How can a wife live with a controlling husband for 23 years with out going insane ? Please give some advice! ?

out of respect, please give serious answers. Thank you, CindyHow can a wife live with a controlling husband for 23 years with out going insane ? Please give some advice! ?
Well, here's an idea....you can't!





Staying in a 23 year marriage/relationship where your husband is constantly controlling everything including you.....THAT is insane. I think you need to find some respect for yourself, get some self esteem and ask yourself if living this way is really worth it. Personally, I think you (and anyone else) deserves a better life....to be respected and loved, to be free and be able to share your interests and life with the one you love. Why live in misery when you can live in happiness?How can a wife live with a controlling husband for 23 years with out going insane ? Please give some advice! ?
It's hard to find such couple. Nowadays, probably they were divorced long time ago.





As long as, she (her wife) may accept it (exactly: ignoring it). Then it's everyone's decision.





I'd seen the worst, that a wife could accept her husband to play around with other girls. And she reminded him, you may ';buy'; but don't ';feed';. Until now, they never quarrel nor talking about divorce. Their only son was raised in common and good education. This had happened for 20 years until now. Weird isn't it? But it's the fact.






i dont think that it is possible i would have gone insane the firt month and left his sorry a** I dont let anyone controll me who controlled you 23 years ago before he came along? girl, for real. go ahead and cash in your chips and call the asylum yourself that will probably be the only way to get sane after what a controlling flammin a**hole put you through. Or just get out!!
Wow that is a long time hun. But you know it is never too late to take up counselling or get a divorce.. You shouldn't let someone else control you. You get only one life, better live it with dignity right?
If you have been with him for 23 years and haven't gone batcrazy, then keep doing what you are doing, Its obviously working.Do you still want to be with him for 23 more?



your asking after 23 years i would have asked 22 years ago not now
Control freaks are usually very fearful. Have you tried talking to him about it, in a gentle way?