Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Debating on leaving my wife, ADVICE?

My wife is very beautiful. She is supportive of my career. But she is lazy, doesn't work, usually wakes up at noon. She is moody. I think she really loves me, and that is hard to find.





But I think I'm really in love with an ex-girlfriend. She is also very beautiful, and has a career, and is very easy to get along with. I can't stop thinking about her.





So do I leave a good thing to find a better thing? Or do I leave well enogh alone? Debating on leaving my wife, ADVICE?
So, when beauty fades, would you consider leaving whomever you are with at that time too?





You sound like a real peach!!!Debating on leaving my wife, ADVICE?
Wait until the economy stabilizes- this is an awful time to divorce! If you still feel like leaving your wife in 2 years, then do it. But wait 24 months first!
reading your question, you are being as casual as if you were buying a pair of shoes....excuse me but you got married, you knew what you were getting into, suck it up and be a man.


You can talk to your wife, ask her to get off her duff and get productive and for crying out loud, look past the looks and think of personality and human value. BTW theres a reason your ex is an ex, why hot and bothered about it now?
Ok so you're not happy with your wife at this time... but you have to think about why it didn't work out with your ex in the first place. Definitely don't cheat... that's all the advice I can give because this is a really personal problem that you should probably be talking to someone who knows you about.
i feel sorry for your wife coz it sounds like shes going to get her heart broken,but if you are in love with your ex you have to follow your heart.you only live once
Take your marriage more seriously. Leave well enough alone. In love has its place. But it does not last. It cannot last. It is not designed to last. Loving lasts. Put in the effort to love whom you married. The benefits you will get in return would be a thousand fold.
tough spot your in there bro. tell her how you feel? marriage isn't supposed to be an agreement that can be tossed around. you married her for a reason. I think you should try to remember that reason and work it out.
do whatever you feel is right...
Leave well enough alone. You don't live with your ex, you don't know how things might be with you and her once you are solely with her. Right now there is excitement and it's fun for now, but do you want to blow a good thing for something that might not be there?






I don't think it is selfish to choose the best then to keep dragging.





As time goes by you will realize what you have wasted. TIME will never come back.





Live life NOW don't keep deliberating it will cost you alot more later.
the grass isn't always greener on the other side. Stay home and take care of your depressed wife. %26amp;FYI she knows you're cheating on her. That's why she lazy, sleeps all day and moody. Go get some counseling before you decide to leave your wife for a relationship you once left in the past.
If you had said leave your girlfriend....I would have said go for it.





But you said leave your wife.....so no! Suck it up. Work it out with your WIFE. Stop thinking about your ex. Talk to your wife about you feel she needs to be more career minded herself.





If you leave your wife for another woman, she will still be sitting around not doing anything, getting up at noon, spending all the money you earn.......the only thing is she'll be receiving $ via alimony.






You are still in love with an ex. Why did you marry your wife in the first place?


You have to be honest with her. You can't keep up a front for a long time.



Leave well enough alone! Talk to your wife about your issues. She is your WIFE! The ex is an ex for a reason. Leave her alone what you are doing is wrong. Take a look at your marriage is your wife depressed? that could explain her sleeping till noon and her moodiness. Do you think that she doesn't notice that you may have another interest? You think that you are in love how can you think you are in love without knowing? Quite being a player and get your butt back into the marriage that you made a commitment FOR LIFE!
If you feel that you are in love with somebody else then I think you should leave. It's not fair that you are with her and love someone else. A lot of ppl think that they should stay in a marriage even if they're not happy. Be happy and let her find happiness.

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