Advice for men choosing a wife?

What advice can you give to young men in choosing a wife?Advice for men choosing a wife?
Give it time before getting married. Lots of time. After the newness wears off, you'll start seeing each other's faults and will start to annoy each other. I would even suggest trying to live together first. If you can make it through that and still enjoy each other's company, make it work!





I am a strong believer in marrying your best friend. My husband and I have been together for 8 years. We have had many, many ups and downs. Every couple does! But even during the hardest times, I always cared for him. He always remained my friend. I always knew I loved him, no matter how much I tried to deny it. Another benefit to this is that we can work together and have an easier breakup if things didn't work out. Plus, it's not as boring because we can have fun together.





Do not marry a woman that doesn't like when you hang out with your friends. You *will* need time apart sometimes, no matter how well things are going.





Try your best to understand where she is coming from. Sometimes men just write women off as ';being crazy';, but we have real feelings whether you understand them or not. Many times you don't have to agree with us to end an argument, we just really want to know that you at least understand where we are coming from. If your woman can't communicate in a way that helps you understand, then you are going to have problems. Find someone else.





Marry someone you respect as a person, as well as for their achievements. Respect is very important in a relationship. You should admire your wife and be proud of her.





Please don't marry a bar skank. Someone who goes to bars with her friends is okay, but the one who uses getting drunk as an excuse to sleep around is just gross. She will probably have problems with her self-esteem when she grows up and could be carrying diseases.





Don't marry too far below your maturity level. I know giggly young girls are cute, but they also tend to carry a lot of drama.





Marry someone who appreciates you. If your good deeds aren't appreciated, you will be taken for granted. Then going that extra mile may not seem worth it after a while. Then she'll feel that you aren't as close because you aren't doing all of these things for her anymore. Then she'll feel the need to find out what's wrong with your relationship and won't believe you if you tell her it's nothing. Then you'll start arguing. Etc....





Marriage takes effort from both partners to work. Make sure you marry someone with the traits necessary to work through hard times together.Advice for men choosing a wife?
Pick a woman who's strong, indpendent and educated. If you get laid off from work, you're going to want a woman who can go out and earn the bacon while you're job hunting. If you die young, you're going to want a woman who will be able to support your children on her own without working dead end jobs 24/7.





Also, an independent woman who is educated and confident won't be at your side nagging for attention all the time. She'll have her own life, her own hobbies, her own friends and won't depend on you for 100% of her happiness.
The initial attractive/intrigue is important, but don't base everything off of beauty. Make sure you can laugh with her, this is probably the most important thing. Also, make sure most of your spiritual beliefs are on the same page. The one thing that I love about the relationship with my husband is we can be completely comfortable around each other, and completely ourselves. It makes us so close.
forget the mom thing,I am nothing like my mother in any way shape or form. make sure you like this person. The'; in love'; feeling does go away,and is replaced by love in the real sense.But if you don't really like everything about this person, real love will not replace the giggly part of the missing ';in love'; phase.If you like this person it is still fun to do things together.


If you do not like this person,you don't want to spend time with them and your marriage will fall apart, love or not. Love is not everything. Marriage is not romantic.
Make sure she loves you, has goals to do something worthwhile and purposeful with her life, and taking action to do it. Agreeing on certain things like to have children or not and how to raise them is important, But if the two of you disagree just make sure it's clearly understood where each one stands. You should find a woman who likes to make important decisions together.
Someone who will love you no matter your faults. Will respect you for who you are, and whom you will respect. Do not go for the ones who are vain about their looks, because looks will fade. A woman who is independent, who works and can take care of herself.
You don't go out and choose a wife, you meet someone fall in love and one day realize that if they left you the world would stop turning, that is how you know she is the one.
Look at the girls' mom and decide if this is the woman you want in your future because in 9/10 cases the girl WILL become her mother!
just marry the one with biggest b00bs you can find.
NOT to pick someone by what they look like.





LOOKS change and





some of the most loving and wonderful people are not a 10.
Check out her mom very carefully. She is going to look like that or worse in a few years.
If she drinks a lot and has a lot of guy friends run like hell.
Just take your time and be careful!


Don't get trapped by the wrong one!
dont try to hard.
make sure she is your best friend