It is ok to have a relation with the man that have already a wife and baby? advice me plz.....................

it is ok to have a relation with the man that have already a wife and baby? advice me plz.....................It is ok to have a relation with the man that have already a wife and baby? advice me plz.....................
yes...it's fine. I say go for it.It is ok to have a relation with the man that have already a wife and baby? advice me plz.....................
Am I the only one who thinks this is a Troll question?
NO its not ok!! Would you want to be treated like that and why would you want be with a ';man'; that treats his wife like that . Do you think that if he leaves his wife that he wouldnt do the same to you.
Surely you can come up w/ better questions than this?? LMAO....the answer is very simple:





HELL NO!
No its not okay. You need to let him be a daddy and a husband. How would you feel if you were his wife? You need to put yourself in her shoes.
No, it's adultery.
I would look for another guy, a single guy first. But, if you have a need and he has a need and you meet each others needs, then you have to decide what to do, One thing, He won't leave his wife, so, even if he says he will, don't believe it. Be happy with part time or find someone else. good luck!
Put yourself in the wifes shoes..would you want your husband screwing around on you If you were married and had a kid? People have no morals anymore....whats the world coming to?
Why would it be ok?


Would it be ok if you were his wife or his child???
chen, I am not sure by the responses to your question if you stated it properly. Are you saying it is alright to be with a man that has a child and wife but are no longer are together?(separated)
no and come on, this is common sense, if you had a husband and child, would you want some hussie sleepin with your man? no, the answer is no.
No it is not ok because you are breaking up a happy home.If he really loves you he will leave alone what about his baby.You have to think about his family
If they are not together anymore yeah it's ok but if they are let them have their space and work at their problems....you don't want to be the reason he leaves her. Also, when you get into a relationship with a guy who has a baby no matter who keeps the child most of the time you will be a big impact on that child and she/he will look up to you. My little boy was only 1month when I started seeing my boyfriend of three years now...it was hard on him at first b.c we had to think of him all the time and couldn't just run and do whatever. But he is use to it now and understands and if you ask my son that is his daddy. So just becareful!
Is wrong, but all situations are diffrent, Maybe he really loves you, and he doesnt loves his wife anymore, is up to you, is a risk you have to take and I think you know hwter he loves you or not.


I've been in both sides, or 3 I guess,


1. First my babys father what cheating on me, and this ckick said that he told her lies that we were together because I was craze etc, so he wouldnt leave or leave her, but I was the one that was getting hurt the most, because I had to see him everyday.


2.Then I was with this married man that told me he was getting a divorce, it was all sexual, later on i discovered that he was still with the wife and I keept the thing with him and the wife was not a bad peron she did nothing to him he was just a cheater, so I got pregnant, he still with his wife and me, well my husband adopted my child, and the bio dad probably doesnt even think about us, so in this situaton I was wrong, I should have gotten as far away from this guy as I could.


3. and third my current husband we started before he was divorce, but it was kind of like long distance realationship, he had a baby with the now ex, BUT she cheated on him and she told him about it and after that I guess he decided that he wanted to try it with me, eventually he fel in love with me and couldnt take the crap from the ex, divorces her @ss and married me and adopted my lil one, so in this case we are not wrong and the ex totally is, she cheated and deserves what happend to her. Besides love overcome anything, and the ex was a big mistake.


So I gave you my 3 scenarios, which one are you, and who you want to be, Thats something you have to ask yourself.


Good luck!!!











Note: if he is cheating on her doesnt mean that he'll do that to you, maybe he just doesnt love her anymore, nothing is forever, remember that.
No it's not cool, but you're probably going to do it anyways. Just know he's not going to leave her for you... and, if he does it to her, he will def do it to you... find a single man.
Why would that ever be OK?





Take care,


Troy
Oh man, you're really asking for it now that you opened a can of worms. Be prepared to get bombarded.
NO! Are you crazy? You are only going to get hurt in the end. Why settle for seconds? Get you own man.
You dont sound too bright...........obviously it is NOT ok. Find your own man............he's married........hello................
no no pls
I wouldn't because I would have more respect for myself to choose a relationship with someone that is free and single and that believes in commitment and not a man that thinks to cheat on his wife and baby. I would not let a married man use me for a little sex on the side and be flattered that he is using me like that! I would stay as far away from him as I could because you deserve more than that and he would be a cheater and a loser!!
my advice to you is don't be trashy.
NO, and if he'll do it with you, he'll do it to you.


there is no future for you there, find someone who is available
well.......... how big he be down in the shorts BABY??? huh!?? daaaaaaamn yous a hoe fo sho'
never. one of my dearest friends was in this same situation on the other side (the mother w/ the kid) and when she found out (i.e. when the on the ';family'; answering machine, the flight company announced the travel plans for MR..husband and Ms Lady He Was Cheating with in the kitchen with the origional wife present and her kids.... the family has broken up and no one is speaking. The kids hate men and their father. The woman, while she may not be a tramp, certainly now has that reputation.


It is never OK to have a relationship with a married man. NEVER.
No...how would you feel if you were his wife?...
to even ask this question proves how dumb you are. Have you heard of common sense.
I guess if he's willing and you actually feel the need to ask the question....go for it...you're made for each other...
uh no!.... why would you even ask a question like that! how could you even think about something like that especially when their is a baby!!!
Of course not! Why the hell would you even ask such a thing? HELLO! Do you have any morals?





That's just plain stupid!
if you are asking a question it should be ';is it okay'; it looks like you answered the question subconsciously.


No it is not okay to have a sexual relationship with a married person with children. and just because I am a big 'b' I would tell his wife what kind of dog she married. she probably already knows but she might not. Morally that is. some people have a open relationship and do that sort of thing all the time I think they are called swingers.