What advice would you give a young mother and wife?

My best just got married and she feels stressed, she recently got twin girls after 1 yr of marriageWhat advice would you give a young mother and wife?
It's like anything in life. It gets easier with time, patience and understanding. However bad she may feel she has it now, it can always get worse. Everyday she will learn more, and become a better person wife and mother. Tell her to have patience, she will need it. Let her know you are there for her.What advice would you give a young mother and wife?
It's not so much about advice - more about people understanding what she's going through and being there for her.


When your friend is talking about feeling overwhelmed and incompetent (which we all do when we have kids...) try reflecting the feeling to show you've heard her - say things like ';It sounds like you're feeling .......... and ................ ';





Your friend has had big life changes in a short stretch of time, and that makes everything feel uncertain/unstable like she doesn't know what's coming and how to deal with it. That may not be true, but it's how it feels. Let her know you understand, and that you're always there to listen and help if she wants it.





Also if she needs time out from kids (and husband!) offer to give her a break. She's lucky to have you as a friend, being concerned about her!
married life for a woman is not a bed of roses.a young mother of twins,will find it really trying.but cheer her up,god has blessed her with children while many wives are deprived of motherhood.she needs to be calm and take life one step at a time,with all the cares,disappointments and sometimes hurts too.that is in store for every mother and wife.she needs to treat every obstacle as a hidden opportunity and smile the clouds away



It will get better for her.She just needs to relize that not everything in life is going to roll easy.I know I have three girls and 13 grankids all at the age of 43.And i still have my up and downs it does get easier but there will always be rough patches and smooth roads but it will never be a bowl of cherries it all depends on how she wants to let her life take her and how she deals with it.
just help her out and support her in anyway you can...remind her how special she is to have 2 lil precious darlings to care for...


she's stressed from it happening to fast or the fact that she had twins whatever it is maybe offer to babysit so she can have some fun...
my best friend is 17 marred at 16 bay at 17 an she finds it reallly hard at times but i help her as much as i can i think u just have to take things 1 day at a time as it must have been what she wanted at some point x
Depends on if she wanted to get married. Some girls here in the south still feel pressured to wed.
i hope get better