Problem with my Christian wife. Any advice would be appreciated!?

My wife Nermina is an average women. However, we have an issue that continues to really haunt our relationship, and I hope you can offer a word or two that may help.





We have been married for 12 years and have 2 children, 8 %26amp; 5. Everything has gone really well for the most part. I think her being a native European has really helped her know how to be a real woman.





However, I was tempted by the devil 3 years ago, and a beautiful Korean co-worker led me into sin.





After two years, I broke Satin's grip and ended this sinful behavior.





My wife still struggles with forgiveness issues. Obviously, I apologized when I was caught. But I personally think that should cover it. What she is forgetting is that Jesus already paid the price for my sin. That is what the cross is all about.





I do realize that a lot of broads get upset easily, and can be emotional (just as gay men can be as well). However, how can I direct her to look at a bible and understand what's already been written?Problem with my Christian wife. Any advice would be appreciated!?
You are completely in the right here. Tell her that Jesus died for our sins, and if we, as Christians, don't take full advantage of that then we may as well just kick God in the stones and convert to Judaism.Problem with my Christian wife. Any advice would be appreciated!?
wow....I don't even know what to say. It would take me a long time to forgive that IF I could even forgive. Think of it this way would you be so easy to forgive if she was the one who did it to you? I understand the bible stuff %26amp; all but that is a very hard thing for a women {%26amp; a lot of men} to overcome.....I guess give her more time. Good Luck
Well, this is just something that you are just going to have to see if she ever gets over it. The bible really only allows 2 reasons for a marraige to dissolve...1 is death 2 is adultry. She has every right to be the way she is according to her beliefs. You cannot change it...
I am Christian however i disagree with some of what the Bible says, and i believe infidelity is something that is unforgivable. Also, straight men can be emotional as well (me) The devil did not seduce you into sin, that Korean woman did and You, on your own, fell for it, dont blame it on God or Satan. You made a terrible mistake, live with it.
This is an issue on trust and not about Jesus dying on the cross. To say that He died for our sins is very true but should not be used as an excuse for forgiving adulterous acts.


lt's not that easy to erase the memory of you with another woman in your wife's mind. Being a better husband and father to your kids will help. Trust is earned, not forced.


As to being a Christian, great bonding time during Sunday and church activities will make you closer.
Go to www.cbn.com , type in the search bar '' affair ''
The possibility of you going to hell isn't the issue here.


Trust is, and to expect her to have any is ridiculous.





Jesus paying for your sin's and forgiving you for them after you have asked for forgiveness for them is one thing.


Getting your wife to forgive you is another.
sounds like u should go on jerry springer
You should post this in Marriage section
Jesus paid for your sins so you can have everlasting peace in heaven, that doesn't mean your wife won't give you hell on earth when you sleep with another broad.
Did you read the part in the Bible that says... Thou Shalt Not Commit Adultry???





Isn't that one of the commandments? How can you ask her to abide by rules and guidelines, that you yourself did not???





Don't cheat and you don't have to suffer the consequences
LMAO! You're kidding, right?
I don't think it was very nice to use the word broads but, in the Bible it says you shouldn't commit adultery. I believe that if someone does you should try to work it out. It also says in the Bible to forgive and if she is a true Christian woman she will. It may take some time but, put ypurself in her shoes and think about how you would feel. You on the other hand need to earn your trust back. Just because she forgives you doesn't mean she's going to trust you again.
So your coworker led you into sin how? Did she hold a gun to your head? Did she knock you unconscious or slip you a date-rape drug? By the way, what does her being Korean have to do with it?





I have noticed that some men don't understand that just because you say you're sorry, it doesn't take away the hurt of what you did. As they say, you can't unring the bell.





Also, you say that you broke Satan's (not Satin's) grip after two years and ended the affair, but then you say you apologized when you were caught. Which one actually happened? Did you decide to end the sinful behavior on your own, or did you decide when you were caught?





Anyway, it seems to me that Jesus has already paid the price for your wife's failure to be understanding. Why don't you look at a Bible and understand what's already been written?
Because we are not perfect, nor will we be until this life is over, there are certain things that are not easy even though they are right. For instance, how hard is it to love your neighbor (all of them) as yourself? We are still sinners and being a christian in this age is a real struggle.





What you have done is very hurtful. If you were a woman in O.T. times you would have been stoned! I think you need to prove your faithfulness to your wife. Remember trust is something that has to be earned and you have shattered that.


Try going to a good christian counselor with your wife, show her your sincere about your change.
Sigh... not to nitpick or anything, because your question is very real and not at all fake and all, but if you were a good Christian man (because, after all, Jesus died for your sins), you would have capitalized the word ';Bible.'; Punk :P
Acording to the Bible, Jesus forgives all. In other word you are certainly allowed to do whatever the shift8888 you want as long as you say 'Forgive me Jesus' afterwards!
haha! BUSTED!!!
Why are you so hateful towards women and Christianity?
broads and gay men!?


umm apologizing is not enough


show her how much she means to you %26amp; how much you need her!
Loser
Your first problem is calling women broads.... I belive you to be too narrow minded....what do you mean by ';that should cover it';?? Your wife should divorce you....!!! Remember you asked for my advice... good or bad.
Don't go cheating on ya wife!
I think this is all lies. You are just trying to make girls fall in love with you.





It's working.