Situation with wife - need advice, anyone know the law?

In 1999 my wife was employed at a small local bank, there was a thing happening with her cousin and one bad decision lead to another. She made mistakes and compounded these, it all ended by her committing a fraud for $250,000. she was never caught and deeply regrets this. It was just a situation that over whelmed her and she ended up doing things for her cousin that she was not happy with and didn't realise how it would escalate.





She told me all this about 3 years ago when we first got engaged. She had left her employer and moved state, that's how we met . I have extensive documents and statements etc that show exactly what happened.





I have now met a nice 22 year old, great figure - like a pistol in bed, you know the type. Unfortunately i never got my wife to sign a pre-nup. Question is should i report her to state or federal police, is there a statue of limitations on this and how will it safeguard e in the divorce?Situation with wife - need advice, anyone know the law?
I think you're completely full of crap, especially given your other questions. Anyway... assuming you're not f.o.s., it is wrong in any situation to abuse someone's trust by turning them in to the police. For anything aside from murder, rape or child molestation. She told you some things in confidence and assumed you would not abuse her trust. Don't do it. Go live your life, enjoy your pistol before she leaves you for someone else, and let your ex be.Situation with wife - need advice, anyone know the law?
That sounds like she was open with you and now you are going to abuse her intimacy.





What was said to you in confidence should remain confidential.





You are married, and you need to take care of your obligation to her, not try to blackmail her out of what she is entitled to.





This is very selfish behavior on your part. You cheated and now you are trying to get out of it smelling like a rose. Smells a little more like something else to me.





I pity your wife.
If you report her ; you will be admitting to knowledge and you will be proving that you knew by the hard copy evidence. You will be held as a co-conspirator after the fact. You may be able to bargain for a lighter sentence but you will not receive immunity due to the length of time that you withheld the info and your motivation for reporting it. She won't get half of anything because both of you will have all of your assests seized.
No you should not don't be a dick. She told you because she trusted you at the time don't be so callous coz what goes aroung comes around. Come to a private agreement with her and I hope the pistol fires blanks.


By the way you are an accessory after the fact, the police may even charge you so beware what you wish for .
when you both have lawyers tell her attorney you can prove fraud. 250000 is grand larceny and she would be lookin at about 10yrs jailtime. she wont go after ur stuff-believe me.There is no statute limiting or mitigating felonious embezzlement.Tell her attorney she simply cannot enjoy your money while in federal prison.
even if she did sign the pre-nup, she would still get half because by you saying the 22 yr old is a pistol in bed it goes to say you have committed adultery which would take the pre-nup and make it basically void.





be a man for goodness sake not a heartless ******
oh so for a easy divorce you want to toss her in jail ....





no matter where she lives hun your not getting everything ...


you cheated .....








you therefore ......would have made any prenuptial invalid ..





Best of luck cutting your house in two





OH yeah did I forget to mention .......your now a partner in crime for not reporting it before marriage ..





have fun with your cell mates
I don't think there is a statute of limitations on a federal offense, bank robbery is a federal offense is it not? I would tell the FBI and to hell with her. I could no sooner share a bed with a thief as i could a dog.
Are you really serious... WOW.. Do you realize, you admitted to with holding evidence in a felony crime? Now U want to use against your wife? Really.... Do you know U can get in as much trouble as her, just for hanging onto to that, and what ur planning on using it for is considered BLACMAIL ?? Stop, Drop, and THINK!!! Your using the wrong head!!!
you will have to say you have just recently came across the information, then it's your word against hers and she is a known thief. No statue of limitations, a fedral crime. Tell her lawyer and your money is safe.
Cant you just be happy with your new bit of stuff? This poor woman, you cheat on her, and this isn't enough? Instead of just doing the right thing you want to destroy her life????


Just get the divorce, and move on.
Thats very low down.You shoudnt snitch on your wife!You are married and she should get half of everything.Your should be ashamed and if your not then you are a boy not a man.A man would never treat a woman like that.
no you should not report her,just to get back at her.that is wrong.she regrets what she did and told you this in good faith.let her start a new life and you get on with yours.
So basically you are going to stitch up your wife to get out of the marriage cos you've met a younger model? Classy
WTF, to be honest u r really a jerk! when ur wife gets into trouble u not only opt out but do cradle snatching as well. she was honest to u, u knew it and u still married her then u get out at the first sign of trouble?! what happened through going through the thick and thin of life with ur wife. u r not even fit to be with either women. safeguard my ***, young wives are not necessarily good things coz u'll be a bald perverted old man b4 u noe it.
This is a total disconnect. What does her past, a pre-nup, and how things stand now have anything to do with each other? It sounds like you want to blackmail her (which is also a crime, in case you haven't caught on to that yet). If that's the case, it makes you a bigger slimeball than she will ever be on her worst day.





No, don't report her - what would really be served several years down the road? And yes there is a statute of limitations which varies with each state, but it likely is shorter than 10 years. If you do report her, and it is shown that you knew about this before the limitations ran out, I believe it makes you an accessory (also a crime, Einstein).





Let's see, a 22-year-old, a great figure, and a pistol in bed. Sounds like a match made in heaven, who will likely break your heart. You should let us know when you start thinking with your OTHER head - the one just above your neck.
Why now, why didn't you report her when she first told you. The best thing that came out of this for her is you are no longer in her life. You don't sound like a very nice person. Black mail is also a crime and so is knowing about a crime and not reporting it. But, you will get yours from the 22 year old when she cheats on you and leave you for someone her own age. It's called pay back, it's a b**ch.
You did not report the fraud when it happened..Were you not party to it, directly or indirectly...At least you hid it when it suited you and now for your other motive you want to report to authority..If you were so law-abiding you should have done it when you came to know it...Not now for depriving her the alimony...Put yourself in her shoes and think afresh...You are not trustworthy...Tell your new Friend that this is your nature and then see whether she trusts you or not...Then decide what to do...
you know what?


you should tell the police....


then you go and have a happy life with that 22 year old you have met!


You Deserve some fun after keeping that secret bottled up.


so..... enjoy yourself!