Inlaws hate me!Inlaws before wife...advice needed!?

Im 21 years old and ive been married since Feb08.My husband is of same age.We married as it was difficult to maintain a distance relationship.Our dating relationship was good that why I then moved to his city to be with him and due to religious reasons we had to get married as I moved away from my parents.We were happy with the decision to get married.Since the marriage things have gone hay wire.His mother doesnt like me, his family(aunts,counsins,father) also dislike me.My mother and father inlaw has told my husband at a stage that he sitting with a problem and that he should divorce me.I have never heard of parent who encourage their kids to get divorced.We fight and argue alot due to his family having issues with me.He then confided in his cousin and told her everything that I told him in confidence.She then has been discussing ugly things to my mother inlaw and the rest of his family.I have no idea what to do.All my inlaws hate me and my husband told me that his family comes first and they are his first priority.I feel very hurt as my family is far from me and i dont have anyone to talk to not even my husband.I need help pls!!!!Any advice!!!!!!Inlaws hate me!Inlaws before wife...advice needed!?
sorry to say but if u are married and he still considers his family first then the marriage is doomed. u are suppose to be his number one human priority. if he is religious then he would know that the bible states. that when u get married u forsake all others leaving mother/father and cleaving to his wife. until he puts his foot down and tell his family that u are his #1 and that they don't have to like u but they will respect u then there will be problems. go home to ur parents u will save ur self alot of tears and heart ache. sounds to me he has more respect for his family than u. Go home to your family u will save ur self a lot of tears and heart ache.5 months is such a short time to already have problems. what happened to the honeymoon stage.