Need advice about wife. PLEASE HELP?

I found out my wife had cheated on me. After that instance i tried to work it out with her however when she came home she never quit seeing this guy. she would lie to me about what happened, leave me, then came back two other times. The final time she came back i was able to find out that she was pregnate and did not know how the father is. She left again, with this other guy, and has been seeing him for two months. She wants to come back once again but now my trust in her is non existent. I do love her. Well, i did take her back but yesterday i found out she had talked to him. We talked last night and she says she wants me and her to be a familiy and that it is over with this other guy. What should i do file for divorce, try again, wait and see what happens. Im lostNeed advice about wife. PLEASE HELP?
She is going to continue playing you and cheating on you with this other man for as long as you allow it to happen. You've let her cheat and come back at least four times and she may be pregnant with this man's baby.





She doesn't have to take responsibility because you always forgive her and take her back. For her it's the perfect situation because she can have the best of both worlds. She's taking advantage of you.





Stand up for yourself. It's way past time. If you wait around to see what happens, then it's your own fault if she goes back to this man again.Need advice about wife. PLEASE HELP?
You are the hen with the golden eggs. She needs a father for her ';have no clue who the real father is'; baby.





Take her back, raise her child, put on an apron and get tested for aids each month
File for divorce. You will always be strung along as long as you keep taking her back. You deserve someone who knows FOR SURE they want to be with you and only you.
Iam sorry but if she left you and came back then I would feel that I was not that important in her life. I would have a real problem with trust after all that!
dude i was there....how much longer do you have to go thu it till u realize she isn't worth it. Why wait look what you wrote. She is ****** up and u didnt need that. no one does. Ive moved on and it feels great. Do it and be sad for a little bit then go out and do the same.
File for divorce ASAP, otherwise your just wasting your life. And when the kid is born, have them tested to see if you are the father.





She has lied to you a million times now, people don't change, do you think she is going to? There is no magic in this world, just a bunch of smoke and mirrors.
Wow. Why would you be with this woman? She is an untrustworthy, manipulative and plotting witch! She wants her cake and to eat it too, and people dont change unless they want to. Chances are, she wont and she is trying to appease you. Have you considered that she is only saying this because she does not know who the father is or if he can support her and her child? She is USING YOU! Regardless, she is just using you! Please think long and hard about staying with this woman...Get a DNA test and go from there. But sweetheart, you can find a good woman who deserves you, and this one doesnt and has shown that time and time again by making you 2 inches tall and making you look like a fool. If you really want to be with her then you will have to take things slow and dont invest too much into a reconciliation, it will most likely end badly....Wait for a DNA test, but if you KNOW its not yours....Then...I have to say that trying this again is a bigger risk than you should take. Its not your fault if you ask for a divorce, this woman screwed you over time and time again so dont let her manipulate you anymore! Leave her. Or at least file for separation to test the waters further if you stay together.
It sounds like you are her safe place. You can not let her continue to take advantage of you. I know you care about her but its time to start caring about yourself more. She has no respect for you-don't you see that? Don' t let her continue to play you for a fool. Minimally file for a legal separation to protect you assets. When the baby is born DO NOT let her put your name on the birth certificate! Wait until after paternity tests because you would be responsible even if it wasn't yours. You are obviously the more stable of the 2 men so she is going to keep running back if you let her.
Now she wants to be a family now that it is over with her other guy? What kinda sh*t is that? You as her husband should have been her first choice, but obviously she's been putting you on the back burner, and now that it didn't work out with her other man, she wants to come back. She is only doing this to you b/c you let her. She knows that she can go off and f*ck another man and you will be right there when she is finished. Think about that, this woman let some other man put his penis in what is suppose to be YOUR vagina. And then she would have the nerve to keep coming back to you and letting you hit it too. You need to leave her alone, get a DNA test on that baby, and move on. How can she be so sorry, so many times? She doesn't care, she is laughing at you behind your back because you are so easy to manipulate. Find a woman who isn't going to take advantage of your kindness.
she leaves, comes back, you take her back, she leaves, comes back, you take her back, she leaves, comes back, you take her back, she leaves, comes back, you take her back.......... how long are you willing to let this cycle last? she doesn't know if you are the father of her child?!?!


i hear some papers rustling.... oh wait that;s the sound of divorce paperwork.......





oh and when the kid is born get a paternity test and if it's yours be there for the kid, not her
from the bottom of my heart. i am soo sorry for what you are going through but you need to leave.





been there





good luck
I would do a trial seperation and make her prove he's out of her life, if you love her. If the love is gone, dump her cheating a**.