Any advice for comforting my wife during an all natural water birth at our house?

My wife plans to divroce me soon after the baby is born, ever since she got about 5 weeks prego she wasn't the same woman I married and we didn't have any time to establish a good marriage b4 she got prego on our honeymoon. I have requested to catch the baby and cut the cord. I guess I sorta wanna do it so it can be a good experience and hopefully bring us closer together.Any advice for comforting my wife during an all natural water birth at our house?
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FIRST OF ALL I DONT THINK YOU SHOULD HAVE IT IN DA HOUSE! THE BABIE CAN REACT DIFFERENT TO DA AIR U SHOULD LET PROFFESIONALS DO IT JUST FOR DA BABIES SAFETY. BELIEVE ME U THINK DA BABY IS GOING TO COME SAFELY BUT U NEVER KNOW JUST IN CASE.


AND SHE ACTS DIFFERENT WHEN SHES PREGNANT I DID TO I TOUGHT I DIDNT LOVE MY HUSBAND BUT IT WAS JUST MY HORMONES HE WASNT EVEN ALLOWED TO HUG ME FOR MONTHS POOR HIM:( BUT 3MONTHS AFTER THINGS WERE GREAT!


BUT MAKE SURE U TELL HER NOW TO TAKE DIVORCE OFF HER MIND THAT U LOVE HER WITH ALL UR HEART AND DAT NOW DAT SHES GOING TO HAVE UR BABY U WANT THE BEST FOR HER AND DAT UR GONNA MAKE DA BEST FOR UR FAMILY..TELL HER U LOVE HER AND U CANT AND WONT LET HER GO! MAKE SURE U DO STUFF TO LIKE THINGS SHE CANT DO RIGHT NOW THAT ANNOYS HER JUST DO IT IF ITS GOING TO MAKE UR MARRIAGE BETTER.FEED HER SHOW HER U CARE,,,,EXACTLY WUT MY HUSBAND DID. SHE MAY NOT REALIZE UNTIL SHE HAS DA BABY .. BUT BE AS NICE A S U CAN!I CHANGED 100 DEGREES LOL I WASNOT DA SAME PERSON WHEN I WAS PREGNANT...O AND IN DA HOSPITAL DEY LET U CUT DA CORD IS BEAUTIFUL U CANT TAKE PICS TO BUT NOT VIDEOS AND DEN WHEN IT COMES TO CUTTING DA CORD SAY YES!N IF DEY CAN TAKE A PIC WHILE U R CUTTING IT,,MOST IMPORTNT OF ALL A LOT OF THINGS COME IN MARRIAGE OMG A FU KKK IN LOT BEAT THEM ALL !Any advice for comforting my wife during an all natural water birth at our house?
im not sure what teh problem is with yall, but usually women are very moody during pregnancy, that could be why all this divorce stuff is going on. but for sure the birht of your child will bring yall closer together. my relationship was on the rocks, about to get burried in the dirt then after we had our baby, its like totally different relationship,





just agree with her during labor lol the father to my baby was doing that lol and talking to me like saying ';you can do this'; ';its going to be ok, as soon as you see our son/daughters face'; it will all be worth'; ';your stong enough for this dont give up'; lol ya and like he was rubbing his hands in my hair and stuff, and before i was actually having him, just in labor he was telling me sweet stuff like your beautifl, this is the best thing thats ever happened to me and so on lol





just dont bring up any of the divorce stuff, like after she has the baby dont say so are we still getting a divorce, after the baby gets here, jsut help out as much as you can adn tell her you love her and she made a beautiful child and stuff idk just be sweet to her and dont mention the divorce
and it will and im glad you are patient because, alot of girls do have a totally diff personality during pregnancy...and all you can do during that moment is show her support and hold her hand tell her she is doing good, idk...thats the moment we want guys to kiss our butts cause the pain is hell and ya just standing there is annoying.lolGood Luck, Take Care, and God Bless...
One fast thing..... whatever she says during an all natural labor do not take serious. I said some awful stuff to my husband during our first child's birth. I had zero pain killers. I was in the hospital with just an IV drip, and hours after hours of pain.


Our first baby is also a honeymoon baby. It was a big shocker for us, and hard to explain to our friends. Most said that that was the reason for us getting married, and it was not. We had skipped having sex for weeks prior to our wedding.


Best of luck to you, and you both need to sit down to talk things out. Cause now you have a baby to consider in all this divorce talk.
yeah i think you should. you should just make sure she and the babgy are okay... let her know that ur there for her and comnfort her!
Count all of that divorce talk down to hormones and tell her right this minute that she is n-o-t going to get that divorce because you won't allow it. Tell her that she needs you and the baby needs you and that is just the end of the discussion.





Then be the man with the steel hand in the velvet glove, and take care of her. She is tired, sick and scared. It is your job to deal with this.