My wife is having problems getting in the mood and not sure what to do about the problem. Is there any advice?

We both love each other very much and had never had this problem until about a year and a half ago. For some reason she just cannot get in the mood. We have tried everything we could think of; creams, oils, and yes even toys. She says its like there is no feeling. She has asked her doctor over and over to give her something that will help, but they keep saying there is nothing out on the market to help women who have this problem. She is a diabetic and take insulin on a regular basis, but this has never caused problems for us in the past. She is very frustrated about this and is not sure what to do. Are there any women here who have had this problem? If so, what did you do about? Or, is there anything that can be done about? As I said before we love each other very much so I know that has nothing to do with it. I know they say if you do not love each other that can cause you to not be able to get in the mood. If there is anyone out there who has some advice we could us it.My wife is having problems getting in the mood and not sure what to do about the problem. Is there any advice?
I am a female who is having the same problem of ZERO sex drive, and I am in my twenties. I saw a pharmacist who counsels in natural remedies( I know, a pharmacist who doesn't want to sell you drugs is amazing but its true!) about some of my problems that I could not get help with at the many doctors I saw. He advised me to take DHEA 25 which is available at GNC. Its basically testosterone, which is what makes men have a great sex drive. I only just started taking it and I am definitely more responsive sexually before I started taking it. There is the possibility of a few side effects such as hair on the face and irritibility. I am not growing a beard lol and I feel no more cranky than usual. Make sure this supplement won't interfere with your wife's diabetes and if it looks okay I say go for it. There is alot of positive AND negative stuff on the web about DHEA, but I am desparate and hoping it works. I am sorry she is having this problem as I know how hard it can be for a couple.My wife is having problems getting in the mood and not sure what to do about the problem. Is there any advice?
Start with a romantic dinner, have flowers delivered to your table. Better yet, do something at home...either you could cook or call a caterer. Get some roses, take a few of them and scatter the rose petals around the house, on the dinner table, and quite a few on the bed, put the rest in a vase on the dinner table (which also has candles). Wine and dine her, tell her how lovely she is. In the bedroom, have your favorite ';toys'; - be it motion potion or whatever - handy. Run a hot scented bath and both of you get in. Take your time with her and she will become responsive.
I went through that after having my son. Just make a whole event of it allot of touching and foreplay can help. Also try some KY to get things started and see if it jump starts the motor. this can be very hard on a relationship but remember that it is something that is out of her control and be patient and understanding. She may also be having some mental anxiety to even try due to the problems just reassure her and never give up and there is always other ways to make love try some of the relationship books and alternate forms of intercourse as well what ever your both comfortable with trying.
Sometimes I get tired of my bf, and he does something new for me like cutting his hair, looking good to me, taking me to a bar get drunk and then we have amazing sex.





This turns me on when I麓m down my bf, gives me a bj with a mint caramel, like halls, this turn me on completely, to feel the cold, I don麓t know if this happens to you, but setimes there麓s so much heat and it is so hot down there, sometimes you stop the great feeling, well if you put that cold, you will feel more, my bf comes earlier like this.





I really don麓t know, but this is something I like and I practice when I get a bit bored.





Be romantic too and surprise her, we love that even the most childish corny thing, we love it, ask any girl.





Good luck! ;D
Is she taking birthcontrol? If so that can cause a decreased sex drive.