Need some advice. Wife called another man.?

Wife was partying Saturday night with family members had way too much too drink. When it was time to go she didn't want to leave so one of her cousins gave her a ride home a couple of hours later and she could barely walk and doesn't remember falling down the last 2 stairs in our house. On Monday I call her on her lunch break and she's at home crying so I go home and she's telling me how embarassed she is for being so drunk Saturday and she was starting to remember things she did. She then tells me she called ';Dave'; a friend of one of her cousins. I'm puzzled at first asking what do you mean you called Dave. She said she doesn't know why but she called him to come over to party with them. No big deal so why does she feel so compelled with guilt to tell me. I find out from a mutual friend that she asked him to meet her but he said no. I confronted her and she says she doesn't remember asking him that but she is very sorry! Even though nothing physically happened, I'm still hurt. Help.Need some advice. Wife called another man.?
She was drunk. Give her a break.Need some advice. Wife called another man.?
It's OK to have hurt feelings. You can't control what she did nor can she now. It's done and over with. She just needs to remember not to drink so much. Her cousin should have step up and help out by calling you to tell you come get your wife.


Next time she wants to go out drinking make sure she knows she can call you any time to come get her, or that your willing to go along.


She is just upset it she can't remember everything. Drinking guilt is pretty bad.
hmmmmmmmmmmm...........somethings up
I wouldn't be too hurt over it at this point. She told you the truth about it. I'm glad that Dave said, ';NO.'; And I'm really glad she told you the truth. Sounds like wife needs to lay off the liquor is all.
Many people have really gotten blitzed and done very foolish things that they would normally have never done. I'll bet she doesn't drink for a long time. Tell her you are hurt, I'm sure she is so sorry for acting like a fool. I don't think she really wanted him, she was probably just frisky from the alcohol and partying. From now on, she needs to limit her intake.
counseling. you both need to work this out so it does not get worse.
she probably is hinting to you that more happend but she isnt ready to full on tell you yet. yep yep
All people act dumb when they are drunk.





Keep talking to her, get some counseling. It ain't over yet.
She feels compelled to have an affair, and feels guilty, but at the same time she can't squash the thoughts in her head. She's probably frustrated with something in her life, like she needs recognition or love or attention or to feel wanted again. Something. She may be using alcohol to hide this stuff as well. Something is not quite right, and hopefully you will find what.
You need to talk to her about it, no other way about it, if you have no luck seek a councilor.
You have every right to be hurt. She's reaching out to you and saying ';Hey I made a mistake'; She realizes this is going to hurt you and hopefully she will be doing whatever it takes to make it up to you. Just watch your back but give her a second chance.
I think her drinking triggers her horniness !!! Get her drunk and tell her your dave?!
Sounds like she has a lot of guilt. But just putting myself in her shoes i would have only done that if i were a bit bored with my marriage. Maybe it's a good time to talk to her , tell her you forgive her, but no more drinking, then spice up your marriage. My husband and i have an agreement that we don't drink without each other and what happened to you is one of the reasons. It may sound insecure to some ppl. but we both believe in prevention. Plus if your not in that situation then nothing can happen. You need to be open with each other. So she tells you if your being boring and you tell her if she's acting immature.
Sounds like the marriage has become a bit stale. Time to spice things up and get that spark back in your marriage.
let it rock until she confesses because I think whatever she did whether it was kiss, hug, sex whatever is going to come on the table sooner then you think. She's going to tell herself watch.........





THATS IF SHE DID SOMETHING`!