I need advice with my wife- I'm trying to stay right, ya know?

My wife and I have become very distant in the last couple of months. We never have sex anymore, which is an important form of affection for me. To top it off, I have to kiss a girl in a play. I'm not really attracted to her, but I'm getting more ';pretend'; affection from this girl than my wife. I've never cheated and never will, but it's getting hard to sort out the thoughts in my head.


Any tips?I need advice with my wife- I'm trying to stay right, ya know?
Main tip communication. Sit her down and talk it over with her.I need advice with my wife- I'm trying to stay right, ya know?
How long have you being married? In a relationship it is really important to have sex. You really need to talk to your wife and asked her what is going on... i don't want to scare you,but maybe she is even having an affair...you really,really need to ask her what's is bothering her.
The answer? Couples counseling. It will help both of you find the right questions to ask about why you're feeling distant.





Sex is an important part of affection for me, but equally important are kisses, hugs, flattering/sweet words, help around the house, and respect. Sometimes women want that kind of affection that doesn't lead to sex. Sometimes men want that, too!





Until you guys learn how to communicate about this, it's not going to get better.
tell her how u feel. try to find a common ground with her. stay true sweetheart..not many can
chat to your wife, or maybe youve hit a lul in your relationship and your more brother an sister than lovers...you need to get out of the rut and quick. put some surprise romance into the life, take her out for dinner, make her chocolate dipped strawberries mabe introduce some role play into the bedroom
Sounds like you and your wife need to sit down and talk. Tell her how you feel and what you've been thinking. After all, you are married to her. That alone tells that you want things to work out.
Yes don't do the play. If that's not an option then change the kissing scenario maybe use closed mouth instead of a passionate one. Its easy to fall into lust with another woman if your lacking in your marriage. If your honest and want to stay a good husband then you do need to talk to your wife and find out what direction your marriage is heading. Cheating is never the answer to fixing a marriage.
Talk to your wife tell her how you are feeling and then try to rekindle the flame between you two.
Tell you wife/ Demand that she comes to rehearsals - let her see what's happening.





Hint, that you may be starting to fancy yr co-star





Your wife is so lucky you love her so much. What did she do to make her so loyal.???
you ever tried talking to her? a lot of times women feel the same way and have no idea our husbands feel the same. communication is the key to a happy marriage.
id have to agree that you should talk to your wife about things. when time comes around for you to kiss this girl, remember your wife and focus on the play itself so it wont distract you from potentially seeking satisfaction elsewhere.
What happened to make your relationship so distant in the first place? think about that. Also she may not even be attractive to you or maybe your not attracted to her anymore. Maybe tha'ts why =[ sorry
punch her in the vag
Are you still dating your wife? Go out for supper and bowling. I appreciate my man and tell him all the time. I give him back rubs after he has put in a long days work and at times I massage his whole body.
Start giving your wife lots of attention with flowers and gifts. She will reciprocate
Why not try to get away for a weekend to discuss this and reconnect. It seems with my husband and I that if we go someplace out of the norm these discussions are a little easier. Kind of like neutral ground.
Talk to your wife and find out what's going on.
It seems like you've lost the spark in your relationship,


i am sure you love eachother very much.. you just need to start having fun again!





Talk to your wife about how you feel, take her out for a suprise evening meal and give her a good time.





Im sure you can get things back to how they were,


you just need to show her lots of love :)
try talking to her to resolve the issues that the two of you are having..communication is key
well if you love your wife then just tell her how you feel and a see what she says