Cheated on wife - Any advice?

I cheated on my pregnant wife with a co-worker. I am not happy about it, but I have a strong sexual motor and my wife is not into sex right now since she is 7 months pregnant. She asked where I was last night and said my shirt smelled like perfume. Now she is not speaking to me. I am thinking of confessing. She has to understand my sexual motor and I simply cannot go without it for more than a week. Advice?Cheated on wife - Any advice?
I have advice...please tell your wife she needs to find a man who respects her and to get a divorce as quickly as possibleCheated on wife - Any advice?
Confess and hope she forgives you


nobody cares about your ';sexual motor';
Confess because if you continue to lie to her then She will Not trust you at all. By the way be prepared to have to change JOBs now. There's NO way in H*LL I would let you keep working with this lady.





By the way, NEXT TIME TAKE YOUR SORRY A** TO THE BATHROOM AND RELIEVE YOURSELF. A lot least drama and pain that way. Seriously REMEMBER YOU ARE THE JERK WHO KNOCKED YOUR WIFE UP......DO YOU REALLY THINK SHE WANTS TO LOOK LIKE A WHALE AND FEEL SICK. I don't think so. But she does it anyway. So the least you can do for her is RESPECT her during this SHORT 9 months and NOT cheat on her. DANG THAT WAS SO SELFISH OF YOU. Better straighten up before becoming a father. That type of selfish behavior has got to change.





BOY DID YOU JUST GET AN A** WHOOPING HERE ON ANSWERS. GOOD THING YOU DON'T HAVE US ALL RIGHT BEHIND YOUR WIFE WHEN YOU TELL HER. LOL





Seriously now - YOU MADE A MISTAKE, JUST FIX IT AND BE A BETTER HUSBAND. The PAIN your going to see your wife go through because of this STUPID choose is going to feel like H*LL for you. But STEP up face the MUSIC and PROMISE to change. Maybe she will forgive you. Better start looking for another job. Because you cant be seeing this lady anymore period.
Either you are extremely selfish, or you don't love your wife enough to be looking at this other woman. Do you really think that you are the only one who needs sex? Pa-leeese! Are you depressed or a sex addict? True love should have told you to sacrifice your ';needs';. Childbirth is an extreme sacrifice of your wife.





You are morally obligated to tell her. There are ST D's to consider. And do not touch your wife again until you are tested for HIV and ST D's too. All it takes is one night.





Beg your wife for forgiveness. And for God's sake, masturbate!!!!!
Sorry but that is BS and you know it. You have a pregnant wife with YOUR baby and you think its ok to have sex with another woman? You'd better confuse and be prepared for a divorce and child support for the next 18 yrs.





How in the world can you do something that hurtful for your own selfish reasons???
Ur a PIG
you need to confess to your wife, it needs to be said other wise it will eat you away if you feel bad about it. it shouldn't matter if you have a strong sexual motor or not... she is your wife and you are suppose to be commited to her through hard times. she is definatly not going to like what she hears and you might end up splitting up. next time, you should have talked to her about this first. you both could have came up with a solution. if she did you a sexual favor you could do something for her. marriage isn't just about sex, its about loving and staying commited to each other... she shouldn't be withholding sex from you if its not dangerous, but then you should have talked to her about it. she isn't going to understand your sexual motor, and she probably won't forgive you. and honestly if she does well then you got very lucky... if my husband cheated on me he'd be gone, and he has told this to me too. good luck!
Did it ever occur to you that you could infect your wife and potentially your baby as well with an STD?! You are the ultimate selfish pig %26amp; I hope your wife kicks you to the curb where you belong. Grow up already!
My advice...be a better person. You have a strong sexual motor and can't go more than a week? That's the lamest excuse I have ever heard. And you top it with a cherry when you say she's seven months pregnant with your child. I hope she dumps your sorry ***. I hope you like seeing your children every other weekend, cause that's what you are in for now that you ruined your family.
Thats no excuse to cheat, you could;ve just got a hand job from her or done it yourself.
You expect her to understand you but you clearly do not understand her. She is not in the mind set to have sex while she is seven months pregnant. But instead of understanding her needs you went a gave in to yours. I would assume that the only reason you are confessing is to let it be known that you like having sex and can not go longer than a week and it would also be telling her that you plan to cheat again if she does not have sex with you within that time frame. Just turn all this around and think of how you would feel if you had a valid reason to not want to have sex and your wife cheated on you and only confessed, not to make things right but to let you know that she will be doing it again if you do not live by her rules.
Yes, by all means confess to her.
Whoa baby! Ever seen pregnant rage? I think you're gonna! :)





Good luck with the confession!
It was your motor that got her pregnant. Turn the motor off, or learn other methods to turn your wife's motor on.
Are you using her pregnancy as an excuse because when I was pregnant with my 3 children I couldn't get enough sex right up until the night I had them. WTF sexual motor - you sound like a real jerk.
confess you wussy.





i STRONGLY suggest you don't blame your PREGNANT wife for your adultery.





what are you a child?! you can't substain from sex during your wife's pregnancy?! lord. grow up.





personally, i think you did a really crappy thing and i hope she doesnt forgive you because you dont sound like you really give a crap; you sound like a horny teenager. and here i thought you were a man, but i guess i'm wrong...and so is your wife. i feel so bad for her.





confess you freaking wussy. maybe you'll actually redeem yourself....i doubt though.
you say no big deal....i hope she leaves you...(its not big deal too)!
I feel so sorry for your wife, As for You and Your sexual motor as you call it! I hope you get all thats coming to you!
If you're the type of guy who can't go without sex for 2 seconds, You should NOT get married at all. the fact that you have to come on here and ask us if you should or shouldn't tell her, only tells me you have NO common sense or respect for your own wife or even for your unborn child. sex means sooooo much to you thenlove, commitment and your marriage that you would sleep with another woman. you're not a man, you're a dog that drools. and you didn't marry your wife for love, you married her body.





whether you tell her or not, she is going to find out one way or the other. people here can tell you ';no don't tell her unless you want to hurt her'; but in reality, you already did. you betrayed her in the worst possible way. either tell her and spare her some pain, or let her find out from another source and cause her even MORE pain. up to you.















































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you are the STUPIDEST husband that i have ever cross. what the hell do you mean its NO BIG DEAL? you cheated on your wife. how can you claim to feel bad but you say its no big deal? would it be no big deal if your wife left you because you were stupid and WEAK to not reject temptation? dude you are NOT the type to marry because you simply WILL not commit. divorce your wife and dont ever commit to a woman, because you are too weak to do it. this is ONE of the major reasons why i'm afraid to be with a man, becuase you guys can't keep your dain pants on. its all about sex sex sex to you guys.
Your ';sexual motor'; is simply an excuse, you are not a wild animal and are perfectly capable of controlling your decisions.You should confess and accept whatever the outcome, avoid excuses and understand that in life, there will always be consequences to our actions.





I wish you luck, next time exercise self control, or masturbate.
Use your hand and some self control. You want a baby-momma? STOP IT! please.


You do need to tell her but I'd ask her doctor on advice on if it's OK to depending on her state. You DONT need to explain your ';sexual motor'; to her it will mean NADA! Way to go romeo-made your bed, now lie in it.
what goes around comes around ... remember that.
What are you going to do when your wife can't have sex for 6 weeks after she gives birth. I think you are being selfish, and a total jerk. Considering that you are the reason she's pregnant, and don't want to have sex. I think you better buy you some KY yours and hers, or youy may find yourself by yourself. If you tell her you know she will have grounds for a divorce.
Oh dear.


Do you think that you could have masturbated instead of cheating with a co-worker. Dogs are dogs because they cannot masturbate but you could. Cheating should never be the final answer.


Why were you not man enough to tell her before you cheated you whimp.
You're not happy about it? How do you think she is going to feel when she finds out? I hope your sexual motor blows a gasket and you can't use it anymore.
You think you would at least have the decency to feel guilty over betraying your wife who is carrying your child and is going to give birth to your child. And for what your hormones...shoulda played with it yourself, it will cost less in the long run.


I will tell you that FOR SURE, that if you do not squeal on yourself now, she will know anyways. Women always do.


You will either give in to the temptation again with this coworker who is just as disgusting as you b/c she has to know you are married, or your wife will find evidence. And if you piss off the coworker, she might even squeal for you...did you think of that?


Iam also guessing that this is not the first time either, because you are beginning to get careless, and it does not really bother you.


As for being no big deal, you couldnt be more wrong...do you even know the kind of emotional damage a cheating spouse causes. It may have meant nothing to you but to her it will mean the end of her world.
well mate there is not much to say but **** she pregnant how do you think she feels ,it is not about you any more you should be looking after her and her needs.when you have the baby what then because you you need ... the baby will end up with some other dad.if you tell her it will break her and say good bye to your family for good.go **** it instead of losing your family sex is not worth not see your baby grow up in a happy save family is it.
CONFESS YOU JACK *** JEEZ!!!!!! your wife is pregnant and all you can do is go have sex with another woman! just because you have a sex drive is not an excuse! you need to confess and hope she understands. just be real for her, and comfort her during her pregnancy
Good for you.





Did your wife buy you an engagement ring worth 2-3 months of after tax savings which takes any working man a WHOLE YEAR of his life to earn??? Did your wife buy you a house?? A car?





Would she make you APOLOGIZE if you did something NICE for her on Feb 15th instead of the 14th????





Then DON'T feel bad - or think you should ';apologize'; - about getting yourself a little trim on the side.





Most of the time women EXPECT you to be working your *** off to fulfill their ';needs'; --%26gt;%26gt;%26gt; WITH ZERO REGARD FOR YOURS.





Even a pregnant wife with NO desire to get her husband off will attempt to ';blame'; the man she PRETENDS to ';love'; for wanting sex with his wife. And that very same woman will try and call him a ';cheater'; if he gets it somewhere else.





Please.





Think about it.





Cheers and ENJOY!





And PS! --%26gt;%26gt; just make sure you don't leave your wife for the chick at the office. IT'S A BAD IDEA to bang a girl at work! Do not do that. Why? because if you keep doing that it will go bad and she WILL threaten to tell your wife.... and maybe even make up some story about sexual harrassment or some sh!t..... which will be impossible for you to disprove because you DID sleep with her.





Then you're life is OVER.





If you're gonna get some trim on the side,


Get it from a girl who does NOT work with you.





Do NOT put yourself in a position where a woman has any advantage over you. Female co-workers LOVE to sleep with guys they work with for exactly this reason.
I am the other woman in my situation. I have a question, What did you the two of you do the past six and half months. See its men like you who make it hard for a woman like me. I don't apologize for what I've done. But I don't lie about it either.