My stubborn pregnant wife, little advice please?

Well, my wife insists that we go to the docs for her delivery. But, I'm saying she should have a 100% natural birth. . Because my dog, had her pups naturally with no help. So, why can't we do the same with her? Because it's natural...





Not to worry, my wife is at perfect physical condition and breeding age. But to bad she is still being stubborn about it. Any advice on how I can convince her, that she needs to do a 100% natural delivery with no help from no one?My stubborn pregnant wife, little advice please?
Just because she is healthy physically, there is no guarantee nothing will go wrong. What happens if the cord is wrapped around the baby's neck, or the labour goes for too long and she's too exhausted to push or the baby comes out facing the wrong way? Do you know how to be a midwife? Will you have the house completely clean so that there is no risk of infection? Do you know how to remove the placenta properly to guard against severe internal bleeding and death? Exactly what qualifications do you have that make you such an expert on what a woman ';needs'; during childbirth?





What a woman needs is a safe, clean, healthy environment full of professionals who are qualified and trained to do the absolute utmost to make sure mother and baby are healthy and happy.





It sounds like you provide none of those things. In fact I would say that you need to back off with what YOU (yes, it's blatantly obvious you aren't thinking of her) need and listen to the mother of your unborn child when it comes to what SHE needs and wants during childbirth. This is not about you. It's about the baby. Deal with it and stop being so selfishly dumb.





P.S. I have heard of nature. I have already outlined all the things that can NATURALLY go wrong. Doctors don't cause any of them. I also have a healthy respect for when things go wrong. It is your job as a parent to ensure your child's life is not in any danger. Natural selection can cause unforeseeable events to hinder the efforts of ANY childbirth which can end in permanent disability and death.





You asked for advice - we've all given it. Don't come back at us with unintelligent insults because we're telling you what you don't want to hear. You need to get over yourself and respect your wife's wishes, you chauvinistic troglodyte.My stubborn pregnant wife, little advice please?
Okay, go walk over to your front door and slam your balls in it -- hopefully you will do permanent damage because you should not be breeding. Also, take your dog down to the pound and give it up, because you really shouldn't be ';caring'; for anything.





I can't believe you compared your pregnant wife to your dog. Sick. Seriously, how did you get married??? Also, you mentioned she was ';breeding age';. WTF? Did you marry a dog? No wait, your dog is better than your wife in your opinion because she birthed her pups 100% on her own.





Allow me to spell this out for you please. Child birth hurts. A lot. So many things can go wrong, and God forbid something does, are you willing to sacrifice the well being of your wife or baby simply because your DOG had puppies on her own? Even in the middle ages they had mid-wives to assist with the delivery. Humans aren't dogs, we need help having our babies. Your wife isn't being stubborn, she's being smart. At least the baby will have one responsible parent.
Sorry to say but for the best for your baby she needs a professional there to help her. If something goes wrong neither of you will know what to do. People are not dogs. Think about how big a puppy is compared to a newborn baby...very different. And im sorry to say but your not the one giving birth, she is. She is not being stubborn just because she wants to have her baby delivered by professionals and know if something goes wrong she is surrounded by people who know what to do. Untill the day you have to give birth id leave it up to her.
Your wife should be somewhere where she is comfortable during labor. Some women choose to be at home, that is ultimately her decision. Do you think you would be of any help if something went terribly wrong? On average and ambulance wouldn't get their for at the least 5min, but more like 10. Would you be able to handle an emergency situation. Although terrible, these are things to think about. She is the one delivering the child, it is her body, let her do it where she is most comfortable. With her hormones raging, I would not be pestering her, not a good idea!
okay its nothin wrong with you wanting her to go natural, but she can do so at the hospital or have someone come to your home while she delivers. anything could go wrong during birth. Ihad all 4 of my children natural but with two of my babies the ambiblical cord went around their neck and heart rate started falling. not to scare you but if they didnt shift me the right way and the heart rate didnt go back up i would have been rushed to c section. You cant judge if something wrong is happening while she is in labor and neither can she.You dont want dead baby coming out of her. yall would loose your heads. SO THINK TWICE PLEASE.
WTF!? Are you serious? Did you time travel here from the 1800's?





There are so many things that could possibly go wrong during delivery, why would you not want it supervised by medical professionals in a safe medical environment? Because your dog did it, it's good enough for your wife? Wow!





I'm sorry, but you're a selfish douchebag.
Did you know she was so willful before you married her? Some women are good at that sort of deception.





I think you should get a vet to talk to her. Then maybe a historian -- after all, our foremothers did fine without all the rigmarole of doctors and hospitals.





If she still won't listen, threaten divorce. That's something a pregnant women won't want to face, so it may force her to listen to reason.





Best of luck to you.
at home is fine if u have the people there to help if something goes wrong. try to tell her that she can give it her all at the hospital, and if she can't take the pain that god gave us the ability to, then she can get an epidermal. after all, he chose women to give birth.
First of all your wife is not a dog. Second of all, if you want her to go all natural get on the bandwagon yourself maybe get creative with a watermelon. If it doesn't hurt you then you can tell her to go all natural.
I would suggest to her she get a husband that actually loves her.