should I do?Need advice, wife might be cheating?
The first thing that I have to ask you which you left out in question is how longdid they talk for? Does the number that is on the phone bill a local number if so how far from where you two live or from where she works and how long have y'all had these numbers? I would check her e-mails and also her texts on the cell phone which the phone company can get that for you, Also check your regular land line phone bill, does the numbers match up, then if everything lines up then get a private eye, so you will have edivence for the divorce so you can get the kids and your personal belongings.Need advice, wife might be cheating?
You sound very paranoid. Ever think it's something innocent? Just ask her.
But why do you go over her phone bills? Not trust her?
is your birthday coming up? maybe he's helping her plan something. (hey, it's possible i guess.... )
a few things to keep in mind. Unless your name is the only one on her phone bill, snooping in it is ILLEGAL. I doubt she'd prosecute, but it is illegal for you to get into it.
Call him. Maybe he doesn't know she's married. I was in that situation (his) at one time, didn't know the guy i was talking to was married, and suddenly out of the blue i got a call from his wife. She said my number was on her phone bill and who was i? lol it was a strange conversation at best, but i was honest with her, and never talked to him again.
I wouldn't contact him at all unless you call him. He doesn't deserve getting into a fight with you at his place of business and losing his job over it, or worrying that you have his home address and will stalk him. This is really between you and your wife. You should talk to her first. Go into it with an open head, and without anger. and, don't forget to trust her. I know it's hard, but she may surprise you and be completely honest and put it all out on the table. I can promise you if it's been going on for more than a couple of weeks, she's dying to not have to hide it anymore.
Good luck, honey. Hope everything works out. ;)
Follow her around for a while.....and find out. That's what I'd do.
Sweetly, I wouldn't accuse anyone.....JUST YET.
I would follow her around, and see what she's up to.
If she's up to something, make sure NOT to play dumb with her.
As soon as she gets home, you talk to her, and you straighten her out.
And if you want to leave, then leave her sorry ***.
If she's not cheating, apologize and tell her you are sorry for ever betraying her trust.
2 numbers same guy? Sorry to say, but some people (men and woman) are just born cheaters! My sister is one of these, who I know is carrying on a relationship on the side of her live-in bf. It's long distance in this case, so her cell bills are through the roof, but she hides it and hides it well.... although mostly emotionally cheating, I know she has physically as well. Atleast you are keeping an open eye on this stuff - her hubby has slipped big time.
I would casually bring it up with her in a non-confrontational way. If she seems shocked or un-suspecting, she'll stumble on an explanation, then you have to be worried. Next steps could be calling the guy directly, spy on her, etc. Don't be the fool, it could be possible!
Those are some signs, I usually use this checklist here and if more than 5 match, then yes%26gt;%26gt; http://ebooks.interkeys.com/howto/find_o鈥?/a>
my advice, that list is pretty accurate, the best way to find out for sure is to ask her and see the reaction. If she itches her nose or ear or some other nerve ending while answering, she is lying.
Put everything into your name.
Just sit with this guy or your wife and sort out this issue right here before its too late,
May it can disturb you unnecessary or it can kill your happy married life,
All the best
I agree with intelligent 1. Call the gut 1st, they may just be friends! If he admits to an affair or relationship, then confront your wife. If she lies about it the marriage is not worth trying to save.Don't take action against the guy. If it is an affair he may not even know you exist! Sorry to sound cruel, but if there's one thing I can't stand it's dishonesty/betrayal.
Good luck to you.
hi this very same thing has just happend to me 1 month ago my husband was having an affair, they now live together!! what does your gut feeling tell you? that's how i knew no matter what excuses my husband said (i did believe them at the time) the feeling kept coming back in the bottom of my stomach and it would'nt go away.
have you found any messages? tried calling the phone?
good luck i hope its not what your thinking
Ask your wife. After all communication is the key.
Ask her about it. Thats all u can do and hope she'll be honest. Don't assume anything unless u have the back up to prove it.
Don't do anything to the guy. Sounds like you're getting ready to stalk him down. He doesn't know you from Adam, and you need to remember that! The issue is with your wife---take it up with her only if you have solid evidence that there's something going on.
Confront her calmy. You never know and if she is cheating, going into it without a calm mind will only make the conversation harder.
I would not do anything yet. I would just wait. See, if she is doing something behind your back, she will get herself caught. Usually that's the way it happens. She will put the nooze around her own neck. The question is how are you going to handle this? I would be thinking about that if I were you. Maybe I would continue to be diligent, but keeping my distance. She will have to face it sooner or later. I hope is nothing. I hope this is all a big misunderstanding of some sort, but if is not, then you need to pick up the pieces and decide what you have to do. But don't try to cross that river yet.
Ask your wife what they are.
Then tail the guy.
get a private investigator to follow her and photograph her movements
ok you say you found strange numbers on her bill etc!!
you need to talk to her about it.
but has she been going out more? staying out late? staying late after work?
are you sure it isnt an old friend?
you neeed to talk to her and ask her these quest. good luck
Stop snooping at her phone bill.
it might be a friend from work or something from work that she is communicating with this guy for a reason. Don't flip out, just ask her calmly who he is, and if she has a rational explanation, LET IT GO. Unnecessary jealousy KILLS happy relationships.
source: Wife to a jealous husband
Ahh.. the mysterious numbers.. that is exactly how i caught my ex... You need to do a little more Investigation before you confront her.. Or she will be angry that you ';accused'; her of cheating.. Make sure it is not a coworker or her friend's boyfriend's phone.. Don't just assume that she is sleepin with the guy.. I hope she is not.. I can only imagine how angry and hurt you would be. It took me 6 mo. to get over all that
Talk to her. Do not, I repeat, do not spy on her. If she is having an affair that will only make things worse. Be honest with her about how you feel and ask her to do the same. It may not be too late to save your marriage. Communication is the key. It might also help to talk with a professional in order for the two of you to resolve these issues together.
Try to catch her.
If the phone is in your name, call your cell phone provider and tell them you need to reset the password. Then call her voice mail and see what kind of messages she's got waiting, but do so with a tape recorder in hand so you can use it in court.
Want me to call him and find out what's up? I'd be happy to!
PS. You must have already had a suspicion that she is cheating. Start watching her activities more closely. Usually, if you think your mate is cheating, they are. Sad but true.
Get an investigator or impartial party to follow her if that is your plan. Don't do it yourself!
You need to decide what you will do if she is cheating. But remember fighting with her or him never solves the problem it only makes it worse!
it is time to confront her. if there is nothing to it she will stop, but say nothing about the phone bill, keep that to yourself and use it to moniter her communication.
well if u went as far as to figure all that out, why dontcha call him and ask him how he knows your wife and whats the significance of all the phone calls.... just blow the whole thing up. and find out what u wanna know
thank god that im too young 2 get married , there is only 2 kinds of women %26gt; the bitchs and the bitchsmakeup care
The first thing that I have to ask you which you left out in question is how longdid they talk for? Does the number that is on the phone bill a local number if so how far from where you two live or from where she works and how long have y'all had these numbers? I would check her e-mails and also her texts on the cell phone which the phone company can get that for you, Also check your regular land line phone bill, does the numbers match up, then if everything lines up then get a private eye, so you will have edivence for the divorce so you can get the kids and your personal belongings.Need advice, wife might be cheating?
You sound very paranoid. Ever think it's something innocent? Just ask her.
But why do you go over her phone bills? Not trust her?
is your birthday coming up? maybe he's helping her plan something. (hey, it's possible i guess.... )
a few things to keep in mind. Unless your name is the only one on her phone bill, snooping in it is ILLEGAL. I doubt she'd prosecute, but it is illegal for you to get into it.
Call him. Maybe he doesn't know she's married. I was in that situation (his) at one time, didn't know the guy i was talking to was married, and suddenly out of the blue i got a call from his wife. She said my number was on her phone bill and who was i? lol it was a strange conversation at best, but i was honest with her, and never talked to him again.
I wouldn't contact him at all unless you call him. He doesn't deserve getting into a fight with you at his place of business and losing his job over it, or worrying that you have his home address and will stalk him. This is really between you and your wife. You should talk to her first. Go into it with an open head, and without anger. and, don't forget to trust her. I know it's hard, but she may surprise you and be completely honest and put it all out on the table. I can promise you if it's been going on for more than a couple of weeks, she's dying to not have to hide it anymore.
Good luck, honey. Hope everything works out. ;)
Follow her around for a while.....and find out. That's what I'd do.
Sweetly, I wouldn't accuse anyone.....JUST YET.
I would follow her around, and see what she's up to.
If she's up to something, make sure NOT to play dumb with her.
As soon as she gets home, you talk to her, and you straighten her out.
And if you want to leave, then leave her sorry ***.
If she's not cheating, apologize and tell her you are sorry for ever betraying her trust.
2 numbers same guy? Sorry to say, but some people (men and woman) are just born cheaters! My sister is one of these, who I know is carrying on a relationship on the side of her live-in bf. It's long distance in this case, so her cell bills are through the roof, but she hides it and hides it well.... although mostly emotionally cheating, I know she has physically as well. Atleast you are keeping an open eye on this stuff - her hubby has slipped big time.
I would casually bring it up with her in a non-confrontational way. If she seems shocked or un-suspecting, she'll stumble on an explanation, then you have to be worried. Next steps could be calling the guy directly, spy on her, etc. Don't be the fool, it could be possible!
Those are some signs, I usually use this checklist here and if more than 5 match, then yes%26gt;%26gt; http://ebooks.interkeys.com/howto/find_o鈥?/a>
my advice, that list is pretty accurate, the best way to find out for sure is to ask her and see the reaction. If she itches her nose or ear or some other nerve ending while answering, she is lying.
Put everything into your name.
Just sit with this guy or your wife and sort out this issue right here before its too late,
May it can disturb you unnecessary or it can kill your happy married life,
All the best
I agree with intelligent 1. Call the gut 1st, they may just be friends! If he admits to an affair or relationship, then confront your wife. If she lies about it the marriage is not worth trying to save.Don't take action against the guy. If it is an affair he may not even know you exist! Sorry to sound cruel, but if there's one thing I can't stand it's dishonesty/betrayal.
Good luck to you.
hi this very same thing has just happend to me 1 month ago my husband was having an affair, they now live together!! what does your gut feeling tell you? that's how i knew no matter what excuses my husband said (i did believe them at the time) the feeling kept coming back in the bottom of my stomach and it would'nt go away.
have you found any messages? tried calling the phone?
good luck i hope its not what your thinking
Ask your wife. After all communication is the key.
Ask her about it. Thats all u can do and hope she'll be honest. Don't assume anything unless u have the back up to prove it.
Don't do anything to the guy. Sounds like you're getting ready to stalk him down. He doesn't know you from Adam, and you need to remember that! The issue is with your wife---take it up with her only if you have solid evidence that there's something going on.
Confront her calmy. You never know and if she is cheating, going into it without a calm mind will only make the conversation harder.
I would not do anything yet. I would just wait. See, if she is doing something behind your back, she will get herself caught. Usually that's the way it happens. She will put the nooze around her own neck. The question is how are you going to handle this? I would be thinking about that if I were you. Maybe I would continue to be diligent, but keeping my distance. She will have to face it sooner or later. I hope is nothing. I hope this is all a big misunderstanding of some sort, but if is not, then you need to pick up the pieces and decide what you have to do. But don't try to cross that river yet.
Ask your wife what they are.
Then tail the guy.
get a private investigator to follow her and photograph her movements
ok you say you found strange numbers on her bill etc!!
you need to talk to her about it.
but has she been going out more? staying out late? staying late after work?
are you sure it isnt an old friend?
you neeed to talk to her and ask her these quest. good luck
Stop snooping at her phone bill.
it might be a friend from work or something from work that she is communicating with this guy for a reason. Don't flip out, just ask her calmly who he is, and if she has a rational explanation, LET IT GO. Unnecessary jealousy KILLS happy relationships.
source: Wife to a jealous husband
Ahh.. the mysterious numbers.. that is exactly how i caught my ex... You need to do a little more Investigation before you confront her.. Or she will be angry that you ';accused'; her of cheating.. Make sure it is not a coworker or her friend's boyfriend's phone.. Don't just assume that she is sleepin with the guy.. I hope she is not.. I can only imagine how angry and hurt you would be. It took me 6 mo. to get over all that
Talk to her. Do not, I repeat, do not spy on her. If she is having an affair that will only make things worse. Be honest with her about how you feel and ask her to do the same. It may not be too late to save your marriage. Communication is the key. It might also help to talk with a professional in order for the two of you to resolve these issues together.
Try to catch her.
If the phone is in your name, call your cell phone provider and tell them you need to reset the password. Then call her voice mail and see what kind of messages she's got waiting, but do so with a tape recorder in hand so you can use it in court.
Want me to call him and find out what's up? I'd be happy to!
PS. You must have already had a suspicion that she is cheating. Start watching her activities more closely. Usually, if you think your mate is cheating, they are. Sad but true.
Get an investigator or impartial party to follow her if that is your plan. Don't do it yourself!
You need to decide what you will do if she is cheating. But remember fighting with her or him never solves the problem it only makes it worse!
it is time to confront her. if there is nothing to it she will stop, but say nothing about the phone bill, keep that to yourself and use it to moniter her communication.
well if u went as far as to figure all that out, why dontcha call him and ask him how he knows your wife and whats the significance of all the phone calls.... just blow the whole thing up. and find out what u wanna know
thank god that im too young 2 get married , there is only 2 kinds of women %26gt; the bitchs and the bitchs
I'm trying to get in shape for my wife. Any advice?
When I was young, about 15, I had six pack abs and was in really good shape...never got tired, didn't sleep for days at a time and could out eat any human being without gaining a pound...obviously, never getting tired and eating however I want is a memory long gone, but what is the fastest way to get my six-pack abs back? Seriously, I miss them!I'm trying to get in shape for my wife. Any advice?
Eat better, eat less, work-out.
Keytosis is the fastest way to strip off fat.
Fat is covering your abs.
First cut carbohydrates down to a minimal level.
Never eat fast food again. No more pizza.
Eliminate all junk food. Eat breakfast. Eat fruits for snacks; e.g. apples, grapes, bananas.
Loosing weight means going hungry; use that knowledge to help you accept and cope with it.
If you eat garbage and are lethargic this will start shedding weight quickly.
Rebuild muscle first as this will help burn more energy and will not shock your system like cardiovascular exercise will while in keytosis. Eat extra protein once you start pumping iron again.
As you drop off pounds cardiovascular exercise will become easier.
Work-out like you mean it. Walking is not exercise. Once you start cardiovascular exercise you need to reintroduce carbs in the form of things like pasta and bread (not soda-pop).I'm trying to get in shape for my wife. Any advice?
I forgot to mention to drink lots of water. Any time you are hungry, drink water first.
The body easily mistakes thirst for hunger. You only feel 'thirsty' when you are rather dehydrated.
Unsweetened tea is also good; don't drink any sugar-loaded crap (high fructose corn syrup).
Cardie workouts and healthy diet. Believe me, if there is any other way or a special pill, I'd know about it. I keep pretty fit by running and push-ups and yoga. I find these to be a good balance. Good luck on your endeavor. It's not easy but it's worth it.
Fast is not the way, slow and methodical to build it up properly
Hit the gym bro.!
Get a total Gym ! Worked for me !
As you get older, you have to devote increasing time and energy to nutrition and health. Your body is no longer growing, but is now deteriorating (are you over 30??), so it takes a focused effort.
You should know already that six-packs are not a function of muscle, but of body fat. You also know that body fat is not easy or healthy to completely eliminate, and in adult men is concentrated around the waist.
So... perfect abs in an adult man requires extreme DIET (not workouts) and possibly LIPOSUCTION.
Eat better, eat less, work-out.
Keytosis is the fastest way to strip off fat.
Fat is covering your abs.
First cut carbohydrates down to a minimal level.
Never eat fast food again. No more pizza.
Eliminate all junk food. Eat breakfast. Eat fruits for snacks; e.g. apples, grapes, bananas.
Loosing weight means going hungry; use that knowledge to help you accept and cope with it.
If you eat garbage and are lethargic this will start shedding weight quickly.
Rebuild muscle first as this will help burn more energy and will not shock your system like cardiovascular exercise will while in keytosis. Eat extra protein once you start pumping iron again.
As you drop off pounds cardiovascular exercise will become easier.
Work-out like you mean it. Walking is not exercise. Once you start cardiovascular exercise you need to reintroduce carbs in the form of things like pasta and bread (not soda-pop).I'm trying to get in shape for my wife. Any advice?
I forgot to mention to drink lots of water. Any time you are hungry, drink water first.
The body easily mistakes thirst for hunger. You only feel 'thirsty' when you are rather dehydrated.
Unsweetened tea is also good; don't drink any sugar-loaded crap (high fructose corn syrup).
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Cardie workouts and healthy diet. Believe me, if there is any other way or a special pill, I'd know about it. I keep pretty fit by running and push-ups and yoga. I find these to be a good balance. Good luck on your endeavor. It's not easy but it's worth it.
Fast is not the way, slow and methodical to build it up properly
Hit the gym bro.!
Get a total Gym ! Worked for me !
As you get older, you have to devote increasing time and energy to nutrition and health. Your body is no longer growing, but is now deteriorating (are you over 30??), so it takes a focused effort.
You should know already that six-packs are not a function of muscle, but of body fat. You also know that body fat is not easy or healthy to completely eliminate, and in adult men is concentrated around the waist.
So... perfect abs in an adult man requires extreme DIET (not workouts) and possibly LIPOSUCTION.
Has anyone recently bought a property in Florida. My Wife & I want to buy 1 to rent. Any advice?
We have already done alot of research but since i just found this website i thouht i would see if i could get the ';true'; story of how it breaks down.Has anyone recently bought a property in Florida. My Wife %26amp; I want to buy 1 to rent. Any advice?
The American property market is not doing very well by all accounts, furthermore Florida (and America in general) is declining as a holiday destination - in the face of various things including cheaper fares elsewhere and tighter security checks in airports.
Not wanting to spread doom and gloom on your plan - but you need to be aware of these things when calculating your retnal / equity returns as you figure out how practical / affordable it is.Has anyone recently bought a property in Florida. My Wife %26amp; I want to buy 1 to rent. Any advice?
Oh my darlings, we bought a property in Florida. I told my hubby to do it or else, LOL. But he love me and likes to make me happy. I wanted the property, but it had to be right on the Intracoastal because I love fishing and wanted to be able to fish from outside my back door. We found a great property and bought it.
Without going into details with where, how, why or when, but it's been severely damaged once and totally wrecked once by hurricanes in the last eight years. But this is just the bad luck of being in the wrong place at the wrong time.
However, as a rental income opportunity, as long as you are fully aware of the risks, and insure properly, (If possible,) it is just about as good as it gets, as long as you do not want to occupy the premises during the winter period when rents are at a premium because of the snow birds. (Those you live in the northern states, like NY State, who want to get away from the winter. There, the winters are not like the winters in UK. They have serious winters, minus 15 not being unusual, whereas, we never get that kind of cold.
The rents at that time of year are at a premium.
Also there are properties on communities that have a rental programme, these are really worth looking at. They will guarantee you an annual rent. What you have to do is agree to let them take control of the rentals of your property at their discretion. You yourself can keep a period, say 4 weeks in the year, when it is available for you to use for vacation.
The plus side is, you will get a lesser rent per week or month, but are guaranteed the rent for 11 months so you know exactly how much you have coming in. Or take a chance, and hope the agent you use will get enough lettings to cover your costs. The lesser rent using the guaranteed method is offset by the fact that it is fully rented when you are not there, or get the rent anyway.
Hey, listen, forget the hurricanes. Go for it but be sure to cover yourselves. I could direct you to lots of websites as other answers will do, but it is best to take time and do lots of searches and research. If someone says to you, hey this is a great website, go here, you do not know if they have a vested interest so be careful.
Apart from the probs we had because of the hurricanes, it is the best thing we ever did. I can't wait until december to be back there again, have a barbecue on Xmas day, and catch some amazing fish from the fishing dock outside my back door. I go out and fish when the kids and hubby are asleep in the early hours. I love my fishing. We live in Spain now, and I always can't wait for out trips to Florida.
Be real careful, investigate, and then enjoy.
I've just read re your comment about Central Florida and Disney. Buy on the coast my darlings, you get the best of both worlds, and once you have done the theme park thing so many times, you have had enough, but never enough of the beach, right? Same for holiday makers and winter renters, they want the coast. Don't fall into the Disney trap, and have tenants during the English school holidays.
Kiss Kiss
gettng good tenants is the key.i ask every one who applies to me the same 2 questions.
number of current land lord and the number of previous land lord.
i call them both and ask same question, ';would you rent to this person again?';
i don't put too much credence on what the current ll says. they will lie to keep a good tenant, and lie to get rid of a bad one.
i rent solely on what the previous ll says, and have never been burned.;
DO NOT rent to someone just because you need a tenant.
IT IS FAR BETTER TOO LOSE A MONTHS RENT THAN GET A BAD RENTER. a bad renter will cost you far more in the long run than just 1 months rent.
i have owned rentals, and rented rooms. this is the voice of sorry, bad and miserable experiences.
this deserves a best answer award.
never buy it from a known person
i am a RE broker. I can advise you.
I am not seeking your biz.
The main thrust of your question is about New Property Taxes. This is somewhat inaccurate.
Certainly there's debate in th Florida Senate (State Govt) which will lead to a probable lowering of current property taxes. A referendum is scheduled for Jan 29th next but there's no plan to reduce or change foreign investors / owners property taxation.
Think you're mixing this with the Inland Revenue in the UK and their scheduled attack on tax evasion mostly in France, Spain and elswhere in Europe. The US system for claiming taxation from foreign owners is usually covered under a Tax Treaty between UK %26amp; USA which leaves little or no tax owing in the UK.
Rent a property there yourself to see how you like the area. There are way more rentals in some areas of Florida right now than there are tenants. Visit the community you're interested in and talk to the neighbors. Don't ever do anything without looking at the property first.
The American property market is not doing very well by all accounts, furthermore Florida (and America in general) is declining as a holiday destination - in the face of various things including cheaper fares elsewhere and tighter security checks in airports.
Not wanting to spread doom and gloom on your plan - but you need to be aware of these things when calculating your retnal / equity returns as you figure out how practical / affordable it is.Has anyone recently bought a property in Florida. My Wife %26amp; I want to buy 1 to rent. Any advice?
Oh my darlings, we bought a property in Florida. I told my hubby to do it or else, LOL. But he love me and likes to make me happy. I wanted the property, but it had to be right on the Intracoastal because I love fishing and wanted to be able to fish from outside my back door. We found a great property and bought it.
Without going into details with where, how, why or when, but it's been severely damaged once and totally wrecked once by hurricanes in the last eight years. But this is just the bad luck of being in the wrong place at the wrong time.
However, as a rental income opportunity, as long as you are fully aware of the risks, and insure properly, (If possible,) it is just about as good as it gets, as long as you do not want to occupy the premises during the winter period when rents are at a premium because of the snow birds. (Those you live in the northern states, like NY State, who want to get away from the winter. There, the winters are not like the winters in UK. They have serious winters, minus 15 not being unusual, whereas, we never get that kind of cold.
The rents at that time of year are at a premium.
Also there are properties on communities that have a rental programme, these are really worth looking at. They will guarantee you an annual rent. What you have to do is agree to let them take control of the rentals of your property at their discretion. You yourself can keep a period, say 4 weeks in the year, when it is available for you to use for vacation.
The plus side is, you will get a lesser rent per week or month, but are guaranteed the rent for 11 months so you know exactly how much you have coming in. Or take a chance, and hope the agent you use will get enough lettings to cover your costs. The lesser rent using the guaranteed method is offset by the fact that it is fully rented when you are not there, or get the rent anyway.
Hey, listen, forget the hurricanes. Go for it but be sure to cover yourselves. I could direct you to lots of websites as other answers will do, but it is best to take time and do lots of searches and research. If someone says to you, hey this is a great website, go here, you do not know if they have a vested interest so be careful.
Apart from the probs we had because of the hurricanes, it is the best thing we ever did. I can't wait until december to be back there again, have a barbecue on Xmas day, and catch some amazing fish from the fishing dock outside my back door. I go out and fish when the kids and hubby are asleep in the early hours. I love my fishing. We live in Spain now, and I always can't wait for out trips to Florida.
Be real careful, investigate, and then enjoy.
I've just read re your comment about Central Florida and Disney. Buy on the coast my darlings, you get the best of both worlds, and once you have done the theme park thing so many times, you have had enough, but never enough of the beach, right? Same for holiday makers and winter renters, they want the coast. Don't fall into the Disney trap, and have tenants during the English school holidays.
Kiss Kiss
gettng good tenants is the key.i ask every one who applies to me the same 2 questions.
number of current land lord and the number of previous land lord.
i call them both and ask same question, ';would you rent to this person again?';
i don't put too much credence on what the current ll says. they will lie to keep a good tenant, and lie to get rid of a bad one.
i rent solely on what the previous ll says, and have never been burned.;
DO NOT rent to someone just because you need a tenant.
IT IS FAR BETTER TOO LOSE A MONTHS RENT THAN GET A BAD RENTER. a bad renter will cost you far more in the long run than just 1 months rent.
i have owned rentals, and rented rooms. this is the voice of sorry, bad and miserable experiences.
this deserves a best answer award.
never buy it from a known person
i am a RE broker. I can advise you.
I am not seeking your biz.
The main thrust of your question is about New Property Taxes. This is somewhat inaccurate.
Certainly there's debate in th Florida Senate (State Govt) which will lead to a probable lowering of current property taxes. A referendum is scheduled for Jan 29th next but there's no plan to reduce or change foreign investors / owners property taxation.
Think you're mixing this with the Inland Revenue in the UK and their scheduled attack on tax evasion mostly in France, Spain and elswhere in Europe. The US system for claiming taxation from foreign owners is usually covered under a Tax Treaty between UK %26amp; USA which leaves little or no tax owing in the UK.
Rent a property there yourself to see how you like the area. There are way more rentals in some areas of Florida right now than there are tenants. Visit the community you're interested in and talk to the neighbors. Don't ever do anything without looking at the property first.
I am interested in photography and would like to give my wife a glamour shoot can someone give advice on light
hair, make-up outfits is there any good sites on internetI am interested in photography and would like to give my wife a glamour shoot can someone give advice on light
Look at a couple of the websites that models and photographers use to network. One Model Place and Model Mayhem for ideas ... lighting, hair, make-up and costumes.
Just try to emulate them and you will find you will learn more about lighting than if you just start moving light around.I am interested in photography and would like to give my wife a glamour shoot can someone give advice on light
Why not use natural lighting, just try to capture scenes that appear glamorous to you.
Look at a couple of the websites that models and photographers use to network. One Model Place and Model Mayhem for ideas ... lighting, hair, make-up and costumes.
Just try to emulate them and you will find you will learn more about lighting than if you just start moving light around.I am interested in photography and would like to give my wife a glamour shoot can someone give advice on light
Why not use natural lighting, just try to capture scenes that appear glamorous to you.
Problem with my Christian wife. Any advice would be appreciated!?
My wife Nermina is an average women. However, we have an issue that continues to really haunt our relationship, and I hope you can offer a word or two that may help.
We have been married for 12 years and have 2 children, 8 %26amp; 5. Everything has gone really well for the most part. I think her being a native European has really helped her know how to be a real woman.
However, I was tempted by the devil 3 years ago, and a beautiful Korean co-worker led me into sin.
After two years, I broke Satin's grip and ended this sinful behavior.
My wife still struggles with forgiveness issues. Obviously, I apologized when I was caught. But I personally think that should cover it. What she is forgetting is that Jesus already paid the price for my sin. That is what the cross is all about.
I do realize that a lot of broads get upset easily, and can be emotional (just as gay men can be as well). However, how can I direct her to look at a bible and understand what's already been written?Problem with my Christian wife. Any advice would be appreciated!?
You are completely in the right here. Tell her that Jesus died for our sins, and if we, as Christians, don't take full advantage of that then we may as well just kick God in the stones and convert to Judaism.Problem with my Christian wife. Any advice would be appreciated!?
wow....I don't even know what to say. It would take me a long time to forgive that IF I could even forgive. Think of it this way would you be so easy to forgive if she was the one who did it to you? I understand the bible stuff %26amp; all but that is a very hard thing for a women {%26amp; a lot of men} to overcome.....I guess give her more time. Good Luck
Well, this is just something that you are just going to have to see if she ever gets over it. The bible really only allows 2 reasons for a marraige to dissolve...1 is death 2 is adultry. She has every right to be the way she is according to her beliefs. You cannot change it...
I am Christian however i disagree with some of what the Bible says, and i believe infidelity is something that is unforgivable. Also, straight men can be emotional as well (me) The devil did not seduce you into sin, that Korean woman did and You, on your own, fell for it, dont blame it on God or Satan. You made a terrible mistake, live with it.
This is an issue on trust and not about Jesus dying on the cross. To say that He died for our sins is very true but should not be used as an excuse for forgiving adulterous acts.
lt's not that easy to erase the memory of you with another woman in your wife's mind. Being a better husband and father to your kids will help. Trust is earned, not forced.
As to being a Christian, great bonding time during Sunday and church activities will make you closer.
Go to www.cbn.com , type in the search bar '' affair ''
The possibility of you going to hell isn't the issue here.
Trust is, and to expect her to have any is ridiculous.
Jesus paying for your sin's and forgiving you for them after you have asked for forgiveness for them is one thing.
Getting your wife to forgive you is another.
sounds like u should go on jerry springer
You should post this in Marriage section
Jesus paid for your sins so you can have everlasting peace in heaven, that doesn't mean your wife won't give you hell on earth when you sleep with another broad.
Did you read the part in the Bible that says... Thou Shalt Not Commit Adultry???
Isn't that one of the commandments? How can you ask her to abide by rules and guidelines, that you yourself did not???
Don't cheat and you don't have to suffer the consequences
LMAO! You're kidding, right?
I don't think it was very nice to use the word broads but, in the Bible it says you shouldn't commit adultery. I believe that if someone does you should try to work it out. It also says in the Bible to forgive and if she is a true Christian woman she will. It may take some time but, put ypurself in her shoes and think about how you would feel. You on the other hand need to earn your trust back. Just because she forgives you doesn't mean she's going to trust you again.
So your coworker led you into sin how? Did she hold a gun to your head? Did she knock you unconscious or slip you a date-rape drug? By the way, what does her being Korean have to do with it?
I have noticed that some men don't understand that just because you say you're sorry, it doesn't take away the hurt of what you did. As they say, you can't unring the bell.
Also, you say that you broke Satan's (not Satin's) grip after two years and ended the affair, but then you say you apologized when you were caught. Which one actually happened? Did you decide to end the sinful behavior on your own, or did you decide when you were caught?
Anyway, it seems to me that Jesus has already paid the price for your wife's failure to be understanding. Why don't you look at a Bible and understand what's already been written?
Because we are not perfect, nor will we be until this life is over, there are certain things that are not easy even though they are right. For instance, how hard is it to love your neighbor (all of them) as yourself? We are still sinners and being a christian in this age is a real struggle.
What you have done is very hurtful. If you were a woman in O.T. times you would have been stoned! I think you need to prove your faithfulness to your wife. Remember trust is something that has to be earned and you have shattered that.
Try going to a good christian counselor with your wife, show her your sincere about your change.
Sigh... not to nitpick or anything, because your question is very real and not at all fake and all, but if you were a good Christian man (because, after all, Jesus died for your sins), you would have capitalized the word ';Bible.'; Punk :P
Acording to the Bible, Jesus forgives all. In other word you are certainly allowed to do whatever the shift8888 you want as long as you say 'Forgive me Jesus' afterwards!
haha! BUSTED!!!
Why are you so hateful towards women and Christianity?
broads and gay men!?
umm apologizing is not enough
show her how much she means to you %26amp; how much you need her!
Loser
Your first problem is calling women broads.... I belive you to be too narrow minded....what do you mean by ';that should cover it';?? Your wife should divorce you....!!! Remember you asked for my advice... good or bad.
Don't go cheating on ya wife!
I think this is all lies. You are just trying to make girls fall in love with you.
It's working.
We have been married for 12 years and have 2 children, 8 %26amp; 5. Everything has gone really well for the most part. I think her being a native European has really helped her know how to be a real woman.
However, I was tempted by the devil 3 years ago, and a beautiful Korean co-worker led me into sin.
After two years, I broke Satin's grip and ended this sinful behavior.
My wife still struggles with forgiveness issues. Obviously, I apologized when I was caught. But I personally think that should cover it. What she is forgetting is that Jesus already paid the price for my sin. That is what the cross is all about.
I do realize that a lot of broads get upset easily, and can be emotional (just as gay men can be as well). However, how can I direct her to look at a bible and understand what's already been written?Problem with my Christian wife. Any advice would be appreciated!?
You are completely in the right here. Tell her that Jesus died for our sins, and if we, as Christians, don't take full advantage of that then we may as well just kick God in the stones and convert to Judaism.Problem with my Christian wife. Any advice would be appreciated!?
wow....I don't even know what to say. It would take me a long time to forgive that IF I could even forgive. Think of it this way would you be so easy to forgive if she was the one who did it to you? I understand the bible stuff %26amp; all but that is a very hard thing for a women {%26amp; a lot of men} to overcome.....I guess give her more time. Good Luck
Well, this is just something that you are just going to have to see if she ever gets over it. The bible really only allows 2 reasons for a marraige to dissolve...1 is death 2 is adultry. She has every right to be the way she is according to her beliefs. You cannot change it...
I am Christian however i disagree with some of what the Bible says, and i believe infidelity is something that is unforgivable. Also, straight men can be emotional as well (me) The devil did not seduce you into sin, that Korean woman did and You, on your own, fell for it, dont blame it on God or Satan. You made a terrible mistake, live with it.
This is an issue on trust and not about Jesus dying on the cross. To say that He died for our sins is very true but should not be used as an excuse for forgiving adulterous acts.
lt's not that easy to erase the memory of you with another woman in your wife's mind. Being a better husband and father to your kids will help. Trust is earned, not forced.
As to being a Christian, great bonding time during Sunday and church activities will make you closer.
Go to www.cbn.com , type in the search bar '' affair ''
The possibility of you going to hell isn't the issue here.
Trust is, and to expect her to have any is ridiculous.
Jesus paying for your sin's and forgiving you for them after you have asked for forgiveness for them is one thing.
Getting your wife to forgive you is another.
sounds like u should go on jerry springer
You should post this in Marriage section
Jesus paid for your sins so you can have everlasting peace in heaven, that doesn't mean your wife won't give you hell on earth when you sleep with another broad.
Did you read the part in the Bible that says... Thou Shalt Not Commit Adultry???
Isn't that one of the commandments? How can you ask her to abide by rules and guidelines, that you yourself did not???
Don't cheat and you don't have to suffer the consequences
LMAO! You're kidding, right?
I don't think it was very nice to use the word broads but, in the Bible it says you shouldn't commit adultery. I believe that if someone does you should try to work it out. It also says in the Bible to forgive and if she is a true Christian woman she will. It may take some time but, put ypurself in her shoes and think about how you would feel. You on the other hand need to earn your trust back. Just because she forgives you doesn't mean she's going to trust you again.
So your coworker led you into sin how? Did she hold a gun to your head? Did she knock you unconscious or slip you a date-rape drug? By the way, what does her being Korean have to do with it?
I have noticed that some men don't understand that just because you say you're sorry, it doesn't take away the hurt of what you did. As they say, you can't unring the bell.
Also, you say that you broke Satan's (not Satin's) grip after two years and ended the affair, but then you say you apologized when you were caught. Which one actually happened? Did you decide to end the sinful behavior on your own, or did you decide when you were caught?
Anyway, it seems to me that Jesus has already paid the price for your wife's failure to be understanding. Why don't you look at a Bible and understand what's already been written?
Because we are not perfect, nor will we be until this life is over, there are certain things that are not easy even though they are right. For instance, how hard is it to love your neighbor (all of them) as yourself? We are still sinners and being a christian in this age is a real struggle.
What you have done is very hurtful. If you were a woman in O.T. times you would have been stoned! I think you need to prove your faithfulness to your wife. Remember trust is something that has to be earned and you have shattered that.
Try going to a good christian counselor with your wife, show her your sincere about your change.
Sigh... not to nitpick or anything, because your question is very real and not at all fake and all, but if you were a good Christian man (because, after all, Jesus died for your sins), you would have capitalized the word ';Bible.'; Punk :P
Acording to the Bible, Jesus forgives all. In other word you are certainly allowed to do whatever the shift8888 you want as long as you say 'Forgive me Jesus' afterwards!
haha! BUSTED!!!
Why are you so hateful towards women and Christianity?
broads and gay men!?
umm apologizing is not enough
show her how much she means to you %26amp; how much you need her!
Loser
Your first problem is calling women broads.... I belive you to be too narrow minded....what do you mean by ';that should cover it';?? Your wife should divorce you....!!! Remember you asked for my advice... good or bad.
Don't go cheating on ya wife!
I think this is all lies. You are just trying to make girls fall in love with you.
It's working.
Dry cleaning advice for a inflatable wife?
Are there any establishments that offer a discreet cleaning service for men with plastic wife'sDry cleaning advice for a inflatable wife?
Just strap her in the back of a convertible as you go through the car wash.Dry cleaning advice for a inflatable wife?
Well I had a mate that fancied a black woman so he filled his blow-up with cocoa .... worked fine until white was again on the agenda so he used his pressure washer to 'rinse it out' so to speak. Problem was that after connecting the thing up ( via the mouth ... ) and switching the washer on ... the blow up 'blew up' to ten times its size ... flew out of the window and exploded over London City, causing a local downpour ... lol
If she has got a runny nose, it is not a cold or flu, she will need emptying.
Deflate her.
Turn her inside out and use some Cuticura or something similar for the removal of STD'S and bacteria.
Blow her back up and take her out for a jolly good slap-up meal.
Merry xmas to you both.
Oh, Mr Cockburn,don't do it
The fluids they use would melt and disintegrate your dear wife
Just try giving her a hot soapy wash and a massage
and she'll come up good as new !!........Lol
YOU MAKE ME LAUGH SOOOOOOO HARD EVERY FREAKIN' TIME,COCKBURN!!!
;-)
doubt it!! by friend was bein a bit frisky and ';lindseys';(the wifes name) head tore off:L:L:L b careful!!=]
I very much doubt it mate, that is one job you have to do yourself..
:-o
ask david beckham
http://aidoll.4woods.jp/en/dolls/
try here.
I knew it.
lmao, you made my day thnx
Just strap her in the back of a convertible as you go through the car wash.Dry cleaning advice for a inflatable wife?
Well I had a mate that fancied a black woman so he filled his blow-up with cocoa .... worked fine until white was again on the agenda so he used his pressure washer to 'rinse it out' so to speak. Problem was that after connecting the thing up ( via the mouth ... ) and switching the washer on ... the blow up 'blew up' to ten times its size ... flew out of the window and exploded over London City, causing a local downpour ... lol
If she has got a runny nose, it is not a cold or flu, she will need emptying.
Deflate her.
Turn her inside out and use some Cuticura or something similar for the removal of STD'S and bacteria.
Blow her back up and take her out for a jolly good slap-up meal.
Merry xmas to you both.
Oh, Mr Cockburn,don't do it
The fluids they use would melt and disintegrate your dear wife
Just try giving her a hot soapy wash and a massage
and she'll come up good as new !!........Lol
YOU MAKE ME LAUGH SOOOOOOO HARD EVERY FREAKIN' TIME,COCKBURN!!!
;-)
doubt it!! by friend was bein a bit frisky and ';lindseys';(the wifes name) head tore off:L:L:L b careful!!=]
I very much doubt it mate, that is one job you have to do yourself..
:-o
ask david beckham
http://aidoll.4woods.jp/en/dolls/
try here.
I knew it.
lmao, you made my day thnx
Kindly advice me that what step should be taken if my wife do pregnent at the time of Rubella Infection?
Any pregnant woman who has been exposed to rubella should contact her obstetrician immediately.
When rubella occurs in a pregnant woman, it may cause congenital rubella syndrome, with potentially devastating consequences for the developing fetus. Children who are infected with rubella before birth are at risk for growth retardation; mental retardation; malformations of the heart and eyes; deafness; and liver, spleen, and bone marrow problems
The rubella vaccine should not be given to pregnant women or to a woman who may become pregnant within 1 month of receiving the vaccine. If you are thinking about becoming pregnant, make sure that you are immune to rubella through a blood test or proof of immunization. If you're not immune, you should receive the vaccine at least 1 month before you become pregnant.
Pregnant women who are not immune should avoid anyone who has the illness and should be vaccinated after delivery so that they will be immune during any future pregnancies.Kindly advice me that what step should be taken if my wife do pregnent at the time of Rubella Infection?
Do not worry. Rubella is caused by a virus and allopathic medication has nothing to do with the viral diseases. Hence consult a homeopathic physician and he will prescribe your wife some remedies which can combat the disease as well as prevent the baby from getting infected. These remedies have absolutely nil side effects and is also safe for the baby. Have confidence and carry on. Best of luckKindly advice me that what step should be taken if my wife do pregnent at the time of Rubella Infection?
About Rubella Infection can be read in http://health-schools.blogspot.com/?q=Ru鈥?/a>makeup care
When rubella occurs in a pregnant woman, it may cause congenital rubella syndrome, with potentially devastating consequences for the developing fetus. Children who are infected with rubella before birth are at risk for growth retardation; mental retardation; malformations of the heart and eyes; deafness; and liver, spleen, and bone marrow problems
The rubella vaccine should not be given to pregnant women or to a woman who may become pregnant within 1 month of receiving the vaccine. If you are thinking about becoming pregnant, make sure that you are immune to rubella through a blood test or proof of immunization. If you're not immune, you should receive the vaccine at least 1 month before you become pregnant.
Pregnant women who are not immune should avoid anyone who has the illness and should be vaccinated after delivery so that they will be immune during any future pregnancies.Kindly advice me that what step should be taken if my wife do pregnent at the time of Rubella Infection?
Do not worry. Rubella is caused by a virus and allopathic medication has nothing to do with the viral diseases. Hence consult a homeopathic physician and he will prescribe your wife some remedies which can combat the disease as well as prevent the baby from getting infected. These remedies have absolutely nil side effects and is also safe for the baby. Have confidence and carry on. Best of luckKindly advice me that what step should be taken if my wife do pregnent at the time of Rubella Infection?
About Rubella Infection can be read in http://health-schools.blogspot.com/?q=Ru鈥?/a>
What is some good advice for someone wanting to buy their first home with my wife and 2 kids?
We don't have hardly any credit and want to make this move pretty soon.What is some good advice for someone wanting to buy their first home with my wife and 2 kids?
if you don't have much credit......... why buy a house
find a nice place to rent...... you don't have to have everything right now.What is some good advice for someone wanting to buy their first home with my wife and 2 kids?
Don't take on a mortgage that exceeds 30% of your income which is a rule of thumb tossed around by financial people to protect you from bankruptcy.
On the flip side, pay as much per month as you can reasonably afford or you will end up paying a ridiculous amount in the end in interest. Remember that ';mortgage'; is derived from Latin where it means roughly translated 'death pledge'...
Over the long term a variable mortgage interest rate has shown to give the lowest borrowing rate. Try to work it into your mortgage where you can renegotiate after a certain number of years so that if you're making more money you can put more down per month and decrease interest payments further.
Try to have the best down payment you can for your house and try no to buy one that is beyond your means. Paying $20K now can save you well over triple that amount in interest payments later in the future.
Pick an area that you think has 'potential'. Stay away from areas that you can see going 'bad' in 5 or 10 years. If you ever should choose to move you want to make sure that you have a good chance of selling your place.
If you don't have very much credit but you still think you can afford a place then try to get something modest. Be realistic.
Goodluck!
Be pattient. Realtors will try to get you to act quickly because it's less time on their part. Also make sure your agent is a ';buyers'; agent because they are obligated to act in your best interest.
The best way to establish credit is to responsibly use credit cards or establish other forms of debt and pay regularly w/out late payments. Don't be tempted into an ARM as it will hurt in the long run. Go with a 30 year fixed rate mortgage. Shop around for the best rates and don't be afraid to play one lender against each other. This is a great time to buy if you are in the position to as many sellers are desperate to unload their homes..
Good luck!
I don't know. I guess the most important thing is to calculate and take care of your finances to make sure you can pay your mortgage payments.
House prices have been coming down now but where I live the rates on 30-year mortgages have gone super high! as high as like 6.5% (we live in a large city)
I would advise not to overspend. Depending on where you live a 2-bd home could be fine for a 4-person family. Are the kids young and of the same gender?
My advice is DON'T! When you get divorced because of any little thing under the sun (and you have a 62% chance of this), you have to divide up your property, and she will likely get your kid, your car, and that pretty new house you bought. Get an apt and write your name FIRST on the lease, and put her as a co-renter, so you can keep the place when she runs for it. Read the websites below for more info. You'll thank me later.
do your homework...meaning find out what you can afford to pay on a morgage and having a family............ ask friends or family in that situation what they did or would do if they were in your shoes.....................because having children and a morgage can be stressful if you dont have a budget to begin with
Make sure you have a good downpayment, 20%. If you don't have that, you probably aren't ready to buy yet.
If you do, shop around for mortgages. You'd be amazed at the different rates you can get.
read through this financial advisor's words....
http://www.oprah.com/tows/pastshows/2007鈥?/a>
http://www.oprah.com/money/credit/slide/鈥?/a>
if you don't have much credit......... why buy a house
find a nice place to rent...... you don't have to have everything right now.What is some good advice for someone wanting to buy their first home with my wife and 2 kids?
Don't take on a mortgage that exceeds 30% of your income which is a rule of thumb tossed around by financial people to protect you from bankruptcy.
On the flip side, pay as much per month as you can reasonably afford or you will end up paying a ridiculous amount in the end in interest. Remember that ';mortgage'; is derived from Latin where it means roughly translated 'death pledge'...
Over the long term a variable mortgage interest rate has shown to give the lowest borrowing rate. Try to work it into your mortgage where you can renegotiate after a certain number of years so that if you're making more money you can put more down per month and decrease interest payments further.
Try to have the best down payment you can for your house and try no to buy one that is beyond your means. Paying $20K now can save you well over triple that amount in interest payments later in the future.
Pick an area that you think has 'potential'. Stay away from areas that you can see going 'bad' in 5 or 10 years. If you ever should choose to move you want to make sure that you have a good chance of selling your place.
If you don't have very much credit but you still think you can afford a place then try to get something modest. Be realistic.
Goodluck!
Be pattient. Realtors will try to get you to act quickly because it's less time on their part. Also make sure your agent is a ';buyers'; agent because they are obligated to act in your best interest.
The best way to establish credit is to responsibly use credit cards or establish other forms of debt and pay regularly w/out late payments. Don't be tempted into an ARM as it will hurt in the long run. Go with a 30 year fixed rate mortgage. Shop around for the best rates and don't be afraid to play one lender against each other. This is a great time to buy if you are in the position to as many sellers are desperate to unload their homes..
Good luck!
I don't know. I guess the most important thing is to calculate and take care of your finances to make sure you can pay your mortgage payments.
House prices have been coming down now but where I live the rates on 30-year mortgages have gone super high! as high as like 6.5% (we live in a large city)
I would advise not to overspend. Depending on where you live a 2-bd home could be fine for a 4-person family. Are the kids young and of the same gender?
My advice is DON'T! When you get divorced because of any little thing under the sun (and you have a 62% chance of this), you have to divide up your property, and she will likely get your kid, your car, and that pretty new house you bought. Get an apt and write your name FIRST on the lease, and put her as a co-renter, so you can keep the place when she runs for it. Read the websites below for more info. You'll thank me later.
do your homework...meaning find out what you can afford to pay on a morgage and having a family............ ask friends or family in that situation what they did or would do if they were in your shoes.....................because having children and a morgage can be stressful if you dont have a budget to begin with
Make sure you have a good downpayment, 20%. If you don't have that, you probably aren't ready to buy yet.
If you do, shop around for mortgages. You'd be amazed at the different rates you can get.
read through this financial advisor's words....
http://www.oprah.com/tows/pastshows/2007鈥?/a>
http://www.oprah.com/money/credit/slide/鈥?/a>
My wife and I have been discussing having a threesome with another girl...and later another guy. Any advice?
I'm not asking for whether we should do it or not, we've passed that mark. We're just wondering if any experienced people know how best to do this.My wife and I have been discussing having a threesome with another girl...and later another guy. Any advice?
From reading your posting it reads as though both of you have agreed to have a threesome but you do not mention if you have discussed boundaries. Before looking for the third person both of you will need to discuss boundaries and reach an agreement on them. Once you have an understanding of what your boundaries are going to be then you can approach a third person regarding having a threesome.
Regardless of the type of threesome wanting there are a few basic and generic rules you should follow. The first is communicate. By communicating I mean if you feel there is an issue developing do not wait to see if you can handle it or if it is worth even mentioning the rule is mention it. Having a threesome is not deciding what movie to see together. Instead it is something that can be quite enjoyable for the both of you if done right and if done wrong it can be quite destructive which means the onus is on the both of you to discuss issues as they surface. Finally in regard to communication the communication does not end once the threesome ends. Communication continues well after the threesome ended and continues until both of you are comfortable you have worked through the issues.
Another area the both of you will struggle with is seeing each other having sex with someone else. It is one thing to talk about it, talk about how you might feel seeing it, and nothing completely prepares you for it. Therefore it is important that you are prepared for a spectrum of reactions and remember in a threesome situation, unless you have opened up the relationship, sex in a threesome is about physical enjoyment not emotions. For most couples this means creating an emotional distance between the third person and themselves.
Third piece of advice is do not expect to find someone overnight. Generally speaking you can find males who are interested in having a threesome fairly quickly but finding a woman who is interested in a threesome can take some time to find.
If you are serious about having a threesome then my advice to you would be to have your mfm threesome first. Why? As stated above it is easier to find a single male than it is to find a single female. Second you can be selective with a single male due to their numbers and this will give the two of you a chance to develop your communication skills as you discuss the suitability of each male. Third it would give you a chance to have a threesome, understand some of th issues involved in having a threesome, and it will help the both of you understand if this is something you want to pursue. Finally by having an mfm threesome first will ease you into having a threesome whereas having an fmf first may having you deal with issues you are not ready to deal with. Simply put by having an mfm first it will allow you to understand from an emotional and communication perspective what is involved in a threesome due to the fact there are more males willing to participate in a threesome than there are females.
Moving on to what the two of you have planned a fmf first and then an mfm. Though it reads as though the both of you have reached a compromise I am left wonder the practicality of such a decision. When such a decision is reached in the abstract it seems as both of you have received something but the concern is when you move to have the mfm will there be some reluctance to have it? The point that I am trying to make is this, people's preferences changes as they have different experiences and though your plan reads like a compromise I am left to wonder what happens if you someone changes their mind about what has been planned? Will this become a source of conflict between the two of you or have you allowed your agreement to be flexible to change as your needs change?
In any event the main thing is the two of you are discussing this which is great. I wish you success on your journey and hope your threesome is a successful threesome.My wife and I have been discussing having a threesome with another girl...and later another guy. Any advice?
Yeah, yeah, your already past the question of whether or not your gonna do it.......
Dude, im tellin' you right now that there are some things better left to fantasy. I for one LOVE the idea, but the reality of seeing my man make his ';Oh'; face with someone else would really be awful. I would seriously think it through. While I do believe men are capable of having sex for sex's sake, I really don't believe that the same is true for women. Your wife will most likely not take it as well as you think......and you might be surprised at you reaction when you see your wife getting nailed by another dude. Just sayin'......
You have no idea how much you will regret this decision. Marriage should be kept sacred and when its not it slowly deteriorates. If you both want to bring other people in maybe you should think about now being married.
Fred says, ';Well if you insist Fred will sleep with your wife, fred is here to help. Go to ';adult friend finder'; best place to contact Fred and his sexy body';.
You need to make sure that all parties are well aware of each others boundaries, and never cross them.
Go to a swingers' site.
Visit a swinger's club. You don't have to do anything right off the bat. just watch and learn.
From reading your posting it reads as though both of you have agreed to have a threesome but you do not mention if you have discussed boundaries. Before looking for the third person both of you will need to discuss boundaries and reach an agreement on them. Once you have an understanding of what your boundaries are going to be then you can approach a third person regarding having a threesome.
Regardless of the type of threesome wanting there are a few basic and generic rules you should follow. The first is communicate. By communicating I mean if you feel there is an issue developing do not wait to see if you can handle it or if it is worth even mentioning the rule is mention it. Having a threesome is not deciding what movie to see together. Instead it is something that can be quite enjoyable for the both of you if done right and if done wrong it can be quite destructive which means the onus is on the both of you to discuss issues as they surface. Finally in regard to communication the communication does not end once the threesome ends. Communication continues well after the threesome ended and continues until both of you are comfortable you have worked through the issues.
Another area the both of you will struggle with is seeing each other having sex with someone else. It is one thing to talk about it, talk about how you might feel seeing it, and nothing completely prepares you for it. Therefore it is important that you are prepared for a spectrum of reactions and remember in a threesome situation, unless you have opened up the relationship, sex in a threesome is about physical enjoyment not emotions. For most couples this means creating an emotional distance between the third person and themselves.
Third piece of advice is do not expect to find someone overnight. Generally speaking you can find males who are interested in having a threesome fairly quickly but finding a woman who is interested in a threesome can take some time to find.
If you are serious about having a threesome then my advice to you would be to have your mfm threesome first. Why? As stated above it is easier to find a single male than it is to find a single female. Second you can be selective with a single male due to their numbers and this will give the two of you a chance to develop your communication skills as you discuss the suitability of each male. Third it would give you a chance to have a threesome, understand some of th issues involved in having a threesome, and it will help the both of you understand if this is something you want to pursue. Finally by having an mfm threesome first will ease you into having a threesome whereas having an fmf first may having you deal with issues you are not ready to deal with. Simply put by having an mfm first it will allow you to understand from an emotional and communication perspective what is involved in a threesome due to the fact there are more males willing to participate in a threesome than there are females.
Moving on to what the two of you have planned a fmf first and then an mfm. Though it reads as though the both of you have reached a compromise I am left wonder the practicality of such a decision. When such a decision is reached in the abstract it seems as both of you have received something but the concern is when you move to have the mfm will there be some reluctance to have it? The point that I am trying to make is this, people's preferences changes as they have different experiences and though your plan reads like a compromise I am left to wonder what happens if you someone changes their mind about what has been planned? Will this become a source of conflict between the two of you or have you allowed your agreement to be flexible to change as your needs change?
In any event the main thing is the two of you are discussing this which is great. I wish you success on your journey and hope your threesome is a successful threesome.My wife and I have been discussing having a threesome with another girl...and later another guy. Any advice?
Yeah, yeah, your already past the question of whether or not your gonna do it.......
Dude, im tellin' you right now that there are some things better left to fantasy. I for one LOVE the idea, but the reality of seeing my man make his ';Oh'; face with someone else would really be awful. I would seriously think it through. While I do believe men are capable of having sex for sex's sake, I really don't believe that the same is true for women. Your wife will most likely not take it as well as you think......and you might be surprised at you reaction when you see your wife getting nailed by another dude. Just sayin'......
You have no idea how much you will regret this decision. Marriage should be kept sacred and when its not it slowly deteriorates. If you both want to bring other people in maybe you should think about now being married.
Fred says, ';Well if you insist Fred will sleep with your wife, fred is here to help. Go to ';adult friend finder'; best place to contact Fred and his sexy body';.
You need to make sure that all parties are well aware of each others boundaries, and never cross them.
Go to a swingers' site.
Visit a swinger's club. You don't have to do anything right off the bat. just watch and learn.
What should I give my wife for St, Valentine's Day? Your advice please.?
I'm thinking either a new snow shovel with a smaller bowl so she won't be lifting to much a one time. She not as young as she used to be. Or, how about some of those cleats you attach to your shoes, so she doesn't slip on the ice when she cleaning the snow off the car.
What do you think?What should I give my wife for St, Valentine's Day? Your advice please.?
both..safety first, it's so sweet how her safety is important to youWhat should I give my wife for St, Valentine's Day? Your advice please.?
They aren't all the same. I have tired them all. It's all about the quality of the rubber harness and the quality of the steel they use for spikes. If you buy the cheap ones they will wear down after only a few uses, I use Spiky Ice Cleats and I love them. They last forever! www.spiky.com
ROFL. Ok, this is a loaded question to begin with, but I'll answer it anyway. It sounds like you know your wife pretty well. Just get her those things you already mentioned and quit baiting people on yahoo answers. :)
How about a heart-shaped pillow to put under her head so she's not banging her head against the headboard when you're giving her the other Valentine's gift?
Then she'll know how much you love her as you watch her shovel the driveway:)
Funny. I got my wife some new Red Sox swag. Romantic, huh?
how about the same thing she is going to give you....NOTHING
Why dont you give her what she really wants..... a divorce...
What do you think?What should I give my wife for St, Valentine's Day? Your advice please.?
both..safety first, it's so sweet how her safety is important to youWhat should I give my wife for St, Valentine's Day? Your advice please.?
They aren't all the same. I have tired them all. It's all about the quality of the rubber harness and the quality of the steel they use for spikes. If you buy the cheap ones they will wear down after only a few uses, I use Spiky Ice Cleats and I love them. They last forever! www.spiky.com
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ROFL. Ok, this is a loaded question to begin with, but I'll answer it anyway. It sounds like you know your wife pretty well. Just get her those things you already mentioned and quit baiting people on yahoo answers. :)
How about a heart-shaped pillow to put under her head so she's not banging her head against the headboard when you're giving her the other Valentine's gift?
Then she'll know how much you love her as you watch her shovel the driveway:)
Funny. I got my wife some new Red Sox swag. Romantic, huh?
how about the same thing she is going to give you....NOTHING
Why dont you give her what she really wants..... a divorce...
Any guys have advice for how to be a better wife?
Thanks!Any guys have advice for how to be a better wife?
1) Don't raise your voice all the time
2)Don't get mad at every little thing-crumps on the counter,didn't get the right item at the store
3)No name calling,unless its love names or playful
4)Use lube on handjobs
5)Don't brag as if your the only house cleaner or better cook unless you can back it up
6)Hugs and kisses once he comes home
7)Back rubs
8)Show some kind of interest in his hobbies
9)Don't be dismissive when he has things he needs to talk about and say whatever or we'll talk later or ignore him all together
10)Silent treatments-where you don't talk to him for days cuz your mad make you look like a pouting child age 2Any guys have advice for how to be a better wife?
Wow thanks I didn't expect it.Military is hard it was when are grandparents were in the army and it was the guys were away and there wives were at home.
Hard to say without knowing more details of why you think you need to be a better wife.
I would say generally though couples should treat each other with consideration, think about each other's feelings etc. Try to accomodate each other's needs.
It would be nice to know in what way you think you are falling short as a wife.
Always be understanding even when it s something bad but dint sell yourself short know when to draw the line. My man loves it when I am understanding instead of a emotional wreck or a mad woman.
Honk's answers are pretty much spot on. Also don't push for him to speak of his feelings. men are better at showing them than speaking of them. look more at his actions than his words or lack thereof.
jazmin is right!
text him. love notes.
do little special things.
tell him how important he is to you.
send special time together.
do not let anything get inbeteewn you two.
Make him feel needed and wanted for almost every aspect in your live financially or emotionally
Even though he is man take into consideration that he has feelings to and listen...thats a start!!!
1) Don't raise your voice all the time
2)Don't get mad at every little thing-crumps on the counter,didn't get the right item at the store
3)No name calling,unless its love names or playful
4)Use lube on handjobs
5)Don't brag as if your the only house cleaner or better cook unless you can back it up
6)Hugs and kisses once he comes home
7)Back rubs
8)Show some kind of interest in his hobbies
9)Don't be dismissive when he has things he needs to talk about and say whatever or we'll talk later or ignore him all together
10)Silent treatments-where you don't talk to him for days cuz your mad make you look like a pouting child age 2Any guys have advice for how to be a better wife?
Wow thanks I didn't expect it.Military is hard it was when are grandparents were in the army and it was the guys were away and there wives were at home.
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Hard to say without knowing more details of why you think you need to be a better wife.
I would say generally though couples should treat each other with consideration, think about each other's feelings etc. Try to accomodate each other's needs.
It would be nice to know in what way you think you are falling short as a wife.
Always be understanding even when it s something bad but dint sell yourself short know when to draw the line. My man loves it when I am understanding instead of a emotional wreck or a mad woman.
Honk's answers are pretty much spot on. Also don't push for him to speak of his feelings. men are better at showing them than speaking of them. look more at his actions than his words or lack thereof.
jazmin is right!
text him. love notes.
do little special things.
tell him how important he is to you.
send special time together.
do not let anything get inbeteewn you two.
Make him feel needed and wanted for almost every aspect in your live financially or emotionally
Even though he is man take into consideration that he has feelings to and listen...thats a start!!!
What advice would you give to a man who is being physically abused by his wife?
Keep in mind this is a man who was raised to never strike a woman.What advice would you give to a man who is being physically abused by his wife?
It is all well and good to tell him to call the police but the reality is that when the police get there he is more likely to go to jail than she is. (I was a police officer and I am not just making that up). All she has to do is cry and say he started it.
He can talk to her and take her to counseling or he can leave. Those are his only real options.What advice would you give to a man who is being physically abused by his wife?
leave
Not much if he won't stand by himself than there not much he will do with what you say%26gt; Like a battered wife when he has had enough he will act%26gt;
If possible you could try to block her from hitting you. This way you would not be hitting her but, preventing her from hitting you. Hopefully after she calms down, seeing that she can't hit you, you can negotiate with her and perhaps come to a compromise which in essence is what she wants anyway.
If he really Loves her than he needs to tell her that she need to keep her hands off him. Other wise the next time she lashes out at him, tell him to get up and leave so that she has to deal with whatever it is all by herself. .Go and get you a room or go to a friends house, but let someone he trust know where he will be, make that somebody that will not tell her where he is. I really feel for you having to go through this. I know we marry for better and for worse but she need HELP. anger management or something. You need to do something
before she hurts you, or causes you to hurt her in order to keep her from hurting you. If nothing else call the police and file a report so if anything happends then you have a record that she is abusive. My prayers are with you, and May God Bless You. and Good Luck
Call the police and have her arrested. It is against the law to strike a person. And don't drop the charges either. See it through to a conviction which will most likely result in probation and some much needed anger management classes. Then if she hits him again while on probation have her arrested again then she will find out what spending time in jail is like. She should soon get the idea that hitting her husband will hurt her worse then him.
GET THE HELL OUT! I DID!
Same advice as I would give to any woman who is being abused, either physically or emotionally; get help from the law, a shelter, a friend or family member and Get Out Now.
give her ultimatim find out what wrong with her and stop abusing if she loves him (usaully when someone abusive there is history and a reason. i'm not saying it's right, it just is how the world is) or leave
Leave. Nobody deserves to be abused. Like I'd tell any woman, call the police. It is a crime.
If you cant strike her....ball her
That is not a man to begin with, he will be a man the day he either makes her wife stop abusing him, or have the guts to leave that woman. He doesn't love himself by the way.
1. Leave and go and stay with a friend or relative.
2. Have her charged with assult and apply for a restraining order.
3. Change your phone number,email address etc.
4. If there are kids involved apply for full custody.
5. Grow some balls and never go back to her.
Leave and immediately begin divorce proceedings.
give her time, tell her how much u love her,
and question why she does what she does to u..
if nothing changes, tell her that maybe its time
for a divorce..
hope that helped.
Any man who would allow himself to be abused by a woman is not a ';man'; at all. If he's an adult and allows a woman to abuse him, there's no hope for him.
But if I gave him advice, I'd tell him to contact law enforcement.
It is all well and good to tell him to call the police but the reality is that when the police get there he is more likely to go to jail than she is. (I was a police officer and I am not just making that up). All she has to do is cry and say he started it.
He can talk to her and take her to counseling or he can leave. Those are his only real options.What advice would you give to a man who is being physically abused by his wife?
leave
Not much if he won't stand by himself than there not much he will do with what you say%26gt; Like a battered wife when he has had enough he will act%26gt;
If possible you could try to block her from hitting you. This way you would not be hitting her but, preventing her from hitting you. Hopefully after she calms down, seeing that she can't hit you, you can negotiate with her and perhaps come to a compromise which in essence is what she wants anyway.
If he really Loves her than he needs to tell her that she need to keep her hands off him. Other wise the next time she lashes out at him, tell him to get up and leave so that she has to deal with whatever it is all by herself. .Go and get you a room or go to a friends house, but let someone he trust know where he will be, make that somebody that will not tell her where he is. I really feel for you having to go through this. I know we marry for better and for worse but she need HELP. anger management or something. You need to do something
before she hurts you, or causes you to hurt her in order to keep her from hurting you. If nothing else call the police and file a report so if anything happends then you have a record that she is abusive. My prayers are with you, and May God Bless You. and Good Luck
Call the police and have her arrested. It is against the law to strike a person. And don't drop the charges either. See it through to a conviction which will most likely result in probation and some much needed anger management classes. Then if she hits him again while on probation have her arrested again then she will find out what spending time in jail is like. She should soon get the idea that hitting her husband will hurt her worse then him.
GET THE HELL OUT! I DID!
Same advice as I would give to any woman who is being abused, either physically or emotionally; get help from the law, a shelter, a friend or family member and Get Out Now.
give her ultimatim find out what wrong with her and stop abusing if she loves him (usaully when someone abusive there is history and a reason. i'm not saying it's right, it just is how the world is) or leave
Leave. Nobody deserves to be abused. Like I'd tell any woman, call the police. It is a crime.
If you cant strike her....ball her
That is not a man to begin with, he will be a man the day he either makes her wife stop abusing him, or have the guts to leave that woman. He doesn't love himself by the way.
1. Leave and go and stay with a friend or relative.
2. Have her charged with assult and apply for a restraining order.
3. Change your phone number,email address etc.
4. If there are kids involved apply for full custody.
5. Grow some balls and never go back to her.
Leave and immediately begin divorce proceedings.
give her time, tell her how much u love her,
and question why she does what she does to u..
if nothing changes, tell her that maybe its time
for a divorce..
hope that helped.
Any man who would allow himself to be abused by a woman is not a ';man'; at all. If he's an adult and allows a woman to abuse him, there's no hope for him.
But if I gave him advice, I'd tell him to contact law enforcement.
Name something a husband might ask his wife's advice about.';?
Clothing is the Answer for radio triviaName something a husband might ask his wife's advice about.';?
no ideaName something a husband might ask his wife's advice about.';?
what to wear
What it's like to be a woman. The relationship of woman to woman in different sociologic aspects: from daughter to mother, sister relationships, best friend relationships. Whatever she gives him is advice that will lead him to treat women in that manner. (Men to woman relationships are usually instilled by other men, but once in a while a man would be curious as what other ways there are to treat a woman, and whatever she gives and does is an example as to another method.)
What to get his mother for her b-day
if the tie fits the shirt he's wearing
If what he is wearing looks good on him
divorce
Whether the ceiling needs painting
How to set the washing machine for a certain load.
Does this look like syphilis to you?
Parenting...especially when it comes to the daughter...
what to wear to dinner with their friends
How does he look - my boyfriend is always asking me that over and over.....
he might ask something about cooking.
A SMART husband asks advice of his wife about how he can further please her in bed. They both win! ;)
no clue
Does my shirt go with this tie?
clothes is the answer for radio trivia
While my husband ask my advice about what everything.makeup care
no ideaName something a husband might ask his wife's advice about.';?
what to wear
What it's like to be a woman. The relationship of woman to woman in different sociologic aspects: from daughter to mother, sister relationships, best friend relationships. Whatever she gives him is advice that will lead him to treat women in that manner. (Men to woman relationships are usually instilled by other men, but once in a while a man would be curious as what other ways there are to treat a woman, and whatever she gives and does is an example as to another method.)
What to get his mother for her b-day
if the tie fits the shirt he's wearing
If what he is wearing looks good on him
divorce
Whether the ceiling needs painting
How to set the washing machine for a certain load.
Does this look like syphilis to you?
Parenting...especially when it comes to the daughter...
what to wear to dinner with their friends
How does he look - my boyfriend is always asking me that over and over.....
he might ask something about cooking.
A SMART husband asks advice of his wife about how he can further please her in bed. They both win! ;)
no clue
Does my shirt go with this tie?
clothes is the answer for radio trivia
While my husband ask my advice about what everything.
Me and my wife are going to start playing WoW... Need a little advice...?
Ok so me and my wife are going to start playing WoW together in a week. I am pretty sure she is going to be a priest so would the best class for me to choose to level with her be a warrior?
I hear that a priest is best with a warrior and a warrior is a lot better with a priest. Also I think it would make it very easy for us to get a group together since from my understanding the main to components of the group would already be in place, me the tank and her the healer...
So am I right to choose a warrior to team with my wife's priest?
And if a warrior is the best choice what would be the second best?
Thank you.Me and my wife are going to start playing WoW... Need a little advice...?
yeah if you guys plan on raiding together get a warrior. But you wil have to go proc spec if you want to tank. And that spec is very slow for lvling.
If you guys want to hit 70 fast get a mage and Aoe grind All your way there. Mages do an incredible amount of damage but since they have such low hp are restricted to killing one two or three opponents at a time. But with a priest you can kill 10 enemies at time. Mages are also very wanted for their crows control abilities and massive dps.
I recommend you go frost spec if you two want to AoE grind.
I hear that a priest is best with a warrior and a warrior is a lot better with a priest. Also I think it would make it very easy for us to get a group together since from my understanding the main to components of the group would already be in place, me the tank and her the healer...
So am I right to choose a warrior to team with my wife's priest?
And if a warrior is the best choice what would be the second best?
Thank you.Me and my wife are going to start playing WoW... Need a little advice...?
yeah if you guys plan on raiding together get a warrior. But you wil have to go proc spec if you want to tank. And that spec is very slow for lvling.
If you guys want to hit 70 fast get a mage and Aoe grind All your way there. Mages do an incredible amount of damage but since they have such low hp are restricted to killing one two or three opponents at a time. But with a priest you can kill 10 enemies at time. Mages are also very wanted for their crows control abilities and massive dps.
I recommend you go frost spec if you two want to AoE grind.
After some time of separation, I would like to get together with my wife. Any advice?
It's been 10 months.
Anyone who have been seperated like me and found ways to keep marriage alive, please input.
I've realized during our separation that no one is all good and no one is all bad.
We humans make mistakes sometimes and that's ok. That's how we learn. Instead of dwelling on the mistakes of the past, I want to use it as an education in life to do better in the future.
How can I explain to my wife who has sought out divorce to realize that greater good can come from our experiences if we apply the lessons learned?
HELP.After some time of separation, I would like to get together with my wife. Any advice?
Yes you are right,separation is a lesson and learn for all of us. and we all can't dwell on things that we can't never control, the mistakes, the betrayal is part of our life that we all must look back when we need to. Tell your wife how you feel, let your heart do the talking, and assure her that this time things will be different, and for the sake of your love to her,you can do all that you want. You are a strong person and you know now what you wanted in life, so show your affection and passion that you have for her,.....and I wish the two of you luck..After some time of separation, I would like to get together with my wife. Any advice?
Recourt her afresh. Send cards, gifts, letters. Ask her out (humbly) for dates (ostensibly to discuss your situation), but never discuss those. Speak of great times you have had. Dont take her for granted--She is new--after 10 months.
Have you had an open discussion with your wife about this? I wonder what has made her hammer the nail on the coffin when you sound open to change and to learning from the past.
Well, for one..therapy might help...
The experience that cause your seperation may have taken a harsh toll and has lead to where you are right now.
Whatever she did or you did has cause emotional issues with her and she may not be able to get passed them as easy as you have. You might want to understand that yourself. Sometimes something happens that is so destructive that it feels impossible for the other to heal. Although it can be done with help.
I would talk to her about it and whatever it was that cause it in the first place do whatever it takes to fix it. If it is an apology then do it. If it is a trust and respect issue, then start doing things to earn it back..whatever she needs to help...
Yes, I understand you have been hurt too....but it seems to me you have gone passed the issues and have put it in perspective...she has not yet..you need to help her if you are serious about repairing the marriage.
typically people that are separated go to counseling or talk and '; date'; to try to understand and work out the issues.
if your wife sought divorce, she may have found someone else or isn't interested in continuing the relationship, either way,, open communication with her is key
take her out to dinner and tell her all that you just typed; good luck!
Go and tell her how you feel, some women need to hear it. Talk to your wife from your heart,mean what you say. It's
always best to talk things through. Never leave them unresolved. If you really want her back then you have a lot of work to do. Prove yourself to her. Step up to the plate and be the man you say you want to be. Let your guard down and tell her how we all make mistakes, and how sometimes it takes a serious crisis to help you realize what truly matters in life. Show her you have changed and you want to make it work. The marriage means a lot to you. Good luck.....
Seek counseling and help for your marriage if need be before getting back together with her again. Take her out on a date here and there and start all over from scratch like you are just meeting and dating her for the first time. basically fall in love over again. Hold hands and have fun and do fun things together. Just tell her what you are telling us and tell her that you love her and want to start all over again. Good luck to the both of you and here comes lots of hugs your way.
Invite her out...do things together. You have to approach it as a new relationship and let it take off on its own, of course with plenty of attention from both parts.
Depends who did the cheating by the sounds of it was you ..........
Say the same you said here to her!
Depends on why you separated in the first place. If it was something major, that would be tough.
Tell her how you feeling and you are willing to do whatever it takes but make sure you follow through. Counseling?
Given the chance, be romantic, show her that you really appreciate her. It does not have to be shown on material things but make an effort by being romantic! That is the way to a womans heart!
Best of luck to you! Second time around may be the one for you both. Never know, she may feel the same!
I always recommend reading the book 'The 5 Love Languages'.
Each person responds to love in different ways. After a couple of evenings reading after work, you will have your answer.
Open your heart to her. Sit down somewhere neutral and talk to her. See if she feels the same. Don't be demanding, don't dwell on who did what to whom. All you can do is talk to her and ask if she is willing to try again. Maybe dating some would be a good start.
Tell her what you just told us! Just make sure your actions back up your words. If you really are interested in making your marriage work you need to SHOW her. Make an effort to spend time with her, even if you get rejected at first. Keep trying, that will show her how serious you are about this.
Anyone who have been seperated like me and found ways to keep marriage alive, please input.
I've realized during our separation that no one is all good and no one is all bad.
We humans make mistakes sometimes and that's ok. That's how we learn. Instead of dwelling on the mistakes of the past, I want to use it as an education in life to do better in the future.
How can I explain to my wife who has sought out divorce to realize that greater good can come from our experiences if we apply the lessons learned?
HELP.After some time of separation, I would like to get together with my wife. Any advice?
Yes you are right,separation is a lesson and learn for all of us. and we all can't dwell on things that we can't never control, the mistakes, the betrayal is part of our life that we all must look back when we need to. Tell your wife how you feel, let your heart do the talking, and assure her that this time things will be different, and for the sake of your love to her,you can do all that you want. You are a strong person and you know now what you wanted in life, so show your affection and passion that you have for her,.....and I wish the two of you luck..After some time of separation, I would like to get together with my wife. Any advice?
Recourt her afresh. Send cards, gifts, letters. Ask her out (humbly) for dates (ostensibly to discuss your situation), but never discuss those. Speak of great times you have had. Dont take her for granted--She is new--after 10 months.
Have you had an open discussion with your wife about this? I wonder what has made her hammer the nail on the coffin when you sound open to change and to learning from the past.
Well, for one..therapy might help...
The experience that cause your seperation may have taken a harsh toll and has lead to where you are right now.
Whatever she did or you did has cause emotional issues with her and she may not be able to get passed them as easy as you have. You might want to understand that yourself. Sometimes something happens that is so destructive that it feels impossible for the other to heal. Although it can be done with help.
I would talk to her about it and whatever it was that cause it in the first place do whatever it takes to fix it. If it is an apology then do it. If it is a trust and respect issue, then start doing things to earn it back..whatever she needs to help...
Yes, I understand you have been hurt too....but it seems to me you have gone passed the issues and have put it in perspective...she has not yet..you need to help her if you are serious about repairing the marriage.
typically people that are separated go to counseling or talk and '; date'; to try to understand and work out the issues.
if your wife sought divorce, she may have found someone else or isn't interested in continuing the relationship, either way,, open communication with her is key
take her out to dinner and tell her all that you just typed; good luck!
Go and tell her how you feel, some women need to hear it. Talk to your wife from your heart,mean what you say. It's
always best to talk things through. Never leave them unresolved. If you really want her back then you have a lot of work to do. Prove yourself to her. Step up to the plate and be the man you say you want to be. Let your guard down and tell her how we all make mistakes, and how sometimes it takes a serious crisis to help you realize what truly matters in life. Show her you have changed and you want to make it work. The marriage means a lot to you. Good luck.....
Seek counseling and help for your marriage if need be before getting back together with her again. Take her out on a date here and there and start all over from scratch like you are just meeting and dating her for the first time. basically fall in love over again. Hold hands and have fun and do fun things together. Just tell her what you are telling us and tell her that you love her and want to start all over again. Good luck to the both of you and here comes lots of hugs your way.
Invite her out...do things together. You have to approach it as a new relationship and let it take off on its own, of course with plenty of attention from both parts.
Depends who did the cheating by the sounds of it was you ..........
Say the same you said here to her!
Depends on why you separated in the first place. If it was something major, that would be tough.
Tell her how you feeling and you are willing to do whatever it takes but make sure you follow through. Counseling?
Given the chance, be romantic, show her that you really appreciate her. It does not have to be shown on material things but make an effort by being romantic! That is the way to a womans heart!
Best of luck to you! Second time around may be the one for you both. Never know, she may feel the same!
I always recommend reading the book 'The 5 Love Languages'.
Each person responds to love in different ways. After a couple of evenings reading after work, you will have your answer.
Open your heart to her. Sit down somewhere neutral and talk to her. See if she feels the same. Don't be demanding, don't dwell on who did what to whom. All you can do is talk to her and ask if she is willing to try again. Maybe dating some would be a good start.
Tell her what you just told us! Just make sure your actions back up your words. If you really are interested in making your marriage work you need to SHOW her. Make an effort to spend time with her, even if you get rejected at first. Keep trying, that will show her how serious you are about this.
My wife is pregnant and we planned to go canada for delievry can you advice me a good hospital?
and how much it will cost (specially she dont has health insurance ) she is in 2nd month nowMy wife is pregnant and we planned to go canada for delievry can you advice me a good hospital?
';your in Canada and have a high risk pregnancy they send you to a US hospital because Canada...';
Heh, heh. That's a good one. I also enjoyed the one about the hospitals being ';full.'; That's an amusing image, all these women in labour in a queue of cars at Customs, heading for...wait, are they heading for the top-notch care offered in those wee border towns that're too small for hospitals? Or are they driving hours and hours to a city, legs crossed? It's a hilarious image either way.
';Infant mortality rates, which reflect the health of the mother and her access to prenatal and postnatal care, are considered one of the most reliable measures of the general health of a population. Today, U.S. government statistics rank Canada's infant mortality rate of 4.7 per thousand 23rd out of 225 countries, in the company of the Netherlands, Luxembourg, Australia, and Denmark. The U.S. is 43rd--in the company of Croatia and Lithuania, below Taiwan and Cuba.
All the countries surrounding Canada or above it in the rankings have tax-supported health care systems. The countries surrounding the United States and below have mixed systems or are, in general, extremely poor in comparison to the United States and the other G8 industrial powerhouses.
There are no major industrialized countries near the United States in the rankings. The closest is Italy, at 5.83 infants dying per thousand, but it is still ranked five places higher.
In the United States, infant mortality rates are 7.1 per 1,000, the highest in the industrialized world -- much higher than some of the poorer states in India, for example, which have public health systems in place, at least for mothers and infants. Among the inner-city poor in the United States, more than 8 percent of mothers receive no prenatal care at all before giving birth.';
http://www.thirdworldtraveler.com/Health鈥?/a>
I can't blame somebody for wanting to cross the border... You're also less likely to be subjected to outdated and potentially harmful interventions giving birth up here.
But, uh, yeah, you need to narrow it down. Do you want to give birth in Halifax? Victoria? Iqaluit?
Re. CHEO in earlier answer: yes, a good hospital, but you can't _deliver_ there... The Ottawa Civic and General hospitals have the market cornered on the high-risk stuff, I think. But, I'd look into the Queensway-Carleton. There's a little 'virtual tour' of its maternity ward on the web site:
http://www.qch.on.ca/
I encourage any confused or curious Americans to check out the god-awful facilities Canadian hospitals offer:
http://www.qch.on.ca/Home.aspx?PageID=63鈥?/a>My wife is pregnant and we planned to go canada for delievry can you advice me a good hospital?
Umm . . . Canada is massive. Where exactly are you going? What province? What city? I'd love to help you, but I need more info
Well, I live in Montreal, which is in Quebec. We have many excellent hospitals in the city. Some noted for their prenatal care are: The Montreal Children's Hospital (one of the best childcare hospital in the country), St. Mary's Hospital, the Lasalle Hospital (located in the borough of Lasalle, excellent maternity unit). This is from personal experience.
However, if you don't speak any French, Quebec migh not be the place for you. Our capital city, Ottawa, has an excellent children's hospital, called CHEO (the children's hospital of Eastern Ontario). I have no personal experience at this hospital, but I hear it is very good.
All I know is when the hospitals are full in Canada they come over her to the US to deliver. You might want to check at that first.
there are alot of good hospitals here in canada, but not sure how much it will be for ur wife to deliever here
If you wife is going to have a high risk pregnancy then Canada isn't the place to go. I heard a news report that if your in Canada and have a high risk pregnancy they send you to a US hospital because Canada doesn't have the resources to care for a high risk pregnancy or a baby that may need to be in the NICU. I do not Know the cost or a good hospital but I would be cautious about the quality of care she may receive.
';your in Canada and have a high risk pregnancy they send you to a US hospital because Canada...';
Heh, heh. That's a good one. I also enjoyed the one about the hospitals being ';full.'; That's an amusing image, all these women in labour in a queue of cars at Customs, heading for...wait, are they heading for the top-notch care offered in those wee border towns that're too small for hospitals? Or are they driving hours and hours to a city, legs crossed? It's a hilarious image either way.
';Infant mortality rates, which reflect the health of the mother and her access to prenatal and postnatal care, are considered one of the most reliable measures of the general health of a population. Today, U.S. government statistics rank Canada's infant mortality rate of 4.7 per thousand 23rd out of 225 countries, in the company of the Netherlands, Luxembourg, Australia, and Denmark. The U.S. is 43rd--in the company of Croatia and Lithuania, below Taiwan and Cuba.
All the countries surrounding Canada or above it in the rankings have tax-supported health care systems. The countries surrounding the United States and below have mixed systems or are, in general, extremely poor in comparison to the United States and the other G8 industrial powerhouses.
There are no major industrialized countries near the United States in the rankings. The closest is Italy, at 5.83 infants dying per thousand, but it is still ranked five places higher.
In the United States, infant mortality rates are 7.1 per 1,000, the highest in the industrialized world -- much higher than some of the poorer states in India, for example, which have public health systems in place, at least for mothers and infants. Among the inner-city poor in the United States, more than 8 percent of mothers receive no prenatal care at all before giving birth.';
http://www.thirdworldtraveler.com/Health鈥?/a>
I can't blame somebody for wanting to cross the border... You're also less likely to be subjected to outdated and potentially harmful interventions giving birth up here.
But, uh, yeah, you need to narrow it down. Do you want to give birth in Halifax? Victoria? Iqaluit?
Re. CHEO in earlier answer: yes, a good hospital, but you can't _deliver_ there... The Ottawa Civic and General hospitals have the market cornered on the high-risk stuff, I think. But, I'd look into the Queensway-Carleton. There's a little 'virtual tour' of its maternity ward on the web site:
http://www.qch.on.ca/
I encourage any confused or curious Americans to check out the god-awful facilities Canadian hospitals offer:
http://www.qch.on.ca/Home.aspx?PageID=63鈥?/a>My wife is pregnant and we planned to go canada for delievry can you advice me a good hospital?
Umm . . . Canada is massive. Where exactly are you going? What province? What city? I'd love to help you, but I need more info
Well, I live in Montreal, which is in Quebec. We have many excellent hospitals in the city. Some noted for their prenatal care are: The Montreal Children's Hospital (one of the best childcare hospital in the country), St. Mary's Hospital, the Lasalle Hospital (located in the borough of Lasalle, excellent maternity unit). This is from personal experience.
However, if you don't speak any French, Quebec migh not be the place for you. Our capital city, Ottawa, has an excellent children's hospital, called CHEO (the children's hospital of Eastern Ontario). I have no personal experience at this hospital, but I hear it is very good.
All I know is when the hospitals are full in Canada they come over her to the US to deliver. You might want to check at that first.
there are alot of good hospitals here in canada, but not sure how much it will be for ur wife to deliever here
If you wife is going to have a high risk pregnancy then Canada isn't the place to go. I heard a news report that if your in Canada and have a high risk pregnancy they send you to a US hospital because Canada doesn't have the resources to care for a high risk pregnancy or a baby that may need to be in the NICU. I do not Know the cost or a good hospital but I would be cautious about the quality of care she may receive.
My wife is traveling from San Diego to Incheon, South Korea with our 6 month old son. Your best advice?
What can be done to make it more painless? Should I contact his doctor (my son) to see if he can provide something to help with the trip? I do not like that idea, but it may have to be done to help my wife out since she is going to Korea alone with him.My wife is traveling from San Diego to Incheon, South Korea with our 6 month old son. Your best advice?
My adughter is 6 now. I have traveled alone with her across the globe many times.
Your son is 6 months now, so maybe the collic stage is behind him... Most babies are annoyed by take-offs and landings because of the pressureon the ears. This cannot be avoided. Some seem to not notice, but a baby prone to ear-pressure will wake up when it is happeneing and cry. But it passes quickly. (although it seems like hours because everyone is around you)
I have never medicated her because doctors urged me against it. I would be surprised if a doctor gives you something to put him to sleep. Why take the chance of medicating if it is not necessary?
In my experience, I have had to walk Jolie a bit to calm her down, but she eventually went to sleep. Usually I walked her near the galley, once the plane was up in the air. And then she slept normally, like she does at home.
What arilines are you flying?
An Asian airlines is MUCH MORE HELPFUL than a US carrier, where some flight attendants can barely tolerate their adult customers, let alone their children.My wife is traveling from San Diego to Incheon, South Korea with our 6 month old son. Your best advice?
fly
i've traveling on korea-air many times w/ my daughter - at 4mths, 6 mths, 10 mths and 24 mths. all of the flights were cross-continental as well.
yes, visit your peds doc before you fly. bring some children's benedryl. depending on your child's weight, you can give 3 - 5 mls to your baby to help w/ YOUR sleep on flight. most of my friend's children did well w/ benedryl. my daughter did not. it had the intended affect - for her to sleep, but she woke up w/in an hour and was more fussy. try your best to get the baby adjusted to the time difference at least a week in advance. this will probably make life more difficult for your wife b/c it will require one of you to stay awake too, but TRUST ME, on the flight and when you reach your destination, things will go soooooo much more smoothly.
for ear pressure problems - if the baby is still breastfeeding, try to feed during take-offs and landings. if that's not possible, a bottle will do or a pacifier.
ask for bulk-head w/ a bassinet. all international carriers have this option. you get more leg room and you can put the baby in the bassinet while he is sleeping.
the best remedy for crying is to take turns w/ your spouse. generally, asiana or korean air both have very professional and helpful staff. if you can't take turns the attendants help out as well. just ask. don't be afraid to ask.
good luck!
You can contact to airline companies to check what kind of special service they provide for a infant and mother.
My adughter is 6 now. I have traveled alone with her across the globe many times.
Your son is 6 months now, so maybe the collic stage is behind him... Most babies are annoyed by take-offs and landings because of the pressureon the ears. This cannot be avoided. Some seem to not notice, but a baby prone to ear-pressure will wake up when it is happeneing and cry. But it passes quickly. (although it seems like hours because everyone is around you)
I have never medicated her because doctors urged me against it. I would be surprised if a doctor gives you something to put him to sleep. Why take the chance of medicating if it is not necessary?
In my experience, I have had to walk Jolie a bit to calm her down, but she eventually went to sleep. Usually I walked her near the galley, once the plane was up in the air. And then she slept normally, like she does at home.
What arilines are you flying?
An Asian airlines is MUCH MORE HELPFUL than a US carrier, where some flight attendants can barely tolerate their adult customers, let alone their children.My wife is traveling from San Diego to Incheon, South Korea with our 6 month old son. Your best advice?
fly
i've traveling on korea-air many times w/ my daughter - at 4mths, 6 mths, 10 mths and 24 mths. all of the flights were cross-continental as well.
yes, visit your peds doc before you fly. bring some children's benedryl. depending on your child's weight, you can give 3 - 5 mls to your baby to help w/ YOUR sleep on flight. most of my friend's children did well w/ benedryl. my daughter did not. it had the intended affect - for her to sleep, but she woke up w/in an hour and was more fussy. try your best to get the baby adjusted to the time difference at least a week in advance. this will probably make life more difficult for your wife b/c it will require one of you to stay awake too, but TRUST ME, on the flight and when you reach your destination, things will go soooooo much more smoothly.
for ear pressure problems - if the baby is still breastfeeding, try to feed during take-offs and landings. if that's not possible, a bottle will do or a pacifier.
ask for bulk-head w/ a bassinet. all international carriers have this option. you get more leg room and you can put the baby in the bassinet while he is sleeping.
the best remedy for crying is to take turns w/ your spouse. generally, asiana or korean air both have very professional and helpful staff. if you can't take turns the attendants help out as well. just ask. don't be afraid to ask.
good luck!
You can contact to airline companies to check what kind of special service they provide for a infant and mother.
My wife needs advice on what to wear?
me and my wife are going to her best freinds 40th birthday party on saturday after noon it will be held in my wifes freinds sisters backyard my wife wants to buy something new to wear to the party and new shoes but has no idear what to wear or what to buy so any help would be greatMy wife needs advice on what to wear?
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http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/in鈥?/a>My wife needs advice on what to wear?
A wraparound jersey dress works for many body types, try a solid color and punch it up with some fantastic bangles and a great necklace or a high waisted shift dress in a bold color and then u only need a few accessories, or a kelly green
V-neck top with three-quarter sleeves and white straight leg pant or a gaucho pant which reaches right below the knee, compliment it with a T-strap espadrille shoe. She'll be the fashion princess of the party!
She could wear a nice summer pants suit.( Light Color) Or she could wear a sun dress.Either would be nice with sandals. Anything more glamorous would be out of the question. Unless the invitation states 'Formal' Go casual, but elegant. Even a hat would be appropriate to block the sun. Also purse should match hat and shoes. They should gear toward the summer look.
Example: Linen, or Cotton, with Straw Hat and purse, but elegant in style. Hope this helps. Enjoy the day.
Since it's in a backyard and in the afternoon, she should wear a pretty sundress. Here are some ideas -
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She can pair it off with a white (or black) cardigan.
It is summer and it's a backyard so a nice sundress or summer dress will go nicely with wedges that match. That is of course if she likes heels. She can always opt out for nice, matching sandals.
Here is a website with pictures of sundresses.
http://www.edressme.com/sundresses.html
we need pictures,or a description of her and her style, budget, place of party etc.
add info and pictures of her..full body,not naked of course ,unless she wants to. but add more info to help you properly.
i dont know her style or her age, but i work at old navy %26amp; we have a bunch of ';club'; wear. not hoochie clothes just pretty sequin shirts. go check it out or go online so u know what i mean.
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Watch TLC's what not to wear and they have outfits that you can see and get an idea of what she can wear. Its a really good show too.
Get a summer dress, they are every where. Or if it's more casual, wear nice half jeans and a flowy top. Basicially anything u can find in name brand stores right now.
For out doors, you can wear a flowery dress, for shoes any kind that has flat heals.
A summer dress or a babydoll dress with flats, flip flops, or if she is good with heels she could wear some wedges. Remember that bright colors are in this season!
here is a perfect outfit:
sun dress:
http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/in鈥?/a>
shoes:
http://www.payless.com/Catalog/ProductDe鈥?/a>
bracelets:
http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/in鈥?/a>My wife needs advice on what to wear?
A wraparound jersey dress works for many body types, try a solid color and punch it up with some fantastic bangles and a great necklace or a high waisted shift dress in a bold color and then u only need a few accessories, or a kelly green
V-neck top with three-quarter sleeves and white straight leg pant or a gaucho pant which reaches right below the knee, compliment it with a T-strap espadrille shoe. She'll be the fashion princess of the party!
She could wear a nice summer pants suit.( Light Color) Or she could wear a sun dress.Either would be nice with sandals. Anything more glamorous would be out of the question. Unless the invitation states 'Formal' Go casual, but elegant. Even a hat would be appropriate to block the sun. Also purse should match hat and shoes. They should gear toward the summer look.
Example: Linen, or Cotton, with Straw Hat and purse, but elegant in style. Hope this helps. Enjoy the day.
Since it's in a backyard and in the afternoon, she should wear a pretty sundress. Here are some ideas -
http://www4.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6.aspx?Dep鈥?/a>
http://www4.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6.aspx?Dep鈥?/a>
http://www4.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6.aspx?Dep鈥?/a>
She can pair it off with a white (or black) cardigan.
It is summer and it's a backyard so a nice sundress or summer dress will go nicely with wedges that match. That is of course if she likes heels. She can always opt out for nice, matching sandals.
Here is a website with pictures of sundresses.
http://www.edressme.com/sundresses.html
we need pictures,or a description of her and her style, budget, place of party etc.
add info and pictures of her..full body,not naked of course ,unless she wants to. but add more info to help you properly.
i dont know her style or her age, but i work at old navy %26amp; we have a bunch of ';club'; wear. not hoochie clothes just pretty sequin shirts. go check it out or go online so u know what i mean.
http://www.oldnavy.com/browse/category.d鈥?/a>
Watch TLC's what not to wear and they have outfits that you can see and get an idea of what she can wear. Its a really good show too.
Get a summer dress, they are every where. Or if it's more casual, wear nice half jeans and a flowy top. Basicially anything u can find in name brand stores right now.
For out doors, you can wear a flowery dress, for shoes any kind that has flat heals.
A summer dress or a babydoll dress with flats, flip flops, or if she is good with heels she could wear some wedges. Remember that bright colors are in this season!
The wife caught me cheating yesterday - advice?
it Was a stupid and careless mistake. i feel so guilty
She said she's never going to play Monopoly with me again.The wife caught me cheating yesterday - advice?
Let her be the banker next time! Insist upon it!!
Oh, and let her have first dibs on the Shoe or the Top Hat or whatever game piece she prefers.
Perhaps the marriage can be saved!!The wife caught me cheating yesterday - advice?
haha luv it!!! all i can say is next time - be smarter!!! or maybe convince her to play it on your hands and knees and play fairly for a couple of times (as if anyone ever plays monopoly fairly!!!) to lull her into a false sense of security!!!!!!!
ROFLLL idk if your talkin about cheating cheating on her or cheating in the game monopoly lol
wtf
im like wait....she stopped playing monopoly wit him cuz he slept wit sum1 else?
cuz how da fck do you cheat in monopoly
If were my husband you would no longer have the equipment to play Monopoly!
if you were cheating with anouther woman = shoot yourself now u low life scum.
if it was cheating with a board game= dont shoot yourself she will get over it.
'serves you right. try chess from now on.. Only problem is you'll always be watched and the chances of cheating is really low :-)
Hope she dumps you for cheating at the game, and i hope she dumps you for the joke! :)
Naughty naughty. Why don't you play a new game like Risk or other strategy games. You are encouraged to cheat in those!
Well thank you for the chuckle. I think she should take the shoe counter and boot you in the bum :)
stop stealing from the bank, your an untrustd banker from now on, you have been labelled and can never play again
Haha
There is always Solitaire..
i got caught aswell it was sooooooo embarrasing. She caught me eating the last piece of chocolate :(
I wouldn't trust you again either.
You have dug youre hole! Better men have dug their way out!
Go straight to jail and do not collect 拢200.
too bad she couldn't have caught that on video and displayed it on youtube
Dude, you hide the money in your shoe!
Tee hee....
Looks like she has your Christmas present tied up now - a game of solitaire.........
:)
y wud u feel guilty? its jst a damn game
i wudnt trustt u either btw :)
try another game
Solitare. ..Pay Dayy.. blah blah
tut tut, let her be the banker next time so she can nick a few notes
what a joke.....
were u being the banker and sneaking money
ha ha ha, i was ready to give you what for then............makeup care
She said she's never going to play Monopoly with me again.The wife caught me cheating yesterday - advice?
Let her be the banker next time! Insist upon it!!
Oh, and let her have first dibs on the Shoe or the Top Hat or whatever game piece she prefers.
Perhaps the marriage can be saved!!The wife caught me cheating yesterday - advice?
haha luv it!!! all i can say is next time - be smarter!!! or maybe convince her to play it on your hands and knees and play fairly for a couple of times (as if anyone ever plays monopoly fairly!!!) to lull her into a false sense of security!!!!!!!
ROFLLL idk if your talkin about cheating cheating on her or cheating in the game monopoly lol
wtf
im like wait....she stopped playing monopoly wit him cuz he slept wit sum1 else?
cuz how da fck do you cheat in monopoly
If were my husband you would no longer have the equipment to play Monopoly!
if you were cheating with anouther woman = shoot yourself now u low life scum.
if it was cheating with a board game= dont shoot yourself she will get over it.
'serves you right. try chess from now on.. Only problem is you'll always be watched and the chances of cheating is really low :-)
Hope she dumps you for cheating at the game, and i hope she dumps you for the joke! :)
Naughty naughty. Why don't you play a new game like Risk or other strategy games. You are encouraged to cheat in those!
Well thank you for the chuckle. I think she should take the shoe counter and boot you in the bum :)
stop stealing from the bank, your an untrustd banker from now on, you have been labelled and can never play again
Haha
There is always Solitaire..
i got caught aswell it was sooooooo embarrasing. She caught me eating the last piece of chocolate :(
I wouldn't trust you again either.
You have dug youre hole! Better men have dug their way out!
Go straight to jail and do not collect 拢200.
too bad she couldn't have caught that on video and displayed it on youtube
Dude, you hide the money in your shoe!
Tee hee....
Looks like she has your Christmas present tied up now - a game of solitaire.........
:)
y wud u feel guilty? its jst a damn game
i wudnt trustt u either btw :)
try another game
Solitare. ..Pay Dayy.. blah blah
tut tut, let her be the banker next time so she can nick a few notes
what a joke.....
were u being the banker and sneaking money
ha ha ha, i was ready to give you what for then............
My wife is pregnant with our first child, any advice on mood swings?
My wife is pregnant with our first child and she's been having major crazy mood swings. I'm a pretty sensitive guy and hates being disrespected, but damn she just be going off on me for no reason sometimes. When I ask her what's up, she says its nothing..I swear I am going crazy and don't know what to do. Please help or I will go crazy!!!!My wife is pregnant with our first child, any advice on mood swings?
Please just be understanding about it. I know guys have a little trouble understanding how hormones work, but sometimes with hormones, we have little control of it and it can drive a woman insane. I'm sure she knows she's more emotional now than before, but she just needs to release the pressure, and that may come out towards you. Just understand and stick with her and be by her side. But also know when to give her space and not crowd her. Youre on the right track, I can tell you want to do right, so just help her to relieve the stress, and remember it's not you whose making her crazy even though it may feel like it at times. 1st trimester is the worst and it gets better with time. Just hang in there :)My wife is pregnant with our first child, any advice on mood swings?
It is something that comes with pregnancy. Just remember that she is not meaning to go off on you or anything like that. Just be there and tell her that you love her and try just helping out around the house without her having to ask. Try doing the laundry for her, the dishes, making a romantic dinner, stuff like that. My husband has gotten so used to my mood swings that he will just stand there while i rant and rave and when im done he just looks at me, smiles, and with a slight laugh in his voice asks me if i feel better now in his cute lil tone he has and i just start start laughing and crying at the same time but feel better too. Just dont get mad and start going off back at her.
Honestly this is why men dont carry the babies. I was like that too you just need to be patient and supportive of her let her have her mood swings and just deal with it do what ever you can to make her happy things are going to get alot crazier once baby is born you know. you dont know how it feels to go crazy feel fat and ugly so just be patient.
just try to be understanding and tell her how you feel.
she should also try to understand that she is being harsh and should try not to be,
but you truly have to realize its not her and she can't always control it.
it just comes out, trust me i've been there.
if she gets really bad at times give her some space
and go for a walk.
a word of advice,
don't tell her shes hormonal, that makes it worse!
good luck.
LOL. Sorry to laugh...I'm sorry...I think I drove my fiance nuts in the beginning too when I first found out we were pregnant. Just try to be there for her and understand what she is going through. It's a scary/great/wonderful experience. It'll pass with time =) Good luck!
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your just going to have to remember that when she goes off on you like that.. its just her hormones.. it doesn't last forever..
haha its really normal for her to have mood swings. her hormones will go a bit crazy. all you can do is be ther for her. goodluck.
I actually got your wife pregnant, at least you won't be surprised when the baby is black. Sorry.
Try to imagine how she feels right now.
She probably feels bloated (uncomfortable and more importantly to a woman, FAT) off-center, depressed, unable to cope, her hands and feet are probably swollen and itchy, many of her clothes don't fit anymore even if she isn't ';showing'; yet, her hair isn't doing what she wants it to, her skin is breaking out, she feels uncomfortably hot in certain places on her body, she may be torn between buying maternity clothes that make her look nice or oversize clothes that are cheaper but make her look ugly, she may be experiencing sharp ligament pain around her hips and abdomen and awful tailbone pain everytime she sits, she is starting to waddle when she walks and feels very unsexy... the worst part perhaps is knowing that her body will never be the same after the birth, her breasts will be smaller and hang lower, hips will be wider, and she will probably have some stretch marks that never go away. Her whole life and image of self and everything about her body is turning upside down, and this would make any woman want to cry at times.
The list goes on and on. I am 9 months pregnant with my first and it has been very rough at times for my husband as well. Your wife is going through something that you should be thankful you'll never have to experience. It's wonderful but it's extremely hard. There are times when she needs to let loose on someone and feels comfortable enough with you for you to take the brunt of it. She probably is secretly very grateful that you're there for her. Try to be patient, don't raise your voice and don't seem to get upset even when she is being completely unreasonable - it won't last long. Reacting badly is only going to start a fight and trust me, she doesn't want to fight at all, she just needs to unleash for a few minutes and feel like her frustrations are being heard. This is the one time in her life when she is allowed to be unreasonable and demanding.
Please just be understanding about it. I know guys have a little trouble understanding how hormones work, but sometimes with hormones, we have little control of it and it can drive a woman insane. I'm sure she knows she's more emotional now than before, but she just needs to release the pressure, and that may come out towards you. Just understand and stick with her and be by her side. But also know when to give her space and not crowd her. Youre on the right track, I can tell you want to do right, so just help her to relieve the stress, and remember it's not you whose making her crazy even though it may feel like it at times. 1st trimester is the worst and it gets better with time. Just hang in there :)My wife is pregnant with our first child, any advice on mood swings?
It is something that comes with pregnancy. Just remember that she is not meaning to go off on you or anything like that. Just be there and tell her that you love her and try just helping out around the house without her having to ask. Try doing the laundry for her, the dishes, making a romantic dinner, stuff like that. My husband has gotten so used to my mood swings that he will just stand there while i rant and rave and when im done he just looks at me, smiles, and with a slight laugh in his voice asks me if i feel better now in his cute lil tone he has and i just start start laughing and crying at the same time but feel better too. Just dont get mad and start going off back at her.
Honestly this is why men dont carry the babies. I was like that too you just need to be patient and supportive of her let her have her mood swings and just deal with it do what ever you can to make her happy things are going to get alot crazier once baby is born you know. you dont know how it feels to go crazy feel fat and ugly so just be patient.
just try to be understanding and tell her how you feel.
she should also try to understand that she is being harsh and should try not to be,
but you truly have to realize its not her and she can't always control it.
it just comes out, trust me i've been there.
if she gets really bad at times give her some space
and go for a walk.
a word of advice,
don't tell her shes hormonal, that makes it worse!
good luck.
LOL. Sorry to laugh...I'm sorry...I think I drove my fiance nuts in the beginning too when I first found out we were pregnant. Just try to be there for her and understand what she is going through. It's a scary/great/wonderful experience. It'll pass with time =) Good luck!
heres a great website:
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article鈥?/a>
your just going to have to remember that when she goes off on you like that.. its just her hormones.. it doesn't last forever..
haha its really normal for her to have mood swings. her hormones will go a bit crazy. all you can do is be ther for her. goodluck.
I actually got your wife pregnant, at least you won't be surprised when the baby is black. Sorry.
Try to imagine how she feels right now.
She probably feels bloated (uncomfortable and more importantly to a woman, FAT) off-center, depressed, unable to cope, her hands and feet are probably swollen and itchy, many of her clothes don't fit anymore even if she isn't ';showing'; yet, her hair isn't doing what she wants it to, her skin is breaking out, she feels uncomfortably hot in certain places on her body, she may be torn between buying maternity clothes that make her look nice or oversize clothes that are cheaper but make her look ugly, she may be experiencing sharp ligament pain around her hips and abdomen and awful tailbone pain everytime she sits, she is starting to waddle when she walks and feels very unsexy... the worst part perhaps is knowing that her body will never be the same after the birth, her breasts will be smaller and hang lower, hips will be wider, and she will probably have some stretch marks that never go away. Her whole life and image of self and everything about her body is turning upside down, and this would make any woman want to cry at times.
The list goes on and on. I am 9 months pregnant with my first and it has been very rough at times for my husband as well. Your wife is going through something that you should be thankful you'll never have to experience. It's wonderful but it's extremely hard. There are times when she needs to let loose on someone and feels comfortable enough with you for you to take the brunt of it. She probably is secretly very grateful that you're there for her. Try to be patient, don't raise your voice and don't seem to get upset even when she is being completely unreasonable - it won't last long. Reacting badly is only going to start a fight and trust me, she doesn't want to fight at all, she just needs to unleash for a few minutes and feel like her frustrations are being heard. This is the one time in her life when she is allowed to be unreasonable and demanding.
Dry cleaning advice for a inflatable wife?
Are there any establishments that offer a discreet cleaning service for men with plastic wife'sDry cleaning advice for a inflatable wife?
Just strap her in the back of a convertible as you go through the car wash.Dry cleaning advice for a inflatable wife?
Well I had a mate that fancied a black woman so he filled his blow-up with cocoa .... worked fine until white was again on the agenda so he used his pressure washer to 'rinse it out' so to speak. Problem was that after connecting the thing up ( via the mouth ... ) and switching the washer on ... the blow up 'blew up' to ten times its size ... flew out of the window and exploded over London City, causing a local downpour ... lol
If she has got a runny nose, it is not a cold or flu, she will need emptying.
Deflate her.
Turn her inside out and use some Cuticura or something similar for the removal of STD'S and bacteria.
Blow her back up and take her out for a jolly good slap-up meal.
Merry xmas to you both.
Oh, Mr Cockburn,don't do it
The fluids they use would melt and disintegrate your dear wife
Just try giving her a hot soapy wash and a massage
and she'll come up good as new !!........Lol
YOU MAKE ME LAUGH SOOOOOOO HARD EVERY FREAKIN' TIME,COCKBURN!!!
;-)
doubt it!! by friend was bein a bit frisky and ';lindseys';(the wifes name) head tore off:L:L:L b careful!!=]
I very much doubt it mate, that is one job you have to do yourself..
:-o
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I knew it.
lmao, you made my day thnx
Just strap her in the back of a convertible as you go through the car wash.Dry cleaning advice for a inflatable wife?
Well I had a mate that fancied a black woman so he filled his blow-up with cocoa .... worked fine until white was again on the agenda so he used his pressure washer to 'rinse it out' so to speak. Problem was that after connecting the thing up ( via the mouth ... ) and switching the washer on ... the blow up 'blew up' to ten times its size ... flew out of the window and exploded over London City, causing a local downpour ... lol
If she has got a runny nose, it is not a cold or flu, she will need emptying.
Deflate her.
Turn her inside out and use some Cuticura or something similar for the removal of STD'S and bacteria.
Blow her back up and take her out for a jolly good slap-up meal.
Merry xmas to you both.
Oh, Mr Cockburn,don't do it
The fluids they use would melt and disintegrate your dear wife
Just try giving her a hot soapy wash and a massage
and she'll come up good as new !!........Lol
YOU MAKE ME LAUGH SOOOOOOO HARD EVERY FREAKIN' TIME,COCKBURN!!!
;-)
doubt it!! by friend was bein a bit frisky and ';lindseys';(the wifes name) head tore off:L:L:L b careful!!=]
I very much doubt it mate, that is one job you have to do yourself..
:-o
ask david beckham
http://aidoll.4woods.jp/en/dolls/
try here.
I knew it.
lmao, you made my day thnx
Kindly advice me that what step should be taken if my wife do pregnent at the time of Rubella Infection?
Any pregnant woman who has been exposed to rubella should contact her obstetrician immediately.
When rubella occurs in a pregnant woman, it may cause congenital rubella syndrome, with potentially devastating consequences for the developing fetus. Children who are infected with rubella before birth are at risk for growth retardation; mental retardation; malformations of the heart and eyes; deafness; and liver, spleen, and bone marrow problems
The rubella vaccine should not be given to pregnant women or to a woman who may become pregnant within 1 month of receiving the vaccine. If you are thinking about becoming pregnant, make sure that you are immune to rubella through a blood test or proof of immunization. If you're not immune, you should receive the vaccine at least 1 month before you become pregnant.
Pregnant women who are not immune should avoid anyone who has the illness and should be vaccinated after delivery so that they will be immune during any future pregnancies.Kindly advice me that what step should be taken if my wife do pregnent at the time of Rubella Infection?
Do not worry. Rubella is caused by a virus and allopathic medication has nothing to do with the viral diseases. Hence consult a homeopathic physician and he will prescribe your wife some remedies which can combat the disease as well as prevent the baby from getting infected. These remedies have absolutely nil side effects and is also safe for the baby. Have confidence and carry on. Best of luckKindly advice me that what step should be taken if my wife do pregnent at the time of Rubella Infection?
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When rubella occurs in a pregnant woman, it may cause congenital rubella syndrome, with potentially devastating consequences for the developing fetus. Children who are infected with rubella before birth are at risk for growth retardation; mental retardation; malformations of the heart and eyes; deafness; and liver, spleen, and bone marrow problems
The rubella vaccine should not be given to pregnant women or to a woman who may become pregnant within 1 month of receiving the vaccine. If you are thinking about becoming pregnant, make sure that you are immune to rubella through a blood test or proof of immunization. If you're not immune, you should receive the vaccine at least 1 month before you become pregnant.
Pregnant women who are not immune should avoid anyone who has the illness and should be vaccinated after delivery so that they will be immune during any future pregnancies.Kindly advice me that what step should be taken if my wife do pregnent at the time of Rubella Infection?
Do not worry. Rubella is caused by a virus and allopathic medication has nothing to do with the viral diseases. Hence consult a homeopathic physician and he will prescribe your wife some remedies which can combat the disease as well as prevent the baby from getting infected. These remedies have absolutely nil side effects and is also safe for the baby. Have confidence and carry on. Best of luckKindly advice me that what step should be taken if my wife do pregnent at the time of Rubella Infection?
About Rubella Infection can be read in http://health-schools.blogspot.com/?q=Ru鈥?/a>
What is some good advice for someone wanting to buy their first home with my wife and 2 kids?
We don't have hardly any credit and want to make this move pretty soon.What is some good advice for someone wanting to buy their first home with my wife and 2 kids?
if you don't have much credit......... why buy a house
find a nice place to rent...... you don't have to have everything right now.What is some good advice for someone wanting to buy their first home with my wife and 2 kids?
Don't take on a mortgage that exceeds 30% of your income which is a rule of thumb tossed around by financial people to protect you from bankruptcy.
On the flip side, pay as much per month as you can reasonably afford or you will end up paying a ridiculous amount in the end in interest. Remember that ';mortgage'; is derived from Latin where it means roughly translated 'death pledge'...
Over the long term a variable mortgage interest rate has shown to give the lowest borrowing rate. Try to work it into your mortgage where you can renegotiate after a certain number of years so that if you're making more money you can put more down per month and decrease interest payments further.
Try to have the best down payment you can for your house and try no to buy one that is beyond your means. Paying $20K now can save you well over triple that amount in interest payments later in the future.
Pick an area that you think has 'potential'. Stay away from areas that you can see going 'bad' in 5 or 10 years. If you ever should choose to move you want to make sure that you have a good chance of selling your place.
If you don't have very much credit but you still think you can afford a place then try to get something modest. Be realistic.
Goodluck!
Be pattient. Realtors will try to get you to act quickly because it's less time on their part. Also make sure your agent is a ';buyers'; agent because they are obligated to act in your best interest.
The best way to establish credit is to responsibly use credit cards or establish other forms of debt and pay regularly w/out late payments. Don't be tempted into an ARM as it will hurt in the long run. Go with a 30 year fixed rate mortgage. Shop around for the best rates and don't be afraid to play one lender against each other. This is a great time to buy if you are in the position to as many sellers are desperate to unload their homes..
Good luck!
I don't know. I guess the most important thing is to calculate and take care of your finances to make sure you can pay your mortgage payments.
House prices have been coming down now but where I live the rates on 30-year mortgages have gone super high! as high as like 6.5% (we live in a large city)
I would advise not to overspend. Depending on where you live a 2-bd home could be fine for a 4-person family. Are the kids young and of the same gender?
My advice is DON'T! When you get divorced because of any little thing under the sun (and you have a 62% chance of this), you have to divide up your property, and she will likely get your kid, your car, and that pretty new house you bought. Get an apt and write your name FIRST on the lease, and put her as a co-renter, so you can keep the place when she runs for it. Read the websites below for more info. You'll thank me later.
do your homework...meaning find out what you can afford to pay on a morgage and having a family............ ask friends or family in that situation what they did or would do if they were in your shoes.....................because having children and a morgage can be stressful if you dont have a budget to begin with
Make sure you have a good downpayment, 20%. If you don't have that, you probably aren't ready to buy yet.
If you do, shop around for mortgages. You'd be amazed at the different rates you can get.
read through this financial advisor's words....
http://www.oprah.com/tows/pastshows/2007鈥?/a>
http://www.oprah.com/money/credit/slide/鈥?/a>
if you don't have much credit......... why buy a house
find a nice place to rent...... you don't have to have everything right now.What is some good advice for someone wanting to buy their first home with my wife and 2 kids?
Don't take on a mortgage that exceeds 30% of your income which is a rule of thumb tossed around by financial people to protect you from bankruptcy.
On the flip side, pay as much per month as you can reasonably afford or you will end up paying a ridiculous amount in the end in interest. Remember that ';mortgage'; is derived from Latin where it means roughly translated 'death pledge'...
Over the long term a variable mortgage interest rate has shown to give the lowest borrowing rate. Try to work it into your mortgage where you can renegotiate after a certain number of years so that if you're making more money you can put more down per month and decrease interest payments further.
Try to have the best down payment you can for your house and try no to buy one that is beyond your means. Paying $20K now can save you well over triple that amount in interest payments later in the future.
Pick an area that you think has 'potential'. Stay away from areas that you can see going 'bad' in 5 or 10 years. If you ever should choose to move you want to make sure that you have a good chance of selling your place.
If you don't have very much credit but you still think you can afford a place then try to get something modest. Be realistic.
Goodluck!
Be pattient. Realtors will try to get you to act quickly because it's less time on their part. Also make sure your agent is a ';buyers'; agent because they are obligated to act in your best interest.
The best way to establish credit is to responsibly use credit cards or establish other forms of debt and pay regularly w/out late payments. Don't be tempted into an ARM as it will hurt in the long run. Go with a 30 year fixed rate mortgage. Shop around for the best rates and don't be afraid to play one lender against each other. This is a great time to buy if you are in the position to as many sellers are desperate to unload their homes..
Good luck!
I don't know. I guess the most important thing is to calculate and take care of your finances to make sure you can pay your mortgage payments.
House prices have been coming down now but where I live the rates on 30-year mortgages have gone super high! as high as like 6.5% (we live in a large city)
I would advise not to overspend. Depending on where you live a 2-bd home could be fine for a 4-person family. Are the kids young and of the same gender?
My advice is DON'T! When you get divorced because of any little thing under the sun (and you have a 62% chance of this), you have to divide up your property, and she will likely get your kid, your car, and that pretty new house you bought. Get an apt and write your name FIRST on the lease, and put her as a co-renter, so you can keep the place when she runs for it. Read the websites below for more info. You'll thank me later.
do your homework...meaning find out what you can afford to pay on a morgage and having a family............ ask friends or family in that situation what they did or would do if they were in your shoes.....................because having children and a morgage can be stressful if you dont have a budget to begin with
Make sure you have a good downpayment, 20%. If you don't have that, you probably aren't ready to buy yet.
If you do, shop around for mortgages. You'd be amazed at the different rates you can get.
read through this financial advisor's words....
http://www.oprah.com/tows/pastshows/2007鈥?/a>
http://www.oprah.com/money/credit/slide/鈥?/a>
My wife and I have been discussing having a threesome with another girl...and later another guy. Any advice?
I'm not asking for whether we should do it or not, we've passed that mark. We're just wondering if any experienced people know how best to do this.My wife and I have been discussing having a threesome with another girl...and later another guy. Any advice?
From reading your posting it reads as though both of you have agreed to have a threesome but you do not mention if you have discussed boundaries. Before looking for the third person both of you will need to discuss boundaries and reach an agreement on them. Once you have an understanding of what your boundaries are going to be then you can approach a third person regarding having a threesome.
Regardless of the type of threesome wanting there are a few basic and generic rules you should follow. The first is communicate. By communicating I mean if you feel there is an issue developing do not wait to see if you can handle it or if it is worth even mentioning the rule is mention it. Having a threesome is not deciding what movie to see together. Instead it is something that can be quite enjoyable for the both of you if done right and if done wrong it can be quite destructive which means the onus is on the both of you to discuss issues as they surface. Finally in regard to communication the communication does not end once the threesome ends. Communication continues well after the threesome ended and continues until both of you are comfortable you have worked through the issues.
Another area the both of you will struggle with is seeing each other having sex with someone else. It is one thing to talk about it, talk about how you might feel seeing it, and nothing completely prepares you for it. Therefore it is important that you are prepared for a spectrum of reactions and remember in a threesome situation, unless you have opened up the relationship, sex in a threesome is about physical enjoyment not emotions. For most couples this means creating an emotional distance between the third person and themselves.
Third piece of advice is do not expect to find someone overnight. Generally speaking you can find males who are interested in having a threesome fairly quickly but finding a woman who is interested in a threesome can take some time to find.
If you are serious about having a threesome then my advice to you would be to have your mfm threesome first. Why? As stated above it is easier to find a single male than it is to find a single female. Second you can be selective with a single male due to their numbers and this will give the two of you a chance to develop your communication skills as you discuss the suitability of each male. Third it would give you a chance to have a threesome, understand some of th issues involved in having a threesome, and it will help the both of you understand if this is something you want to pursue. Finally by having an mfm threesome first will ease you into having a threesome whereas having an fmf first may having you deal with issues you are not ready to deal with. Simply put by having an mfm first it will allow you to understand from an emotional and communication perspective what is involved in a threesome due to the fact there are more males willing to participate in a threesome than there are females.
Moving on to what the two of you have planned a fmf first and then an mfm. Though it reads as though the both of you have reached a compromise I am left wonder the practicality of such a decision. When such a decision is reached in the abstract it seems as both of you have received something but the concern is when you move to have the mfm will there be some reluctance to have it? The point that I am trying to make is this, people's preferences changes as they have different experiences and though your plan reads like a compromise I am left to wonder what happens if you someone changes their mind about what has been planned? Will this become a source of conflict between the two of you or have you allowed your agreement to be flexible to change as your needs change?
In any event the main thing is the two of you are discussing this which is great. I wish you success on your journey and hope your threesome is a successful threesome.My wife and I have been discussing having a threesome with another girl...and later another guy. Any advice?
Yeah, yeah, your already past the question of whether or not your gonna do it.......
Dude, im tellin' you right now that there are some things better left to fantasy. I for one LOVE the idea, but the reality of seeing my man make his ';Oh'; face with someone else would really be awful. I would seriously think it through. While I do believe men are capable of having sex for sex's sake, I really don't believe that the same is true for women. Your wife will most likely not take it as well as you think......and you might be surprised at you reaction when you see your wife getting nailed by another dude. Just sayin'......
You have no idea how much you will regret this decision. Marriage should be kept sacred and when its not it slowly deteriorates. If you both want to bring other people in maybe you should think about now being married.
Fred says, ';Well if you insist Fred will sleep with your wife, fred is here to help. Go to ';adult friend finder'; best place to contact Fred and his sexy body';.
You need to make sure that all parties are well aware of each others boundaries, and never cross them.
Go to a swingers' site.
Visit a swinger's club. You don't have to do anything right off the bat. just watch and learn.
From reading your posting it reads as though both of you have agreed to have a threesome but you do not mention if you have discussed boundaries. Before looking for the third person both of you will need to discuss boundaries and reach an agreement on them. Once you have an understanding of what your boundaries are going to be then you can approach a third person regarding having a threesome.
Regardless of the type of threesome wanting there are a few basic and generic rules you should follow. The first is communicate. By communicating I mean if you feel there is an issue developing do not wait to see if you can handle it or if it is worth even mentioning the rule is mention it. Having a threesome is not deciding what movie to see together. Instead it is something that can be quite enjoyable for the both of you if done right and if done wrong it can be quite destructive which means the onus is on the both of you to discuss issues as they surface. Finally in regard to communication the communication does not end once the threesome ends. Communication continues well after the threesome ended and continues until both of you are comfortable you have worked through the issues.
Another area the both of you will struggle with is seeing each other having sex with someone else. It is one thing to talk about it, talk about how you might feel seeing it, and nothing completely prepares you for it. Therefore it is important that you are prepared for a spectrum of reactions and remember in a threesome situation, unless you have opened up the relationship, sex in a threesome is about physical enjoyment not emotions. For most couples this means creating an emotional distance between the third person and themselves.
Third piece of advice is do not expect to find someone overnight. Generally speaking you can find males who are interested in having a threesome fairly quickly but finding a woman who is interested in a threesome can take some time to find.
If you are serious about having a threesome then my advice to you would be to have your mfm threesome first. Why? As stated above it is easier to find a single male than it is to find a single female. Second you can be selective with a single male due to their numbers and this will give the two of you a chance to develop your communication skills as you discuss the suitability of each male. Third it would give you a chance to have a threesome, understand some of th issues involved in having a threesome, and it will help the both of you understand if this is something you want to pursue. Finally by having an mfm threesome first will ease you into having a threesome whereas having an fmf first may having you deal with issues you are not ready to deal with. Simply put by having an mfm first it will allow you to understand from an emotional and communication perspective what is involved in a threesome due to the fact there are more males willing to participate in a threesome than there are females.
Moving on to what the two of you have planned a fmf first and then an mfm. Though it reads as though the both of you have reached a compromise I am left wonder the practicality of such a decision. When such a decision is reached in the abstract it seems as both of you have received something but the concern is when you move to have the mfm will there be some reluctance to have it? The point that I am trying to make is this, people's preferences changes as they have different experiences and though your plan reads like a compromise I am left to wonder what happens if you someone changes their mind about what has been planned? Will this become a source of conflict between the two of you or have you allowed your agreement to be flexible to change as your needs change?
In any event the main thing is the two of you are discussing this which is great. I wish you success on your journey and hope your threesome is a successful threesome.My wife and I have been discussing having a threesome with another girl...and later another guy. Any advice?
Yeah, yeah, your already past the question of whether or not your gonna do it.......
Dude, im tellin' you right now that there are some things better left to fantasy. I for one LOVE the idea, but the reality of seeing my man make his ';Oh'; face with someone else would really be awful. I would seriously think it through. While I do believe men are capable of having sex for sex's sake, I really don't believe that the same is true for women. Your wife will most likely not take it as well as you think......and you might be surprised at you reaction when you see your wife getting nailed by another dude. Just sayin'......
You have no idea how much you will regret this decision. Marriage should be kept sacred and when its not it slowly deteriorates. If you both want to bring other people in maybe you should think about now being married.
Fred says, ';Well if you insist Fred will sleep with your wife, fred is here to help. Go to ';adult friend finder'; best place to contact Fred and his sexy body';.
You need to make sure that all parties are well aware of each others boundaries, and never cross them.
Go to a swingers' site.
Visit a swinger's club. You don't have to do anything right off the bat. just watch and learn.
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