Advice his wife wont stop?????????????????

i was dating this guy my highschool sweetheart for almost 7 years we took a break for 6 months because he changed schools he came back because he did not like it and we got back together for three months. A girl from the other school that called him too say she was pregnant and he broke up with me to go marry her. Two weeks later i find out i am 2 1/2 months pregnant i told him so he knows i am. Unfortunatley his wife baby has some birth defect something to do with a serious heart problem. He took off and she keeps calling me to ask where he is? i told her i dont know but she keeps calling me!Advice his wife wont stop?????????????????
Change you number or file harassment charges against her. Tell her first though that you would like to know where he is also.Advice his wife wont stop?????????????????
wow if ur for real thats crazy, I would tell her to buzz off you have your own probs.
change your phone number girlie his wife is gonna go on a phycho mode if she dont find his ***....gilr seriously consider changing your phone number
Tell her to step the F off... youre in the position she was in months ago. She keeps calling.. block her #.
If I were you I would just change my phone number. She has no business harrasing you just to try and find him. You dont owe her any explanations, you don't have a realtionship with her ...HE DOES!
Decide what you want and go for it. Have the baby by yourself, find a job, find help and enjoy your life without him.
Wow what a messed up situation! Change your number and only let the people you want , what your new number is! Problem solved!!!
change your phone number get it unlisted he knows where to find you call the police get them to tell her to stop and then if it comes to it get a restraing order cause if something happens to her baby you do not want her to come after you and yours good luck huh and you can email me anytime if you ever need someone to talk to or more advice
Tell her the truth.





You are having his baby as well, do not know where he is and he will have the responsibility to both baby's and if you ever talk to him again, tell him to buy some condoms





wrap it or pay the price, twice in his case
i think respect is done for at this point....tell her quit calling and that if you hear from him you ll tell her....if she keeps up...report to the police about phone harrassment....they eventually tell her too stop.... you could always change your number.....but if you ever call her she might get it from caller i.d..... :(
I feel really bad for you. I'm sure that you are still in love with him and it hurt when he left to go to school, and it really hurt when he did an honorable thing and married the girl he got pregnant. He couldn't have known her for very long if he was gone just six months, but he did the right thing. NOW. He finds out you are pregnant as well, and I suppose he thinks his life is ruined. You guys sound really young, but all is not lost. Your child will have a sibling with the other woman, and sounds like they will be close to the same age. I would try to reason with her and let her know that this was not how you envisioned your life, but now this is what the two of you have to deal with. You didn't mention your parents or his parents and how they are dealing with this, but if I were you I would enlist the help of friends and family right now. And most importantly, when the weight of the world is weighing heavy on your heart, bend down and pray. God bless.
good luck he sounds like a real loser but remember you were the other woman so who better to call
ask you his buddy matt where he is
change phone #, get restraining order, explain to her that you are angry with this guy as well.
Tell her ';well He F@cked me and now im pregnant, so blame him';
hang up
Tell his wife that you will call the police if she does not stop calling you and then call the police if she calls again.
well if it pissed me off long enough i would go off on her tell her the truth if that don;t work then don;t worry and just changer your nuimber
Sounds like you both have some choice in men issues.
You've obviously got yourself a real catch there. Gets her pregnant, leaves to go to you, gets you pregnant, leaves to go marry her, finds out you're pregnant, leaves her to come back to you, gets you a place but doesn't stay with you. Yup, sounds like a really stable, commitment oriented guy who any woman would be happy to give up her college education for and have his baby. Wonder if he'll hide from you after he leaves and tell his wife, or new baby's mama, not to tell you where he is?





He can run but he can't hide, unless he never works again, which would be great news for someone who's about to have a child with him. The courts will track him down using his social security number.I hope he's got a really good paying job, so he can pay his wife child support and maintainance and still provide for you and his new baby.





Get back into school, or don't stop going, if you haven't already dropped out. You're going to need to learn to rely on yourself, as a single parent.
Call Jerry springer quick and make some money off of these relationships. Seriously this guy needs to decide who he's going to be with and then be with that person and pay child support to the other person because like it or not he now has 2 babies to support. Once the guy decides and makes it clear to all the situation should even out in time. Good luck.
WHAT'S YOUR QUESTION???
If you know where he is. Tell him that she is harrasing you and you would appreciate if he called her and told her to leave you a lone because he is not with you.
seems like you two could be friends long enough to find his hide out, I mean you both need now, for the children sake!!!
So now this guy is someone you want?





Oh well, just make sure he signs the birth certificate so you can get your share of the child support payments.
This man is a loser for leaving his wife and ill child. I hope the only interaction that you have with him is a child support attorney. You would be stupid to have any other contact with him whether you have his child or not. You and the other Mom need to be helping each other out, not squabbling over some jerk that would do such a thing as leave a baby that HE made, that is sick and if you encourage him to do this you are just as bad.
when she calls explain





i will only speak with you only in a calm rational matter and if you cant do this i will hang up and block your number





id like to explain and or discuss some issuses i have if you are willing to let me speak without being interupted





tell you are infact pregnant as well and then what ever





and if she acts irrational hang up call the police and send her a certified letter telling her not call you again or legal action will be taken





and change your number
Tell her that you are not in the relationship with him and her. Also, tell her that you are pregnant and that you do not deserve the stress. Really, its her problem not yours.