Wife, mother & lesbian - ADVICE WANTED?

Hi as the question suggests I am a woman, married to a man with a young baby girl to think of. I love my husband and we are very happy in all aspects of are relationship, but I am a closeted lesbian, I really want to know where I can meet other lesbians married to men, so that I can strike up friendships with people I can talk to openly.... nothing more than a friendship, just someone to talk to ....Wife, mother %26amp; lesbian - ADVICE WANTED?
You will be able to sympathise with the fact that lesbians like me will come across as deeply suspicious about your motives.


You see, I am not saying that coming to terms with a different sexuality is not stressful, scary and difficult, but lesbianism is not a tacky little hobby to have when sitting neatly in a 'picture postcard hetero' marriage! Before you hurtle headlong into screwing lots of people's life up...yours, your child's, your husband and any potential girlfriend you may end up with try being honest with yourself, and others first.





However, if this is simply an elaborate bi curious fest go for it, but equally be honest, and do not expect the lesbians you play with to be too bothered about the 'sanctity' of your marriage!Wife, mother %26amp; lesbian - ADVICE WANTED?
Girlfriend, it sounds like you really aren鈥檛 too sure and may be just experiencing a little burn out with your present partner. As the other answerers have alluded, there鈥檚 a lot more to being a lesbian than just some occasional girl on girl action. If I were you I鈥檇 do some deep soul searching because the damage this could do to your marriage is irreversible. If you still love your husband tell him you鈥檇 like to try some new things in the bedroom. If he鈥檚 got an open mind maybe you can enjoy watching some girl on girl porn together - - have him take notes so he can work on his technique!





If you just want to talk to some lesbians you can email any of us anytime you like!





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Most LESBIANS could not be happy in ALL aspects of a heterosexual relationship... if you know what I mean.





If youre bisexual and looking for some girl on girl on the side, that's different... but your question misrepresents you.





You'll have to find a local place if you want to find a married woman who likes women on the side.





They are not that common and your area would be too specific for us to know anything.





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First of all, if you were a lesbian, why did you get married to a man?


Know matter if you were in the closet, you should have come out of the closet a long time ago.
You can't love a man romantically and be a lesbian at the same time ... you'd have to be bisexual. unless you only love him at a friend or a brother.
Although this book is about lesbian relationships you may find something of interest.


http://www.booksurge.com/And-Then-I-Met-鈥?/a>


Rose P
u should come out to your husband as a bisexual and then maybe go to some local lesbian gay clubs and hook up. the women u meet probllyarent all married to men, but women are women.
I think this is a good start.And I support you in your endeavors.Good Luck.I am hetro if your wondering.
Join a bi chat group , most big towns have such meetings -