What is the best advice on choosing a wife?

Brevity is preferred.What is the best advice on choosing a wife?
Find a woman you love, who loves you back.What is the best advice on choosing a wife?
Choose a woman who's desires are to serve and have the man as the head of the house mentality.


A woman who is nurturing, caring, understanding, and forgiving.


A woman who wants to be devoted more to the husband and home then a career. You will have lots of problems if your wife wants to work, more then focus on the home and marriage, you will be handling alot of house duties if you do marry a career oriented woman.
Check out HER mother, thats what she will be like soon. Also don't believe what a woman say, watch what she does.
you have to find out if shes a good ';fetch beer from fridge'; person
Choose none.





I think right now in this country and abroad, marriage %26amp; having children is a scary proposition whether you live together or not.





Today, the divorce rate is so high due to no-fault divorce. If you have kids, for women - that means they hold all the cards. A man today has to realize that, love and ';the dream'; aside, the risks to men/fathers far outweigh the rewards. Check the source - some great books and other resources on just this issue.





Family court is tilted heavily in favor of women/mothers. Moms have all the rights, get all the benefits, and dad is too often relegated to a visitor in his children's lives while being an ATM machine for mom. He can lose half (or more) of the cash, cars, house, investments, etc... and worse - the children.





Seriously, if I had known then what I know now about how the divorce machine sucks in fathers, grinds them up, and spits them out so unceremoniously, I would have never gotten married. I would have given up my dream of having a family.





With no-fault divorce (the biggest killer of marriage and families) you don't need an excuse anymore to get a divorce. You just don't have to feel like being married anymore - and with that reality comes the truth - a marriage is no longer a contract, so what's the point except to put yourself and your future at risk when someone ';doesn't feel like it anymore?'; With women (who have children) initiating almost 3/4 of divorces today (most men don't even see it coming), it's the smart man who chooses not to get married and certainly not have children... and that's a shame.





This affects men, women, and children alike. It affects everyone and people need to wake up to that reality. I know that there are lousy men and lousy fathers in this world - but make no mistake - the are plenty of lousy women and lousy mothers in this world and we should all be treated the same way (good or bad) and that simply isn't happening today.
that depends how much choice you have.
Mail order catalog????
Having her as your best friend, trusting, nice, polite, faithful, honest, you have lots in common, you enjoy doing the same activities like skiing and hiking for instance. You love hanging out with her more then your other friends, you would do anything to make her happy. You share the same goals and values in life like having kids after marriage not before and you get along with each others family can be helpful in the long-run. Plus she should feel like a long lost piece of yourself. Like when your together it is like the piece of you that has been missing has been found in her.





P.S sexual and physical chemistry is a must.
I guess you haven't heard...your wife will choose you. =)
Choosing a wife? It should come from the heart. There should be a connection between the two of you. Love and affection is good too! Common interest make things fun but so do different interest. You could teach each other the ropes! Good luck in choosing! Just remember to go with your heart.
You don't choose a wife. You choose one another.
Is she your best friend? Is she trustworthy? Do you have the same goals/values?
Someone who compliments YOU. Someone you can talk to, you know, communicate with (very important).





Someone that turns you on and that you are attracted to.